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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #15 on: October 09, 2009, 09:06:15 PM »
Thanks tt,

Yes, I won't know about infection until Monday, but if the shaft is not 'attached' to the 'ball' I wonder what they are doing in there...waving around through my muscles causing the pain? Everything is a 'wait and see' with time.

I'm wondering what would happen to a 'walkie' who had this space between.....for weight bearing etc. I was thinking when all this was over, I would hire Karla for therapy to strengthen my quads for 'standing only' to reach the higher cupboards, to put the chair into the car, what I called a dropkick with the right while balanced on my left. No way now I guess.

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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #16 on: October 10, 2009, 12:27:52 AM »
I respect your realism but I refuse to think the worst outcome for you, Izz...

this may be a stupid query but is an artifical hip not a possibility?

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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #17 on: October 10, 2009, 12:57:22 AM »
Hi Hops,
Someone said,"It's lucky you were in a wheelchair already!" That might be true but was not a nice thing to say to me.

Dr. said this can be fixed but it would be extensive surgery, expensive too, I'll bet, and if I chose it, it would be part of my claim.....??...and I have yet to have details of procedure from my lawyer.

In essence if I were to heal, as if I had no space there and no pain and could move that leg as well as my right one, I would be back to March 26. But I am still healing from that.....

Right now I cannot imagine hip surgery when I no longer weight-bear, and haven't for 2 years. So all this is rambling through this sieve of a mind of mine. It'a a bit like my paranoia about going out and being struck by another car before I am healed from this one! First things first!

I don't like the numbers on elderly people and broken bones, especially hips, especially since there is nothing yet that I've found online when one is already not using hips, and also a smoker (which slows healing.) (My gal, Christine,
also looks after an elderly couple and he is 92 with a broken hip that was not even operated on (maybe his age?)

An artifical hip (hip replacement?) has a long waiting line, and a possibility, but I have to expect it is not a necessity in terms of my still living a life of independence. My doctor's and my lawyer's input will count here, but in another 6 months, when I will likely have all this healed, and I also want to know if the ball part will die. I don't want to be another horror story, more than I already am

Certainly not a stupid query as my thoughts are all over the map.
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« Last Edit: October 31, 2009, 04:12:50 PM by Izzy_*now* »
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #18 on: October 10, 2009, 08:10:47 AM »
love the old angel...thanks for that pic, Izzz....

shoe fits, hon.

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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #19 on: October 10, 2009, 10:14:56 AM »
Oh ((Izzy.))

::praying you receive the best possible care, from here on out::

It wouldn't make things fair.....

but it would be the best thing for you.

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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #20 on: October 10, 2009, 12:09:32 PM »




Hi Iz,

So many things about you to love and appreciate...

I love it that you don't allow just any old outcome to overtake you.  Instead you are diligent.  You do everything in your power to achieve the most appropriate outcome no matter how rough the going and no matter how many 'giants' roar at you. 

Love you,

tt





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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #21 on: October 10, 2009, 05:17:48 PM »


Izzy,

Infection from your old used wheel chair. Unbelievable. Now your hip bone!

If anyone can come from behind, more than once, twice I wont go on, YOU CAN!

I'm sorry this all has happen.

You are your best advocate, the clearest voice, you are amazing.

I hope you get physical therapy back.

Keep up posted.  Best seasons xo
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #22 on: October 10, 2009, 11:18:34 PM »
hi hops,

Ya the old angel...at least she is upright! I have but 2 positions, sitting and lying down.

hi Mo2

My lawyer and I will make things fair! After all, for 6 months, and more to come, I have but been awake and asleep, and when awake I eat, drink, watch one TV show, read and am on the computer all day. My floor at the computer is sagging! Today was trying to rid an error message that has been popping up, and aggravates me.....and always listen to Susan Boyle as she really cheers me with her haunting melodies (oh I used that phrase in one of my songs.)

