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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2205 on: February 28, 2011, 03:01:41 PM »
wow, Bones.

I like two dream theories professors told me, they both feel true:

One said, "You dream about your hopes and fears. There is no such thing as a 'bad' dream, because even a disturbing one is your subconscious releasing stuff it needed to process. So, in that sense, 'bad dreams' are healing, too."

The other said, "You are everything and every person in your dream. What part of you is the _____?"

You KNOW that baby is not worthless.

You love her, want to protect her, and you care about her.

(You.)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2206 on: March 01, 2011, 08:05:42 AM »
wow, Bones.

I like two dream theories professors told me, they both feel true:

One said, "You dream about your hopes and fears. There is no such thing as a 'bad' dream, because even a disturbing one is your subconscious releasing stuff it needed to process. So, in that sense, 'bad dreams' are healing, too."

The other said, "You are everything and every person in your dream. What part of you is the _____?"

You KNOW that baby is not worthless.

You love her, want to protect her, and you care about her.

(You.)

xo
Hops

Thanks, Hops!  Both theories make a LOT of sense!

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« Reply #2207 on: March 01, 2011, 08:53:01 PM »
Sweet dreams, (((((Bones)))))...

nighty night,

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2208 on: March 01, 2011, 09:39:41 PM »
Sweet dreams, (((((Bones)))))...

nighty night,

Hops

Thanks, Hops!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2209 on: March 02, 2011, 10:22:08 AM »
Had a bit of a sleepless night last night thinking about ALOT of things.
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« Reply #2210 on: March 03, 2011, 09:51:30 AM »
Just checking in for the day.
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« Reply #2211 on: March 04, 2011, 06:34:42 AM »
I'm going to be heading out, early tomorrow morning, and won't be back home until late in the afternoon or early evening.  My CERT team has been activated to deal with an emergency.  I'll explain more after I'm rested from the mission.
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« Reply #2212 on: March 05, 2011, 09:34:19 PM »
Just got home a little while ago after being out for 14 hours on a search and recovery mission.  I'll explain more tomorrow.
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« Reply #2213 on: March 06, 2011, 08:08:02 AM »
Feeling a bit more rested from yesterday even though I have achy muscles.

I may have previously mentioned that I'm a member of the Community Emergency Response Team where I live.  Yesterday, my Team got called out and mobilized by our state's search and rescue team to search for a missing person.  It turned out that the missing person case is a "cold case" as he had disappeared back in 2006 in an area that is VERY ROUGH WILDERNESS, (including wildlife such as foxes, deer, snakes, possibly bears).  What we did not know, until we met with the state's search-and-rescue team and the state police, that there was also an unregistered handgun involved.  Essentially, we were searching for human remains and a handgun, (possibly still loaded), with the safety off so critical safety measures were the order of the day. 

This was my first REAL search for a missing person as, up to now, everything else had been drills.  I also learned how to use a metal detector for the first time.  (The metal detectors were borrowed from the forensic division of the police department.)  I was hoping we would be able to find this person and give his family closure as well as finding the unregistered handgun but we came up empty-handed.  At the same time, I felt it was an excellent learning experience and helped give us volunteers more insight into what the police and professional search-and-rescue teams do and how much physical labor is involved.  It is NOWHERE near close to what is portrayed on television!

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« Reply #2214 on: March 06, 2011, 09:06:12 AM »
WOW Bones....

WOW.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2215 on: March 06, 2011, 10:21:24 AM »
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« Reply #2216 on: March 06, 2011, 07:04:35 PM »
So proud to know you, Bones.

Thank you for what you do for your community.

love,
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« Reply #2217 on: March 07, 2011, 06:54:06 AM »
So proud to know you, Bones.

Thank you for what you do for your community.

love,
Hops

You're welcome and thanks, Hops.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2218 on: March 07, 2011, 07:15:51 AM »
Another victim of an N who may be searching for people like us:

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/sure-as-the-donald-i-breathe.html

Since the membership list is currently closed, where else can she go for the support she needs?
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2219 on: March 08, 2011, 07:03:56 AM »
Just checking in.
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