I think you are moving into a richer consciousness and that while the struggles continue you or on the verge of finding life easier. You appear to be on the precipice of wisdom and I have to believe that that will bring good rewards and some true comfort.
I'm routing for you and admiring you from afar.thanks so much GS. So often your words have been an anchor for me when things have been difficult.
And I hope your situation is easing somewhat too, I have been thinking abouit you ((((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))))))))
I simply withdrew for a while. you know TT even though I KNOW intellectually when this is what i need to do, I so often don't do it!
I never know when to quit.
Maybe quitting is an inverse kind of rejection thing????
Maybe I should re-frame things, 'take a break....'
Now the UU church I went to where I had bad experiences but also made many friends and went back and overcame my fears and upsets....well because I have stayed in contact I have watched as things unravelled there which were nothing to do with me but all part of the same behaviours and attitudes which i had problems with before, the place is pretty-much falling apart with the clergy on leave, the finances in disarray and the people acting in a way I would call at best unhealthy.
I can't change these kinds of things can I, though sometimes I try to, and hang in there long after it becomes obvious to others that there's nothing to be gained.
Maybe because I was abandonned I don't like to feel I am abandonning others?
I am the same with everything, I don't like to under-tip, I keep appointments I cannot afford because the other person needs to earn a living too, I say no when I mean yes so as not to put people out....I'm sure I seem like a total idiot to you guys sometimes with my strange decision-making.
I need to work on this more and stop feeling so responsible for everyone and everything.
love to you, peace to you,
Hopsyou too H!
last night I got a good night sleep so important to bipolar.me too Moon!
I took 10 mg lexapro at 10 pm and slept really well all night.
I'll check out Sojourners
http://www.sojo.net/ Thanks.
I'm having a down-time day today, ex suggested it.
He is so happy havign his family visit, he's taken a whole week off and hasn't been to work once!
He told me yesterday he will help me financially if I struggle over the next few weeks or if I get sick; I don't entirely trust in him not switching tack, but he has been extremely reliable financially to date despite the divorce.
I think everything will be okay with he and I.
Son was crying at bedtime, teenage angst stuff....
I tried talking with him and the negativity defeated me, so I distracted him by making a limeric:
there was a young lady of Dallas
who wanted to live in a palace
but she married a sailor
who lived in a trailer
and treated their children with malice!It's sort of an NPD theme don't you think?!
He loves to rhyme with me, or make up silly stories
