Oh you guys, thank you all so much, good friends.....
TT,
Yes, gifts, makes perfect sense to me.. I had the experience to be with my mom in her passing.. Oh what *gifts* I have ....She lived with me and passed in my house.... we had hospice and a book they gave me called Final Gifts... what a comforting book..
I was so scared.. so, so scared.. at first and maybe would have missed things... but the Final Gifts we both recv'd....was such a comfort and we both are at peace.. and the memories... it has changed me... it has changed my thinking...
In the end.. we both had comfort and peace.........and they do not die alone (even if we can't be there) someone is there for them from where they are going....they are never, never alone... what comfort.....and that was only one of my gifts she shared.. and I listened...
My H's M has *final gifts* he just is not aware of them yet..he will realize what they are.. he's grieving to hard right now.
Love
Deb