It seems to me, after reading your replies, that no matter who the people are the same behavior holds true if they are Narcissists. It's the same old crap over and over. Mother jealous of daughter's youth and beauty, insecure Narcissistic father jealous of the exhusband, blah, blah, blah! If nothing else, I think we can conclude that all Narcissists tend to react the exact same way--with the exact same behavior--to a situation.
And, yes, this board really will help anyone. No need to be fearful to exposing your feelings here or your thoughts. This is a wonderful group of people that I return to when I feel I have the need to spew something that is eating at me. Most people really work hard to "heal" themselves here, I think. It's an enormous amount of work to heal, but so worth it.
Anastasia