Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1305670 times)

Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #945 on: October 11, 2009, 09:40:18 AM »
I'm still taking it easy while awaiting the test results.  Emotionally, I'm not in a good place.   :(

Bones

The fall out from the NM on our bodies is really extreme. We had to take such a defensive posture in life just to survive. I am seeing these patterns, now.
 Maybe that is not the case for you but I have physical issues simply from growing up with an NM.                   
 Talk about what is bothering you,emotionally, if you feel you want to.                              Ami
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #946 on: October 11, 2009, 10:42:30 AM »
I'm still taking it easy while awaiting the test results.  Emotionally, I'm not in a good place.   :(

Bones

The fall out from the NM on our bodies is really extreme. We had to take such a defensive posture in life just to survive. I am seeing these patterns, now.
 Maybe that is not the case for you but I have physical issues simply from growing up with an NM.                   
 Talk about what is bothering you,emotionally, if you feel you want to.                              Ami

I also have physical issues from growing up with NWomb-Donor because of her deliberate medical neglect.  I'm paying the price now, physically, emotionally, and financially as a direct result of that neglect!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #947 on: October 11, 2009, 10:50:05 AM »
Rock-a-Bones...rock-a-Bones...

((((((((Bones))))))))))

Sunset, a quiet time in a park...

Nature for you, girl.

love,
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #948 on: October 11, 2009, 11:03:18 AM »
Rock-a-Bones...rock-a-Bones...

((((((((Bones))))))))))

Sunset, a quiet time in a park...

Nature for you, girl.

love,
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #949 on: October 12, 2009, 12:43:00 PM »
Still no word yet on the test results...........................................

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #950 on: October 13, 2009, 06:58:40 PM »
Still no test results yet.  It's possible that the office staff is aware that I have a follow-up doctor's appointment next week and are holding off until then.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #951 on: October 13, 2009, 09:18:58 PM »
Fingers crossed, Bones...
it's really hard to wait on stuff like that.

I hope you're feeling calm and will have good medical advice.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #952 on: October 13, 2009, 09:35:45 PM »
Fingers crossed, Bones...
it's really hard to wait on stuff like that.

I hope you're feeling calm and will have good medical advice.

xo
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I'm trying to stay calm and it's hard not to worry.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #953 on: October 14, 2009, 09:50:16 AM »
Just checking in.

No news yet.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #954 on: October 14, 2009, 09:52:10 AM »
Sending warm thoughts to you, Bonesie !                                  xxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #955 on: October 14, 2009, 10:03:40 AM »
All the best to you (((((((((Bones))))))))))) as you await results.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #956 on: October 14, 2009, 11:07:21 AM »
Sending warm thoughts to you, Bonesie !                                  xxoo  Ami

Thanks, Ami.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #957 on: October 14, 2009, 11:13:58 AM »
All the best to you (((((((((Bones))))))))))) as you await results.

Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Ales2))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))).

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #958 on: October 16, 2009, 09:18:30 AM »
Still no word.........................

In the meantime, the vaccine for the H1N1 virus became available in my community and I was the second one vaccinated.  There was a media blitz about the availability of the vaccine and it was a REALLY INSANE "dog and pony show" having cameras in the face while getting stuck with a needle!!!!  (I'm PHOBIC about needles to begin with so I was doing A LOT of breathing exercises to control my anxiety....ESPECIALLY ON TV!!!!   :shock: :?)

At least I'm vaccinated.  Let's see how things go in that department.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #959 on: October 16, 2009, 09:25:06 AM »
Oh Bones
 How awful to be filmed while being phobic about something. YOW and OUCH!                               xxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung