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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #555 on: September 18, 2008, 06:04:37 PM »
Thinking of you, Bones. Check out Dr Schultz and see what you think. His number is 1 800 Herb Doc.        Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #556 on: September 18, 2008, 06:07:17 PM »
Could it be sleep apnea, Bones?
That's treatable!

Or maybe a combo of two things?

Don't despair, DO believe in the amazing changes you can make with powerful nutrition and exercise...

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Sleep apnea has been ruled out, however I am at risk for it.  I've had my pulmonary function test today.  I'm not sure how long it will take for the results to come back.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #557 on: September 18, 2008, 06:08:33 PM »


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Could it be sleep apnea, Bones?
That's treatable!

Or maybe a combo of two things?

Don't despair, DO believe in the amazing changes you can make with powerful nutrition and exercise...

love,
Hops

Ditto above!!

Continued thoughts of better health for you. Keep us posted.   ((hugs & strength)) as you go through the process of finding a correct diagnosis and treatment.  ox seasons

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #558 on: September 18, 2008, 07:06:31 PM »
Hi Bonesy-

Hope you got got results from the test and you feel better soon.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #559 on: September 19, 2008, 07:06:46 AM »
Hi Bonesy-

Hope you got got results from the test and you feel better soon.

Love,

Changing

Thanks, Changing!  I'm not sure how long it will take for all of the lung tests to come back.

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« Reply #560 on: September 19, 2008, 07:43:37 AM »
Hi Bones
  Thinking of you! I know you are going through a hard and scary time. My heart goes out to you.       Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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« Reply #561 on: September 20, 2008, 09:54:45 AM »
Hi Bones
  Thinking of you! I know you are going through a hard and scary time. My heart goes out to you.       Ami

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« Reply #562 on: September 20, 2008, 10:01:06 AM »
I'm feeling more than a bit aggravated today. 

Last night, while I was having a conversation with significant other, my phone rings at 8:30 PM!!!!  It turned out to be NDoofus AGAIN!!!!!  She has been told SEVERAL TIMES NOT TO CALL ME AT MY BEDTIME!  As usual, she started blathering mindlessly, asking questions about things that I do NOT want to discuss with her, and I told her that I CANNOT talk now as I have company!  Her response?  "Is he spending the night with you?"  RUDE!  INTRUSIVE!!  PRYING!!!  NOSY!!!!  She also ruined the conversation I was having with him and by the time I hung up the phone, he was out the door!   :x :x :x  WHAT PART OF THE WORD "N-O" DOES SHE NOT UNDERSTAND?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?   :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #563 on: September 21, 2008, 09:43:23 AM »
 Dear Bones                                                                                                                                                                                                  I have a book that explains Personality Disorders well and simply. It says that those with a PD do not see HOW they interact with others. They have a brick wall as far as learning fron social cues, as "normal" people do. Therefore, they seem dense ,like N Doofus, b/c they really cannot and will not learn from outside cues, such as your requests to N Doofus.              Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #564 on: September 21, 2008, 08:24:06 PM »
Dear Bones                                                                                                                                                                                                  I have a book that explains Personality Disorders well and simply. It says that those with a PD do not see HOW they interact with others. They have a brick wall as far as learning fron social cues, as "normal" people do. Therefore, they seem dense ,like N Doofus, b/c they really cannot and will not learn from outside cues, such as your requests to N Doofus.              Ami

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So true, even when she is told POINT BLANK!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #565 on: September 22, 2008, 03:58:11 AM »
Hello Bonesy-

Hope that you are feeling better.

I have a friend whose answering machine speaks the name of any caller (unless they are unlisted, etc) as the phone rings- if you had a way of screening your calls, NDoofus could ring you up, and you could return the call at your leisure...Or perhaps you might turn off the ringer when you and  your sweetie are having a heart to heart? Certainly, you need as little upset as possible during this juncture, to support your mental and physical health...This is the top priority!!!

Take good care and let us know how you are!

Love,

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #566 on: September 22, 2008, 08:48:51 PM »
Hello Bonesy-

Hope that you are feeling better.

I have a friend whose answering machine speaks the name of any caller (unless they are unlisted, etc) as the phone rings- if you had a way of screening your calls, NDoofus could ring you up, and you could return the call at your leisure...Or perhaps you might turn off the ringer when you and  your sweetie are having a heart to heart? Certainly, you need as little upset as possible during this juncture, to support your mental and physical health...This is the top priority!!!

Take good care and let us know how you are!

Love,

Changing



Thanks, Changing.

This time, Significant Other picked up the cordless and the only thing showing on the Caller ID was a wireless number, no name.  I programmed the Caller ID to send it straight to the answering machine the next time she calls from that number.

I went to see my primary care physician today and I have to undergo additional tests...one for a CT Scan of my head to rule out any additional problems there, a doppler scan of my neck to check my carotid arteries, and an Ear, Nose and Throat Specialist to check for possible ear infections as I have had a history them, especially during allergy season.  I hope all of these physical challenges get fixed soon!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #567 on: September 22, 2008, 10:26:25 PM »
I'm glad you're getting checked out from stem to stern, dear Bones.

That's the groundwork for your NEW PATH TO HEALTH PLAN.

With you every step!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #568 on: September 23, 2008, 02:18:10 PM »
I'm glad you're getting checked out from stem to stern, dear Bones.

That's the groundwork for your NEW PATH TO HEALTH PLAN.

With you every step!

xo
Hops

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #569 on: September 28, 2008, 07:03:36 PM »
I also have to go for an electrostynagmography.  More fun.....NOT!!!!   :P

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