There's only one G_d Laura, one Spirit, I am convinced of that. And I'm also with Ghandi: G_d has no religion.
But you're right- there's no further dialogue once you've revealed 'your truth' if it goes against other people's. I think that's why it's really important to me that what I believe is very open- I don't think I know how to transcend that. I don't want to argue, even intellectually argue, if it will break someone's spirit ( as an aside some other parents think I am weak for taking the same approach with child-rearing ) or cause hurt. G_d is love to me, pure love, and anything that isn't that love isn't of G_d to me.
Something that is becoming more clear to me in everyday living: whose lesson is this?
Sometimes it's for me, but if it's for someone else then only they can learn it and it's not for me to teach/preach.
That's been a strange process unfolding during the disentangling from my ex- we were so enmeshed and that was my role then, and it's hard now for me to watch at a distance whilst he ties his life in knots and it's not my place to untangle them.
It's easier for me to step back from my son in that regard!
But it is a role I have taken a lot in trying to make sense of things; my life hasn't always made sense to me and it's only now I can see a bigger picture.
in my experience, most churches worship themselves
it's interesting, I've been to church after church and couldn't fit my beliefs to the behaviour or attitude of the people. I know what my theological beliefs are, and my relationship with G_d, but I just don't have the kind of transcending patience to be in a church without considerable compromise.
I do miss being part of a spiritual community so I've taken to nomad-ing around Houston's various faiths, of which there are numerous, and to taking long walks and communing with nature.
Prayer has gone from being a deliberate set-aside enterprise to a part of all experience and the revelation of the day.
But being part of a church takes me away from G_d not brings me closer so far.