Because I can see Leah doing a covert dance routine here, to protect her image, I am going to give explanation to the reason why I want her to stay off my threads.
Leah follows me around the board reading up whatever I post and then following up with indirect posts and threads.
She posts threads in passive or covert response to my threads, knowing full well that I will be annoyed yet know one else will see what she is doing.
She is like the school room bully who picks on the good kid when know one is looking and then when the good kid tries to stand up themselves the bully pulls the victim act card.
Most of the time I ignore her.
Basically Leah has targeted me because I can see under her mask and her mask is everything for her, she has no core.
Leah in sneaky covert ways tries to paint the picture that she is the victim:
Confronted with this contrast between a polished, self-controlled, and suave abuser and her harried casualties - it is easy to reach the conclusion that the real victim is the abuser. The prey's acts of selectiveness, assertiveness, or insistence on her rights are interpreted as aggression, liability, or a mental health problem.
Abusers are thought by practitioners of psychology to be emotionally disturbed, the twisted outcomes of a history of familial violence and childhood traumas. They are typically diagnosed as suffering from a personality disorder, an inordinately low self-esteem, or codependency coupled with an endeavouring fear of abandonment. Consummate abusers use the right vocabulary and feign the appropriate "emotions" and affect and, thus, sway the evaluator's judgment.
Why does Leah rush to protect her image so much?
Bullies are adept at distorting peoples' perceptions with intent to engender a negative view of their target in the minds of family members, neighbours, friends and people in positions of officialdom and authority; this is achieved through undermining, the creation of doubts and suspicions, and the sharing of false concerns, etc. This poisoning of people's minds is difficult to counter, however explaining the game in a calm articulate manner helps people to see through the mask of deceit and to understand how and why they are being used as pawns.
Sort of like my ambient abuse thread -- Leah's behavior here is deceptive and insidious.......to All.
People rarely want to admit that they have been had because it involves accountability as well as it simply means that we have to face the fact that well, we have been had.
So for those of you who have been bitten before by an N, you know how crazy making and utterly frustrating they are...they do not allow for safety for anyone.
