Sorry I'll never get use to this lap top....so........
The husband is outside in the yard. I introduce him. He starts talking about his wife (the nut case) yep that's what he said and her nut case D's. They all need to shut up.
So my friend and I look at each other and try to re-direct conversation. My other friend who lives behind them stepped out and I or as I was going to say....this is so and so..he looked very uncomfortable and said ....AH don't say my name.....I became very uncomfortable.....then he said My Wife thinks I'm after all women.
Eyebrow is raised now on me.
Next day I'm outside with my H and him and his wife. Wife is very nice but he is not as friendly. He pretty much kept distance.
My radar is going off.......Warning......Warning............and I'm trying to ignore it. Oh now don't get ahead of your self.....don't judge......don't....do.......don't......
Again ........not a conversation you can have (and he is alone) that it does not turn to.......porno movies, boobs, him getting his nails done (don't ask me how that got in there) and me feeling super uncomfortable BUT not knocking him into place and just trying re-directing the conversation and then......
There is young girl across the street about 26 years old (who has the mentality of a teen ager or younger). She is a sweet girl but there are problems.
Some how he knows about this from just talking to neighborhood people.
After the porno, boobs, conversation (oh and said) wouild people tell if I have a party (with girls I bring in). I kept thinking about his poor wife and what a jerk he is.
Back to this one conversation......he said....and what about that one? What and whom are you talking about? The girl across the street. What about her and my whole body language changed. I didn't notice how tense I had been. How uncomfortable I had been (in body). My arms were crossed over my chest and when he said that ..my arms came down and I think, think, my movement, my face, my tone, became agressive.....I know it did.
He said.....I see all different guys in her house (with a smile).
He was a preadtor and she was prey.
Days later the young girls (my s's friends, my freinds children) teen girls 13, 16, and even 12........came in and said to me .........your neighbor is a creepo.
Oh yeah, why do you say that?
He stares at us
We are walking and he stares at us till we turn the corner.
What do you mean? He is out on his porch and just looks at you walking by?
He is not even outside and when we reach his house he comes out to watch us or he is sitting down where we can't see him and gets up to watch us.
Thier radar is going off......Thank God.
My S comes in (15) M the neighbor is a weirdo......What?
The girls were walking ahead of us and he said to me and my friend.....oh hot girls.......you or we.....he couldn't remember which........should have a party!
I was going to say something but I didn't know if I should because he is an adult. You keep your distance and you come and get me.
My D who is 25 comes home throws open the door and tells me the next door neighbor is going to get a punch in the face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Who, what? what? WHATTTTTTT????????????????
There is not a time I can go out or come in that he is not looking at me walk from my car to the house. It can be 7am or 2ppm He is not even outside but as soon as I'm getting out of my car.....He is outside. He comes out of his freaking house.
He is making all the females......ALL and only the females (creep out). When the men are around it's a different story.
The kids did not know (my feelings or my conversation) with him, my D did not know although I did keep eyes all over the place (but missed those) THEY DO NOW....
it's all of us (and only females).
This (%$@$%^&@&) is a preadtor if only in....making females want to peel thier skin off by the way he looks at them.
Oh and when I was holding my back for it hurt he told me (I have to use my muscles more) and I know what he meant......that is when I flexed my fist and told him nothing wrong with those they work well.
I avoid him now and when I can't (I do have to go outside) he seems to be the one uncomfortable especially when his wife is around.
Creeped out and disgusted!
Deb
