Hi lucky, your SD sounds a lot like ours too. It's funny, our teen SS doesn't seem to manifest anywhere near the number of anxiety-related health issues as our SD did through her teens, but he's also much closer to his Dad than she was. I guess stress always comes out somewhere. Sports and hiking an swimming are also terrific ways to releive stress, so maybe your husband might want to do stuff like that with her? My husband just did several early morning 6 mile hikes with SD recently when she was home on a break, and they both seemed to thoroughly enjoy that. We didn't stress over not seeing her much the rest of the time, since she still seems to feel pressured to spend the bulk of her time at her mom's.