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Hopalong

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1065 on: November 19, 2009, 12:42:07 PM »
How's the ear, Bones?
are you on antibiotics?
Got eardrops?

Does a heating pad by your head help?

It's hard to be patient with illness.
I feel for you.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1066 on: November 19, 2009, 12:49:14 PM »
How's the ear, Bones?
are you on antibiotics?
Got eardrops?

Does a heating pad by your head help?

It's hard to be patient with illness.
I feel for you.

love,
Hops
PS--you might also like the book I just suggested to Izzy...it's quite amazing.

Hi, Hops.

The problem with the type of ear infections I get is that there is usually no pain...just a LOT of dizziness and balance issues!  I've been trying to work out the logistics of getting to the doctor's office since I don't want to drive while feeling dizzy and walking several blocks to the doctor's office, with balancing issues, is NOT fun!  Then there's the issue of the co-pay, BEFORE the doctor will see you, in addition to the health insurance premium, possible prescription(s), PLUS paying for the office visit later because my health insurance does NOT cover enough of the costs!  Without enough of an income coming in, that makes meeting expenses difficult.   :P

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« Reply #1067 on: November 20, 2009, 08:24:26 AM »
Letter Number Two sounds like the writer is dealing with a Flaming Narcissist!

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/annie-s-mailbox-r-2009-11-20.html

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« Reply #1068 on: November 20, 2009, 08:34:57 AM »
How are you (((Bones))))) ?          xxxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1069 on: November 20, 2009, 08:57:10 AM »
How are you (((Bones))))) ?          xxxoo  Ami

I still feel under the weather.

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« Reply #1070 on: November 20, 2009, 11:16:46 AM »
I am sorry (((Bones))))      xxxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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« Reply #1071 on: November 20, 2009, 11:49:47 AM »
I am sorry (((Bones))))      xxxoo  Ami

Thanks, ((((Ami))))).

On top of it all, when I called the ear specialist's office to make an appointment, I learned that he was killed in a car accident two months ago!!!!!  That REALLY UPSETS ME!!!  He was such a COOL DUDE!!!!  I REALLY liked him!!!  He REALLY listened to his patients and we could also talk about Star Trek!

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« Reply #1072 on: November 20, 2009, 12:28:00 PM »
I am sorry (((Bones))))      xxxoo  Ami

Thanks, ((((Ami))))).

On top of it all, when I called the ear specialist's office to make an appointment, I learned that he was killed in a car accident two months ago!!!!!  That REALLY UPSETS ME!!!  He was such a COOL DUDE!!!!  I REALLY liked him!!!  He REALLY listened to his patients and we could also talk about Star Trek!

Bones

Oh Man, Bones.When it rains ,it pours! I am sorry, Bonesie!                          xxxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1073 on: November 20, 2009, 12:34:15 PM »
Oh, no! That stinks, Bones.  :(

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1074 on: November 20, 2009, 12:37:53 PM »
I am sorry (((Bones))))      xxxoo  Ami

Thanks, ((((Ami))))).

On top of it all, when I called the ear specialist's office to make an appointment, I learned that he was killed in a car accident two months ago!!!!!  That REALLY UPSETS ME!!!  He was such a COOL DUDE!!!!  I REALLY liked him!!!  He REALLY listened to his patients and we could also talk about Star Trek!

Bones

Oh Man, Bones.When it rains ,it pours! I am sorry, Bonesie!                          xxxoo  Ami

Thanks, Ami.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1075 on: November 20, 2009, 12:38:57 PM »
Oh, no! That stinks, Bones.  :(

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« Reply #1076 on: November 20, 2009, 12:46:13 PM »
What makes his death all the more tragic was WHERE it happened...along a stretch of Route 32 between Howard County and Carroll County, Maryland, a few blocks from his own house.  He was part of a group, struggling with bureaucrats, to make THAT part of the route safer for all!  That was his commute home after work.  He was waiting for south-bound traffic to clear so that he could make a left turn onto his home street when he was rear-ended by a van traveling at high speed.  (The van driver was distracted...possibly cellphone or texting someone and NOT paying attention to the road!)  That collision knocked my doctor into the south-bound traffic where he was T-boned by a pick-up truck going at high speed, mangling his car beyond recognition.  He didn't have a chance!   :(

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« Reply #1077 on: November 20, 2009, 01:34:45 PM »
Oh Bones, that IS tragic! How awful that he was killed at the very place he knew was unsafe and was fighting to make safer. Some enterprising young reporter needs to make it his career to take up your doctor's fight. I'm so sorry.  :(

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« Reply #1078 on: November 20, 2009, 02:59:44 PM »
Oh Bones, that IS tragic! How awful that he was killed at the very place he knew was unsafe and was fighting to make safer. Some enterprising young reporter needs to make it his career to take up your doctor's fight. I'm so sorry.  :(

Thanks, Cantors Counter.

His death made the local news in Baltimore.  I was able to look it up on the Internet, under "Brian Emery", after his office informed me of his death.  Apparently the group he was with is now going to fight harder to make that road safer.

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« Reply #1079 on: November 20, 2009, 07:49:20 PM »
Life is so precious.

I'm really sorry, Bones...that is tragic.

It sounds as though he didn't suffer (no time).
I hope it's true.

hugs and comfort,
Hops
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