My Vote Is - Phoenix Should Leave

[Anonymous]

Firebird, you aren't the only one who has been blasted when their post was misinterpreted. I think that's happened to lots of us. It has happened to me. And then you try to explain and someone calls you a name. I don't think name calling has any place on this board. It's bad for business as it makes people tend to not want to post.

There are some people here who will question when they don't understand and that's healthy.

It should be understood that there isn't a script here and there are many different personality types that see and interpret the world differently. It's not as black and white as some try to make it seem.

I am a generalist who usually deals with an overall concept as opposed to someone who likes to deal with specifics. Some people want supportive language and to deal more on the feelings side of things. If someone doesn't communicate that way, it may be interpreted as not caring. There are many other examples....cultural differences, humor differences.

There are many people here, many perspectives and that's a good thing. We were made the way were are for a reason. Maybe if people could stand back from themselves for a moment or two, then they could see and appreciate the differences instead of deciding someone is wrong or bad.

People can be a pain in the arse. No doubt about it. If world peace were attainable in the larger world then we would all get along perfectly on this board. But sometimes conflict opens up our worldview and perceptions. At least I hope it does.

[phoenix]

phoenix - however these other posters tried to portray my comment to you, I thought 'your gossamer wings' was an image of real beauty, a gift given with no other thought than an image of shimmering light and connection.

For a while my name was brokenwing.  From now on, my name is Firebird.

Firebird - that is a great transformation from brokenwing! Thank you for the gift you brought- I loved the image, too. Thanks for thinking of me. I am glad you came back to defend yourself -although I had already felt your post was in kindness.

[Anonymous]

phoenix - however these other posters tried to portray my comment to you, I thought 'your gossamer wings' was an image of real beauty, a gift given with no other thought than an image of shimmering light and connection.

It wasn't the message at 7:47 by "guest", which you now say was you, but the one at 7:48 by "guest" that was the problem. I suppose since the times were so close it was assumed you were the same people.

If you are not the same who wrote that first assinine message, and it does not seem like it, then I hope it's clear to people now.

In this way, I guess it's good you've named yourself at this point so things are clear. Not always, but sometimes using a name clarifies things that might look another way otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Are both posts by firebird? That's what I got out of this. Correct me if I'm wrong.....7:47 and 7:48. I thought they were both okay anyway.

[Firebird]

I didn't name myself for your benefit or to clarify anything for anyone.  I named myself as a symbol of gathering strength.  As more intelligent people have already understood.

You still choose to use abusive language : asinine!

There's a difference between being challenging and being abusive.  

I think your posts are asisine - utterly stupid or silly - not mine.  

Look at the mote in your own eye first.  I've been looking at mine for far too long and allowing everyone else to get away with (soul) murder. But I see you more clearly now : standing at the centre of your own universe - it's all about you and your needs, you expect to take without giving, nothing reciprocal required.  Your perspective is limited.  

Find a new perspective, see the world in a different way. Find the LOVE, not the HATE. The hate (and spite) is in your own heart, not mine.

 The day when you and people like you stop being hate-ful and spite-ful is the day when I'll quit, too.

No more Rational Nice Girl lying in the road to get trampled by anyone who feels like it when they feel like it.  Parentified no more.

[Anonymous]

Boring, boring, boring.

Don't be such WIMPS!

Whinge, whinge, whinge.

Grab yourselves a whole great big BITE of life and get on out there and stand up for yourselves.

Do you know - I ALWAYS wanted to say that to my Nmother - yeah, the one with the self-imposed helplessness like a dead weight round my neck.

Maybe some of this 'childishness' is actually more grown up than you realise!!!! Maybe it's less destructive than you realise. Maybe it's the butterfly emerging from the chrysalis!!!!!

Firebird-- if you wrote the above message in repsonse to two other members sharing hugs and warm words between them [and addressed to no one else], than I'm afraid it was more than asinine!!!  

If I say what I really think my butt will be off of this forum I'm sure, and I ain't going nowhere so I'll punch the pillow instead--

Did you write that piece of inflammatory crap or not???

If you didn't-- then you just don't get it, do you.  Nobody was calling your/2nd message assinine, in fact, the message directed at you was meant in kindness!

Kindness has now been taken back...   From what it coming out of you now-- you should change your name yet again-- to seagull

<ducking the crap>

[Anonymous]

You still choose to use abusive language : asinine!

