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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1095 on: November 26, 2009, 09:48:26 AM »
(((((Bones))))))      Bless you, Sweetie!                        xxxoo    Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1096 on: November 26, 2009, 02:24:39 PM »
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A doormat that says:  "Well Butter My Butt & Call Me A Biscuit: Look Who's Here"

I love this one! Maybe we should all chip in and get it for PR, eh? Sooooo tasteful.

Seriously, I love it. What's the catalogue??

Thanks, Bones...and Happy Tgiving to you, hon.

xxoo

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1097 on: November 26, 2009, 06:15:42 PM »
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A doormat that says:  "Well Butter My Butt & Call Me A Biscuit: Look Who's Here"

I love this one! Maybe we should all chip in and get it for PR, eh? Sooooo tasteful.

Seriously, I love it. What's the catalogue??

Thanks, Bones...and Happy Tgiving to you, hon.

xxoo

Hops

You're welcome, Hops.

The catalog is titled:  "Catalog favorites".  They also have a website:  www.catalogfavorites.com

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1098 on: November 27, 2009, 05:31:07 AM »
The club I belong to is having an ongoing discussion.  Issues have been festering for months.  One member wrote a detailed description of behaviors that have been observed which included the description of:  "Only I am PERFECT!"  I observed that the attitude described has a name:  Narcissism.  At NO time was the observation aimed at a specific person or labeled a specific person.  One of the individuals in charge responded with the following rant:  "How DARE you say THAT!  AFTER ALL I'VE DONE FOR YOU!!!!!"


Does THAT sound familiar to anyone?  (Looks like I exposed an N-snake unintentionally.)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1099 on: November 27, 2009, 08:35:35 AM »
Dear Bones
 A girl did an N thing to me last week. I hit her back with no guilt. That is all you can do with N's. It seems like you stand up for yourself very well  (((Bones))). I admire that. I am just starting to think I am worth my own defense .                              xxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1100 on: November 27, 2009, 09:21:12 AM »
Dear Bones
 A girl did an N thing to me last week. I hit her back with no guilt. That is all you can do with N's. It seems like you stand up for yourself very well  (((Bones))). I admire that. I am just starting to think I am worth my own defense .                              xxoo  Ami

Yes, you and I and all Survivors of N's are worth our own defenses!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1101 on: November 28, 2009, 09:28:48 AM »
Just checking in for the morning.

I'm not fully awake yet.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1102 on: November 28, 2009, 09:17:59 PM »
Just taking it easy today.

I just got an e-mail from Dr. McBride regarding her Forum.

The good news:  she's reviving it.

The bad news:  you have to pay money to subscribe to it and that is something I cannot afford to do with medical bills and no job.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1103 on: November 29, 2009, 06:26:34 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1104 on: November 29, 2009, 07:50:54 AM »
Oh (((Bones))))) Sorry to hear about the website not being able to be there for you now, Bones. It seemed like it was a home for you!
                                          xxxxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1105 on: November 29, 2009, 12:33:13 PM »
Oh (((Bones))))) Sorry to hear about the website not being able to be there for you now, Bones. It seemed like it was a home for you!
                                          xxxxoo  Ami


Thanks, Ami.

On the one hand, I can understand why she did it that way given what happened that caused it to be taken down.

On the other hand, it makes it inaccessible to those who cannot afford it.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1106 on: November 30, 2009, 11:11:55 AM »
I've been working on re-organizing my home and came across some boxes that I know belong to the N that I used to sublet from.  Part of me debated whether or not to contact her, then I decided to go ahead and let her know that I found the boxes.  After all, what could she do from several hundred miles away?  If she starts acting the fool again, I can still set boundaries that she cannot cross.  The ball is in her court now and I feel stronger knowing that she is DEFINITELY AN N!  (Know Thy Enemy!)

Getting these boxes of HER items out of my home is a goal to clear away unnecessary clutter!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1107 on: November 30, 2009, 08:49:15 PM »
(((((Bones))))))                          xxxoo  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1108 on: December 01, 2009, 08:28:49 AM »
(((((Bones))))))                          xxxoo  Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1109 on: December 01, 2009, 08:30:46 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/annie-s-mailbox-r-2009-12-01.html


The first letter in today's column is heartbreaking. 

I DESPISE N's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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