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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1335 on: January 17, 2026, 07:04:25 PM »
What company do you order from?

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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1336 on: January 18, 2026, 09:18:02 AM »
I don't remember. There are lots of US companies, but I'm most fond of a pair of hand-knitted ones that I got at a local art/craft coop. They are loose & baggy! Me & tight socks don't get along.
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1337 on: January 18, 2026, 11:28:12 AM »
I stretch the toe, of every sock, before putting them on. 

I do like a relatively fitted, thin sock. 

Baggy ones.... move around....extra fabric crowds my foot, it seems. Thick, loose and baggy mean I can't wear them with shoes at all.




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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1338 on: January 19, 2026, 11:21:35 AM »
Well. In winter, I wear Uggs exclusively "out", unless I'm clearing or walking in snow. (Not wearing those boots this year, it looks like!) Inside, I'm a fan of slipper socks - suede sole, so less slippy - and my baggy socks fit fine in those. Tight, thick socks feel like Chinese foot bindings!!
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1339 on: January 26, 2026, 02:16:49 AM »
It's Converse Shoreland tenny pumpers for me.

Sometimes brown leather biker boots or soft luxurious cowboy boots....gifts from my Mother.....a mountain trip....her mountains.

I have a pair of her fancy fur boots....black.  she had many. A pair of green sub zero boots, with inserts, that were my father's....never worn.

I used to wear sandals, a lot, but my toes rebelled, ending that.

I'm not having a great day.....storm prep.  Kids not committing to leaving mountains with me, so I can shut off water into house, and drain the pipes......I want to kick the new instant hot water heater to death.....straight natural gas is SO SMART cause one still has hot water when power goes.  This new tankless thing requires I blind unscrew front panel and reset button A to get to B to raise water temp back to HOT, bc it only gets warm on default setting. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

The handyman, who cancelled when I was halfway home from lake house Monday morning to meet him, is here an hour late, using my leaf blower and shovels.  I was shocked he brought gloves.  Not shocked he left his message board icon picture, him, appearing to angrily look down at viewer, like one is stuffed into the floorboard of a vehicle.  He was a short man....quiet.....worked a shov l like a 5yo with a trowel....asked to leave at ,3:00.....explained his day this way:  High blood pressure, worried he was stroking out, wanted to come back in the morning.  I wasn't up for it .....have him and extra, newer shovel, and wished him well.

No hot water this am..... there's some kind of baffling mystery around the electric wire used to tie in power for the unit......a huge PITA so far.  "Fixed" for now.  Will see.

During yesterday's heater install....the contractor answered a call from him s basement renter, then ran out the crawlspace, bc his wife and a dog got "tore up" by other dogs....hospital .....just ran.

He cam back, but was shaking.....kept repeating...."lawsuit, not gonna recover from this."
His dogs killed his renter's shitzu.....OMG.

And so it was we finishedthe heater install  that failed this morning.

I'm having another coffee......a terrible idea, but the warm comfort is apparently worth the increased caffeine stress.

The wrens are back, checking out their watering can nest.  Reminding me to breathe, and carry on with what I can do.....to give gratitude for the lovely things you n my life.

I've stopped worrying about the ice and snow.  The kids will survive.

I'll be at the lake, prioritizing self care and upcoming projects.....
or, as quoted from Strange Brew, the movie...."I'll be in the kitchen, selling smokes."


 


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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1340 on: January 26, 2026, 09:21:46 AM »
Well, we did all out 'outside' storm prep a week ago up until Saturday. So, I feel like I've been 'shut in' for a whole week already. Cabin fever maybe setting in.

B wants to harness the 2 toms who are good hunters (not so much, Stinks) and go hunting mammoth. The round little girls are just pudgy lovey lap heaters.

Power has stayed on, so far. So studio will be nice and warm... it would at least provide Hol & I a change of scenery...
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1341 on: January 26, 2026, 12:22:25 PM »
Youngest DD and I are in big lake house.....keeping temp around 65°....in case power goes, don't want it to be a shock.  We also sleep better in the chill.

We've gathered wood.....spent to me cooking together....taken every meal together, besides breakfast this morning.  I was hungry.  She was sleeping. 

It's windy and 35°.  The ice is solid....looks like snow.  How does it stay frozen in above freezing temps?  So weird.


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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1342 on: January 29, 2026, 11:34:15 AM »
Sunshine & wind will help "shrink" the snow!
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1343 on: January 29, 2026, 02:09:07 PM »
Hilarious -- hunting mammoth! Love your descriptions of your animals, Amber. You're a good writer.

Pure ice here still, sparkling in sunshine. My back lot/yard looks like a shining lake. Pup goes out bravely on the ice and skate-stumbles around. If I put him on the patio side, he'll sit a while on the bluestone step, which absorbs some warmth. When he's ready to come in he launches a barking oratorio. Then he hops on the bed and starts talking to me earnestly about the weather, a foot from my face. Cracks me up. That face. If ONLY I could post pix...aha. Watch your emails. He'll turn two on Sunday.

Prius is a frozen lump. Driveway totally iced in. Snowplow berm nicely iced too. I don't care. I like empty streets and lockdown. Happy to wait for the melt. Not the mud, though.

I took a month off from the fat shots but started again on the titrated next dose (doubled). Injected it Saturday noon, and side effects for the first time began that evening. Some GERD-ish acid for a bit but Tums took care of that. By the next day I was eating again, just not much. Innards all settled down.

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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1344 on: January 30, 2026, 08:11:51 AM »
Your doc is monitoring that shot closely aren't they? Friend Debbie had some awful side effects that sent her to ER. Stopping the shot willy-nilly apparently isn't good either.
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1345 on: January 30, 2026, 12:51:00 PM »
My doc's available but we made no extra appointments. I can always reach out for one though.

Do you mind sharing more about friend D's GLP-1 side effects?
Were any of them cardiac?

Gracias.

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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1346 on: January 30, 2026, 12:54:32 PM »
Lighter,
I'm imagining you in a PERFECT place to weather a winter lock-in. Naked trees, snow, ice everywhere including the lake....do you see any wildlife yet? I try not to think about it.

Hope cozy outguns cold, and that you and DD are realllllllly relaxing.

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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1347 on: January 31, 2026, 07:59:29 AM »
No she didn't have any cardiac side effects; all intestinal and hormonal.
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1348 on: January 31, 2026, 09:19:15 AM »
Hormonal? Howzzat?

Six deer just came single file up my street, a bigger one--antlers--in the lead; I feel so badly for them. No food, no shelter....some freezing to death at night I'm sure. For me, it's sad.

Thanks to a frenzy of posting, esp. Amber's kindness, I'm mostly over my anxiety surge of yesterday. Physically and mentally wiped out but that will pass. Gotta find a way to stop Pup from barking me awake from his crate at 5am. I can let him sleep on my bed but then he wakes me at 5am by doing doggy CPR on me. Violently! LOL

So I made an appt with a sleep specialist and will probably have another overnight study.
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Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Reply #1349 on: January 31, 2026, 12:32:48 PM »
The deer you're seeing in town, are foodies - and they're likely pruning your neighbor's favorite evergreen shrubs. They must've gotten tired of the same old in their normal haunts. They make nests in the snow that insulate them from the cold. They'll be fine.

My poor friend has been on the hormonal rollercoaster since menopause. She's been seeing a naturopath, who tests regularly and corrects whatever is out of wack. So whatever was in her version of GLP just kicked it off balance again.
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