Thanks tt

I've had all this accident crap throw at me for 40 years and I will fight to the death!....and I will not cry or whine! I take a logical route with whatever facts are presented, after studying them.

hiya seasons

When I think that the infection came from my old wheelchair that I had to use, because ICBC wanted my damaged one (which was stolen by the hospital and I said so) before giving me a loaner, I went into hospital again re the 2nd surgery and by now I had a loaner but the rep between me and ICBC came and took away the loaner, "just in case" and brought it back on my release date. Why would she do that unless she had some belief that I was telling the truth? I have no answer yet about "having no hip". I think if one bears weight on a leg like this the two bones would CRASH together and cause enormous pain! My lawyer used a term "medical necessity"--which it isn't because I don't bear weight... but I am still checking on useless bones that could die and , well...... more to come on that investigation!

I will likely get my physical therapy back, but it will be with a different approach, I'll bet!

Cheers All
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #23 on: October 11, 2009, 08:10:20 AM »
Hey Iz... (forgive me - I'm just getting caught up after some time away)...

I'm thinkin' you're on to something with the pain + hip problem connection. I mean, wouldn't that also throw your spine wonky? your tailbone? And after living through a year/two of sciatica... I can tell ya that there are LOTS of nerves around the spine that affect both the leg & arm on that side.

"Dem bones" serve the purpose of keeping everything "where it's supposed to be"... and if there's a big gap like you describe... there is inevitably pressure (where it's NOT supposed to be) that causes pain. Keep pursuing this research... I think you're on to something that the docs & specialists haven't thought of yet...

go get 'em, Tiger!

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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #24 on: October 11, 2009, 02:55:42 PM »
Thanks PR,

I mind is trying to wrap itself around this no hip to leg connection. Being in a wheelchair (more or less) for 40 years, do you think I can remember what the hip does? NOPE!  I see the Internet often refers to the femur, long thigh bone as a hip bone. I was making some pics for my sister and will post them here.

The one is the regular femur, which includes the ball. The ball runs around on the 'orange' hip socket. Well my femur was broken at the black line I drew on this and the yellow lines on the second pictur as  to what *I* see this unattached bone doing when I move, waving all over, if there is space.

I didn't ask on Wed'y as some of these 'unknowns' require time to think upon!

This is our Thanksgiving, in Canada, and everyone is away and no one has acknowledged my lastest news!

I am thankful for be a Canadian, as by a fluke I saw 2 movies last night about an American woman who married an Iranian doctor in the States and after 20 years in USA and 10 of marriqge,  he took her back to Iran..with their 6 yr.old... where she becasme a nobody and he becomes a tyrant, and she had to escape with her daughter. "Not without my Daughter". More than anything that I can remember, I felt her fear...right here in my safe livingroom. Sally Field.

The other was "Rendition" about American big-wigs torturing the wrong man, who knew nothing, and his wife efforts to find him. It was an English speaking movie, with Egyptian? taking 50%, or an Egyptian? movie with English taking 50%./

There was such torture in both movies, that I sure felt thankful for just a LITTLE leg pain! I find that I can "hide' myself in books and movies that I KNOW will never be a part of my life!

The gap is likely small but as long as there is  gap, I suspect there will be pain. Dr. gave another 6 months to heal with things this way....but not the gap.

12:00 noon....time to lie down, been up since 7am
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #25 on: October 31, 2009, 08:57:58 AM »
Hey Izzy!

Check in, won't you?

It's been awhile since we heard from you and I would love to know how you are doing.

CB
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #26 on: October 31, 2009, 04:11:29 PM »
Hi CB,
Thanks for asking,
Recap
Sept 24th pain flared up--possible reason being that most of swelling has disappeared
Oct 7- to hospital to see Dr. Leung, and new x-ray showing the non-union (Internet verifies that non-unions are usually discoverd at about 6 months) then sent for blood test re infection, then holiday weekend and no results until I called Oct 13.
Oct 21-to hospital to see my surgeon, O'Farrell, who specified that I require a Girdlestone Arthroplasty, which in our simple speak is to remove the head (ball) of the femur and my leg with likely be shorter (Internet say 1"-3") but could be less..these are my thoughts. (If) When I have therapy and have my leg pulled, then enough cartilage will grow in that spot to keep the shortage down to centimetres. The space might be only a centimeter or two and the worst pain is when sitting and I hear noises (bones rubbing together) and when I am prone, there is less pain and more sleep, but nothing stays the same. It's always changing so keep me guessing. He wanted me to see another Ortho Surgeon to have a second opinion, so I had an appontment with Oliver on
Oct 26 Oliver made rounds in hospital when I was in before but didn't recognize me with no make-up. (He had dealt with my leg that healed crookedly in '07-'08) He is the one I called a Narcissistic money-grubbing Psychopath when I was influenced by drugs, morphine and codeine and was hallucinating. (I apologized the next day.--said I was ½ asleep and felt I'd said something un-called for. He smiled.) For my 9:15 am appointment, I had been up since 3:00 am, went by taxi, and was still not taken by 9:45 when he was called away to surgery. I felt a bathroom trip coming on, can't use public, as too painful to wiggle back into being dressed, so cancelled, made one for Monday, Nov 2 and came home.

