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lighter

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First day of October, cool and sunny
« on: October 01, 2008, 10:21:56 AM »
It's a nice start to what's usually my favorite month of the year.

We have lovely walking trails behind our place.... a deep creek with huge boulders running for miles and miles of well kept trails and scenic picnic spots scattered throughout.  This has me making plans for regular walks with the children..... such a nice shaded forest preserve and can walk to it.

The girls spend hours gathering stones and making up games and patterns with them.

One particular spot has a little stone span of rocks (cemented into place) over the creek where little feet can get wet and the rocks are easily reached. 

We call it Snake Rock :shock:

My habit is to make lots of noise, while smacking the bank and water with a stick, ahead of the children.  Trying to scare any cold blooded friends away, dont'cha know. 

I saw a pair of hikers who'd stopped to observe this ritual....

 thought about explaining it, then didn't.

Maybe I'll leave out the snake scaring songs, in the future.  ::nodding::

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Re: First day of October, cool and sunny
« Reply #1 on: October 01, 2008, 11:15:13 AM »
A few months back (prolly already told this tale) our "bug man" was checking our basement and a copperhead leapt out from beside the washing machine.

My toes have finally stopped curling every time I'm in the laundry room.

On a completely unrelated topic, I've begun hanging my laundry to dry on 4 long lines my dad installed in the big basement. (It's nicer outside, but I haven't hung a line yet.) I'm saving on electricity and enjoying the simple ritual of the clothespins, folding and such.

Sometimes they're wrinkly. But I'm still happy with this new habit.

I remember Mom had an old steam press...huge thing...remember standing beside her watching her feed wet white sheets through it, the smell of steamy bleach and detergent, how much I liked watching her work with her hands.

Always did like that best about her. Bread baking, sewing, etc.

Poor thing, now.

The other night I went by early and she was in the dining hall and the man beside us was in pain...I helped him reposition his arm but he was in a lot of pain and it distressed me. My mother looked at me and said, "It kills you not to be able to help, doesn't it." I nodded. She said, "I like that in you."

So that was a nice exchange.

And...the minister and his wife trimmed all the front hedges, and another man from church whom I'm sort-of-dating came over and helped me clear out the veggie beds (never got cool-weather crops in, will next year), mulch them with lovely leaf compost from the back woods (another former yard man had dumped bags of leaves back there--I was annoyed when I found them until I realized they had composted themselves into black gold), and dig up and mulch a very weedy area.

The front of the house looks great. My suburban dignity is restored!

I love my housemates. They are so kind and nice to be around.

I always whine about the onset of winter but October's not too bad, eh?

xo
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Re: First day of October, cool and sunny
« Reply #2 on: October 01, 2008, 06:57:13 PM »
Hops that is so nice to have that work done, having the help in your mindbogglingly  crazymaking time! I wine in October, too

lighter such nice pictures you paint with the things you do with the children. This is not a complaint, just another missed thing that could have been there but I had only 5 years with my D when I could take her skating, tobogganing, swimming, etc.

Afterward was something that had to be within my limit of accessibilty. I expect she knows that now when she saw me look after her first two children, and that just ran rough;y to the age I had with her: KC was 4½

There is a thought I read about--what happened to me at age 5--trauma about attending school is all I can think of, and the tears.

What happened to D at age 5...trauma losong her mommy and the tears!

What happened to KC at age 4½ (going on 5) loses his Grandma suddenly and I expect a bad explanation from his dad.


Can you track anything like that in 3-4 generations?

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Re: First day of October, cool and sunny
« Reply #3 on: October 01, 2008, 08:49:56 PM »
I love fall.  It has always been my favorite season--as a young person it was because it meant a return to school (and an end to, ahem, family vacation time). 

Here, Izzy, we literally wine in October.  I live in wine country, and the grapes are harvested from August (for sparkling) through mid-October (for still wines).  In September and October I spend much time canning my tomatoes, roasting and freezing peppers, etc.  My friends with farms start picking pumpkins for the kids (and, um, me) for Halloween (I live on the main street and it's quite a scene) and those with wineries have harvest parties, which I never miss because the Mexican guys and their wives cook.  If you have never had proper pollo mole, or carnitas cooked all day, words fail.  We have bonfires and pinatas for the kids.  And when you breathe outside, it's like taking a big sip of Cabernet because all the wine's fermenting in tanks.

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Re: First day of October, cool and sunny
« Reply #4 on: October 03, 2008, 08:40:04 AM »
g:  I'd love to see a detailed description of pollo mole and carnitas, cooked all day....

please.

Izz: Your life references are what they are.  When you share them...... I'm glad. 

Sharing.....

isn't complaining, my friend.

I want to disagree that there's anything in common with the trauma you experienced at 5yo and your d's.  You provided empathy and a life without abuse, for her..... with 5 years of "typical" able bodied sledding, skipping and running, to boot.

On the other hand, had your father been less able bodied..... you and your sibs would have likely suffered less physical abuse. 

I bet the cow, he punched out, would agree.

Hops.... picturing you busy and happy in the yard,with your house guests, is a very nice thought. 

You're such nurturing spirit and that's one of the things I admire about you.

So glad you have safe happy people enriching your life, right now.
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Re: First day of October, cool and sunny
« Reply #5 on: October 03, 2008, 08:57:20 AM »
A few months back (prolly already told this tale) our "bug man" was checking our basement and a copperhead leapt out from beside the washing machine.

My toes have finally stopped curling every time I'm in the laundry room.

xo
Hops


That reminds me of the "ritual" I perform, when hiking with the girls.

I walk ahead of them, when near the creek, and wack away at the bank and water till I'm sure there's no snakes around.

There really are a lot of those darned Copperheads in this State. 

Beautiful bright orange markings.... and a very fast swimmer. 

Thankfully, they've always been swimming AWAY, not towards.

At one point, during a bout of snake scaring, I looked up and saw two hikers, a man and a woman, standing on a bridge, watching me. 

I'm sure they wondered what the heck I was doing but they were too far away to yell an explanation comfortably.  Oh well.

I guess I might want to rethink my strategie....

aaaaaaand perhaps leave out the Snake Scaring Songs. 

::nod::

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