I love all this honking!! It feels good! Thankyou, Hops, for the gladness. I'm glad you're here! So very glad, actually!
You too Moon! Nice one!
Hey Beth! In the bath?
Good for you! I'd drown myself and my book, I think.
Soak the pages or get bubbles all over them! I read for awhile every night before going to sleep. Gotta squeeze that reading in somewhere. Glad you've found such a lovely way to do that!
Here's some more for pondering. I love all the quotes in this one:
Just Kindness, Please "Write injuries in sand, kindnesses in marble." ~ French proverb
Whatever we praise, we can cause to flourish. We can choose, moment by moment, where to put our attention, emotion, and intention. "Our visions begin with our desires," wrote Audre Lorde. "Comic vision often leads to serious solutions," wrote humorist, Malcolm L. Kushner. "If you think you're too small to make a difference, you've obviously never been in bed with a mosquito," wrote Michelle Walker.
"The everyday kindness of the back roads more than makes up for the acts of greed in the headlines," wrote Charles Kuralt in *On the Road with Charles Kuralt.*
"Keep what is worth keeping. And with the breath of kindness blow the rest away," wrote English novelist, Dinah Mulock Craik. Here's to making more opportunities to play, laugh, celebrate, and "say it better" in cultivating kindness as life's genuine "keeper."
Life contains few absolutes, and one of those few is that kindness usually cultivates connection, something we yearn for in a time-pressed, ear-to-the- cell-phone, relationship-diminished culture. After all, the heart can be our strongest muscle if we exercise it regularly. Yet being kind is not a guarantee of safety from hurt — nothing offers that failsafe comfort. "Kindness and intelligence don't always deliver us from the pitfalls and traps: there are always failures of love, of will, of imagination. There is no way to take the danger out of human relationships," wrote Barbara Grizzuti Harrison in an article for McCall's magazine way back in 1975.
"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares," wrote Henri Nouwen in *Out of Solitude.*
Years ago from a college classmate, I heard a Persian proverb, "With a sweet tongue of kindness, you can drag an elephant by a hair."
"Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate," wrote Albert Schweitzer. "He who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love," wrote the Greek religious leader, Saint Basil.
Kindness is often unspoken. "An eye can threaten like a loaded and leveled gun, or it can insult like hissing or kicking; or, in its altered mood, by beams of kindness, it can make the heart dance for joy," wrote Ralph Waldo Emerson. At another time, Emerson wrote, "You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late."
"You may be sorry that you spoke, sorry you stayed or went, sorry you won or lost, sorry so much was spent. But as you go through life, you'll find -- you're never sorry you were kind," said Herbert Prochnow.
"Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom," wrote Theodore Isaac Rubin in "One to One."
"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things, in which smiles and kindness and small obligations win and preserve the heart, said English chemist Humphrey Davy.
"We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop that makes it run over. So in a series of kindness there is, at last, one which makes the heart run over," once wrote the Scottish lawyer and biographer, James Boswell.
"We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck . . . But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness," wrote columnist Ellen Goodman.
From an artist's perspective, ballet dancer Mikhail Baryshnikov once said, "The essence of all art is to have pleasure in giving pleasure."
Author: Kare Anderson
At last! Words to explain my alterview of co-dependant: "to have pleasure in giving pleasure".
The kind of affliction I'm glad to have! I want more affliction!! Here sweet elephant! Come on now! I will gladly paint your toenails any colour you like!!
Reminds me of a joke: Why do elephants paint their toenails red?
.......................ready?
Answer: So they can hide in the strawberry patch!!
Enjoy your weekend all!
Sela