Er if I can't butt in here too; didn't you write these FireB:

I think your posts are asisine - utterly stupid or silly

Boring, boring, boring.

Don't be such WIMPS!

Whinge, whinge, whinge.

You don't call that abusive? I do.

[Anonymous]

This board has become an All you can eat buffet for Ns. Sickening...

[Anonymous]

Seeing' N's everywhere- are we?  Don't be silly now, love.

Yes-- s-i-c-k-e-n-i-n-g.

[Anonymous]

This has become the theatre of the absurd. Just quit posting to this thread and maybe it will go bye, bye.

[Seagull Lover]

Boring, boring, boring.

Don't be such WIMPS!

Whinge, whinge, whinge.

Grab yourselves a whole great big BITE of life and get on out there and stand up for yourselves.

Do you know - I ALWAYS wanted to say that to my Nmother - yeah, the one with the self-imposed helplessness like a dead weight round my neck.

Maybe some of this 'childishness' is actually more grown up than you realise!!!! Maybe it's less destructive than you realise. Maybe it's the butterfly emerging from the chrysalis!!!!!

Firebird-- if you wrote the above message in repsonse to two other members sharing hugs and warm words between them [and addressed to no one else], than I'm afraid it was more than asinine!!!  

How do you know? Do you know for sure? Were you one of them? Wher you both of them? Whoever you are, you are very touchy

If I say what I really think my butt will be off of this forum I'm sure, and I ain't going nowhere so I'll punch the pillow instead--

I hope it burst and you have feathers now all over your dang bed and now you have to clean up the whole dang feathery mess.  Or do ya' have one o' dem  new-fangled new-ager pilla's with solid cores and holes. I prefer feather ma'self. You sure dang went' and got awfully dang angry awfully dang quick din't ya' li'l horace. Wanna' talk 'bout ya' knee-jerk anger and ya' rapid-fire conclusion jumpin' or are ya' awready seein' someun' 'bout it ? Sure hope so!

Did you write that piece of inflammatory crap or not???

By 'Inflammatory crap', duz, ya' mean tha' kind afta' eatin' to much chilli?
I surez get dat' from chilli. You too huh?

If you didn't-- then you just don't get it, do you.  Nobody was calling your/2nd message assinine, in fact, the message directed at you was meant in kindness!

Kindess schmindness, why not gives some kindness to everyone now then. Not dis emabarrisin' widdy biddy kiddy outburst ya' done. Why? Cause ya'  sucked yar' lolly pop plum out.

Kindness has now been taken back...  

Waaah waaah , mommie!! I want my mommie!! Look what the nasty poster said to me mommy.  Waaah, waaah. I think it was nasty to me mommie.

I is maginin' how red ya' face musta got when ya' threw this paddy.

From what it coming out of you now-- you should change your name yet again-- to seagull

 
Li'l horace, that's what I is gonna call ya' here in. Li'l horace, I'd keeps that in mind ya'self from now on, ya' here? Seagulls are jis' too beautiful to be degraded by anyone, even you. Almost ma' favourite li'l birdy. And they keep the beaches so nice and clean.

And Hee hee They sure is good shots when they want ta crap in some loud mouth's mouth. You'd know I guess. That's probly why ya' don like 'em much.

<duck crap>

   
Keep duckin' ' duck crap'. I'll be waitin' and watchin' for ya'.

Seagull Lover

[Firebird]

didn't you write these FireB:

Quote:

I think your posts are asisine - utterly stupid or silly

Boring, boring, boring.

Don't be such WIMPS!

Whinge, whinge, whinge

.  

Try reading it in context - and quoting it in the right order.

I'm sorry if your intelligence can't stretch that far.

If people want to throw 'asinine' in my face then that's what they get (got) back.

There's nothing silly or stupid about challenging people's perceptions and revealing one's own motivations.  There's clarity and fairness in that kind of communication.

I'm sorry if your intelligence can't stretch that far.

Jonathan Livingstone Seagull

[Anonymous]

Noooooooooow PCG peronality--- You startin' the F*cking psycho crap again--??  

Don't even go there 'cause --

--- to be continued--

[Anonymous]

Do not reply, do not feed this sicko need and maybe we can get back on track.

[Firebird]

Who is PCG?  

Whoever you are, push off.  This is my fight, not yours!!  Stamp!  Stamp!!