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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2385 on: May 15, 2011, 06:03:44 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2386 on: May 16, 2011, 06:03:46 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2387 on: May 17, 2011, 07:14:05 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2388 on: May 17, 2011, 07:15:52 PM »
How are things going, Miz Bones?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2389 on: May 17, 2011, 08:04:54 PM »
How are things going, Miz Bones?

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Feeling so tired today........
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2390 on: May 18, 2011, 12:08:39 AM »
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teddy bear...

sweet dreams for Bones!

xo

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2391 on: May 18, 2011, 05:53:14 AM »
tucked in...
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sweet dreams for Bones!

xo

Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I've just been feeling so down lately.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2392 on: May 18, 2011, 08:39:03 AM »
A lot of losses around you this spring, Bones...
I think you are simply grieving. Your heart is sad.

And that will change. It always changes, just hold on...

...be gentlle with yourself.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2393 on: May 18, 2011, 03:33:06 PM »
A lot of losses around you this spring, Bones...
I think you are simply grieving. Your heart is sad.

And that will change. It always changes, just hold on...

...be gentle with yourself.

Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I'm getting ready to post a link that I just found on the news.  I'll explain a bit in my next posting.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2394 on: May 18, 2011, 03:36:05 PM »
This appears to be an example of a Narcissist violating others' boundaries and she got CONSEQUENCES!!!   :)

http://news.yahoo.com/s/yblog_thelookout/20110518/us_yblog_thelookout/loud-cell-phone-talker-removed-from-quiet-car-by-police

Based on the description of the Quiet Car, there are signs PROMINENTLY displayed that state NO CELL PHONES.  Only a Narcissist would ignore them and act as if privileged to a special exception.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2395 on: May 19, 2011, 07:53:58 AM »
Just checking in.

Thinking alot today.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2396 on: May 20, 2011, 08:54:21 AM »
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To give a brief overview of Bradshaw On:  Healing the Shame That Binds You, here's a list of topics he covers:

The Many Faces of Shame
The Sources of Toxic Shame
The Hiding Places of Toxic Shame

The Externalization Process
A Parable:  The Prisoner in the Dark Cave
Coming Out of Hiding And Isolation
12 Steps for Transforming Toxic Shame into Healthy Shame
Liberating Your Lost Inner Child
Integrating Your Disowned Parts
On Loving Yourself
Healing Your Memories and Changing Your Self-Image
Confronting and Changing Your Inner Voices
Dealing with Toxic Shame in Relationships
Spiritual Awakening
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2397 on: May 21, 2011, 07:16:41 AM »
Is anyone interested in a brief overview of Bradshaw On:  The Family?
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2398 on: May 21, 2011, 07:19:06 AM »
What are your thoughts on a possible topic or thread of "Narcissists Caught on Tape"?  I saw a pretty good example last night on Kitchen Nightmares focusing on the Oceana Restaurant in New Orleans.  OW!!!   :shock:
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2399 on: May 22, 2011, 07:10:35 AM »
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