The pain was just as excruciating as when leg was first broken and I had no meds, I called my GP and he wanted to see me. I just told his nurse, to never mind, as if he couldn't do this over the phone, as he promised, to the drug store and the drug store deliver on my Visa, then forget it. I asked if she had not received the paperwork from my hospital trips and she said "No...(pause) well my filing isn't done) I just took 3, instead of 2 Tylenol Extra Strength when I needed. I'll get that guy and have an answer or know why--which it seems I already think I do.

So since Sept 24th, I have been out 3 times only, to the hospital. Been watching plenty of movies and pretending I am having fun.

O'Farrells Office called already to have a workup on me for the surgery so it could be very soon after I see Oliver this Monday. O'Farrell is surgeon and Oliver will assist. (I asked her for it that way and told her what I called Oliver and that I didn't want to be alone with him under anesthetic....she just howled!) WOW another scar, but the GA is to fix the pain. After seven months, I might wonder who I am without it! I still have my house helper, but therapy was pulled at end of Sept. I was furious that Mary Jo felt she could make that unilateral decision, and contacted my lawyer. The point is moot now, that because of the pain, which I didn't know to what it was leading, would have been painful, or might it have prevented some of the agony in spite of the non-union? MJ had already pulled therapy before Sept 24th!!! So would I have discovered the non-union? Likely somewhere along the way. (Read of one guy, 32 months non-union.)

My lawyer jumped on her, incensed, as she said I could do my therapy on my own. 2 exercises , with pictures, show a therpaist working with the patient, and the rest were for me on my own, but I always did them better will my therapist here, cheering me on.

So it's the knife again, and I just came on to see about Hallowe'en.

Love to all
Izzy
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #27 on: November 01, 2009, 03:47:48 PM »
Nice costume, Izzz! Put a lot of thought into that one, did ya?  :lol:

I am sorry you have the surgical ordeal ahead, but if it eases the infernal pain you've been going through, I imagine that's the payoff...

What a tiresome personal Bataan you've had this year.

I hope the surgery means a big chance for relief after you've recuperated.
Sounds to me as though there is real hope for that.

Been thinking of you, sending vague herby thoughts in hopes of calming the pain...
(were I Queen o' Universe, that is).

love to you,
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #28 on: November 03, 2009, 11:37:34 AM »
Thanks Hops,

I suppose many things are sent to test us....for what tho? The final exam?

Yesterday, Dr. Oliver verified that this surgery would relieve the pain, so that is my main objective.

I had to change my cushion as I realized it was a problem, (always on the look out for better ways) as my thigh had swollen so much and heavy that the cushion was off kilter. Now most swelling is gone and that might be why I had the flare up,.I wonder if swelling can be a "padding"? Nevertheless, I feel as though I am sitting straighter.

I found out there are special cushions for discrepancies in leg lengths too, so will await a more or less final conclusion after surgery and therapy.

Thanks for thinking of me
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Re: SH*T! I have no HIP!
« Reply #29 on: November 04, 2009, 11:49:24 AM »
think of you a lot, hon.

all hail Dr. Oliver and getting rid of your pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Boy, once you're back to snuff and that's behind you, I imagine a trail of twangy tunes being composed...

(Meanwhile, thank God for movies. I'm glad you have them.)

xo
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