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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #825 on: August 29, 2009, 09:24:22 PM »
How far back do these cousins go , Bones?          Ami
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #826 on: August 29, 2009, 09:30:04 PM »
How far back do these cousins go , Bones?          Ami

Well, one relative was alive during the 1930's.  He was the Hollywood actor.  His movies were completely forgettable but, hey, it was EMPLOYMENT and it fed his family while others were standing in bread lines and soup lines.  Can't fault him for doing what he could even if the scripts were LOUSY!

Another relative lived until the late 1880's.  I've found other distant cousins that date back to the Revolutionary War.  I find it FASCINATING!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #827 on: August 29, 2009, 09:52:22 PM »
sure is

--and I have a relative who attended West Point with George Custer. He also, my ancestor, fought on both sides of the war, then went on to work on the railway that began in the USA and on up ionto Canada, and was charged with treason for blabbing about where the railway station would be in Saskatchewan.

Nevertheless the station was moved a few miles south and he was absolved of this charge of treason.

He is in Pierre Burton's book, "The Last Spike".

Also other ancestors run from ministers to murders! The good old days!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #828 on: August 30, 2009, 05:49:56 AM »
Just blogging today and I'm feeling out of sorts.  Health-wise, I did not have a good day yesterday.  It wasn't as bad as it had been but it could have been better.

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« Reply #829 on: August 30, 2009, 04:46:13 PM »
I'm sorry you haven't been feeling so good, Bones....

are you rallying some?

What's the latest on the physical stuff, if you want to talk about it?

I'm useless except for sympathy, but I send a LOT.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #830 on: August 30, 2009, 05:49:33 PM »
I'm sorry you haven't been feeling so good, Bones....

are you rallying some?

What's the latest on the physical stuff, if you want to talk about it?

I'm useless except for sympathy, but I send a LOT.

love,
Hops

Thanks, Hops!

I was having some asthmatic symptoms and was tiring more easily than usual.  I hate it when that happens.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #831 on: August 30, 2009, 09:23:56 PM »
Hi, Bones. 

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #832 on: August 30, 2009, 09:39:50 PM »
Dear(((( Bones)))))
 So many people are not feeling well, now. It seems like a strange time. I hope it passes for you!           Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #833 on: August 31, 2009, 07:06:48 AM »
Hi, Bones. 

Butterfly (aka Joy)

Hi, Butterfly (aka Joy)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Glad to see you here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((Joy)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #834 on: August 31, 2009, 07:15:04 AM »
Dear(((( Bones)))))
 So many people are not feeling well, now. It seems like a strange time. I hope it passes for you!           Ami

Thanks, ((((((((((((((((Ami))))))))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #835 on: August 31, 2009, 05:44:15 PM »
bones? I work at a methadone clinic in Pa and they hire cs's. I don't know where you are from but if you live in Pa email me drbwrb1999@yahoo.com and I can give you more info. I saw that you went to schools for addiction pscychology. I don't know if you could be a cs or what you degree allows you to do.. but I was thinking about you. Sorry to hear about your loss. Your in my prayers and remember...that when god closes one door he always opens another.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #836 on: August 31, 2009, 07:27:10 PM »
bones? I work at a methadone clinic in Pa and they hire cs's. I don't know where you are from but if you live in Pa email me drbwrb1999@yahoo.com and I can give you more info. I saw that you went to schools for addiction pscychology. I don't know if you could be a cs or what you degree allows you to do.. but I was thinking about you. Sorry to hear about your loss. Your in my prayers and remember...that when god closes one door he always opens another.

Thanks, Rugrats5!  Glad to see you here!!!

Unfortunately, I live in the DC Metro area and the bureaucracy here, along with age-ism, is ridiculous!  Besides, I'm not too keen on dealing with office "politics" anymore at my age.  I'm looking forward to being my own boss, doing what I love to do.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #837 on: September 01, 2009, 03:08:47 PM »
It's good to be able to talk about all kinds of stuff here.  It's kinda sad that I could NEVER discuss ANYTHING with what's left of the FOO because of their propensity to violate my boundaries.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #838 on: September 02, 2009, 10:18:44 AM »
BTW, the other board is experiencing boundary violations by an N named "D".  Somehow, she's BACK-K-K-K!!!!  And she is picking up where she left off!!!!!  DANG!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #839 on: September 03, 2009, 12:21:16 PM »
I guess when we encounter boundary violations, we can call them "Learning Experiences".  It might be good practice to learn how to say "NO" and maintain healthy boundaries.  It's so hard to learn when we NEVER were allowed to have boundaries growing up!

Just my thoughts..............................................

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