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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2445 on: June 14, 2011, 08:46:41 AM »
I got an e-mail from my R.I.S.E. instructor asking me if I had heard anything yet from Voc. Rehab.  I told him that I've still gotten Zilch, Nil, Nada, Nothing at all.  He told me he's going to follow up to find out what's going on.

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« Reply #2446 on: June 15, 2011, 06:54:58 AM »
I haven't checked the e-mail much yesterday for any updates as I've been sick as a dog all day yesterday.  My bronchial tubes got all gunked up.  Not sure if it's asthma or bronchitis or a combination of the two.  YUCK!!!   :P

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« Reply #2447 on: June 15, 2011, 09:28:17 AM »
I'll trade ya my sore tooth for your yuck, Bones...  :D

Hope you feel better and hear something soon.
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« Reply #2448 on: June 15, 2011, 10:08:36 AM »
I'll trade ya my sore tooth for your yuck, Bones...  :D

Hope you feel better and hear something soon.

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« Reply #2449 on: June 16, 2011, 09:14:39 AM »
No change yet.
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« Reply #2450 on: June 17, 2011, 06:59:15 AM »
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« Reply #2451 on: June 17, 2011, 07:05:44 AM »
Well, I got antibiotics and painkillers - to prep me for the root canal next week. And even tho' the painkillers are having an opposite effect on me - hyper instead of sleepy - it's SOOOOO good that the pain went away. I wasn't enjoying being me very much, when in that much pain.

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« Reply #2452 on: June 17, 2011, 07:13:53 AM »
Well, I got antibiotics and painkillers - to prep me for the root canal next week. And even tho' the painkillers are having an opposite effect on me - hyper instead of sleepy - it's SOOOOO good that the pain went away. I wasn't enjoying being me very much, when in that much pain.

Hope you hear something today, Bones.

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« Reply #2453 on: June 17, 2011, 07:18:53 AM »
The following was in today's Annie's Mailbox.  I think this NSperm-Donor is a real piece of work!  I couldn't help but think "What Would Judge Judy Do?" if this case appeared before her.  I know she had similar cases where it came out that the children were being ripped off by the NBiological-Units and Judge Judy would rip the creeps a new one!!!!  (YAY, Judge Judy!)

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"Dear Annie: My father is a dentist and earns a good living, but he is going after my money. When I graduated from high school, he took the money relatives and friends sent me and kept it for himself. A year later, he and Mom were going through a divorce, and he subpoenaed my work records to find out what I was earning. Their divorce was finally settled, but when Dad found out I was awarded a partial college scholarship of $980, he wanted "his share."

Mom and Dad both paid for my college tuition, but I worked hard to earn that small scholarship so I could stand on my own two feet. I am frustrated and a little disgusted with my father's greed. Shouldn't he feel proud of his daughter's accomplishment instead of trying to steal it? His true colors came out during the divorce, and I took my mother's side. Now he apparently has divorced me, as well. I support myself and don't believe he is entitled to my money. What should I do? — Spurned Daughter

Dear Daughter: Unless Dad is planning to take you to court for that money, we think you should ignore his demand. It is mean-spirited and punitive. Some disturbed and misguided parents try to hurt the ex-spouse by going after the children. We hope Dad will calm down, and while you're waiting, please consider both legal and emotional counsel. Your college counseling department should be able to help."

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2455 on: June 18, 2011, 04:08:30 AM »
The good news....the gunk, junk, and crap in my bronchial tubes are starting to break up.

The bad news.....the gunk, junk, and crap in my bronchial tubes are starting to break up and it's waking me up at odd hours during the night, ruining my sleep.
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« Reply #2456 on: June 18, 2011, 07:08:21 AM »
Despite the season, try making a tea of hot lemon juice and honey. You get lots of Vit C and the warm liquid will help soothe your nasal passages and throat, at least. I know it doesn't help with the lung congestion, but it is soothing.
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« Reply #2457 on: June 18, 2011, 07:45:33 AM »
Despite the season, try making a tea of hot lemon juice and honey. You get lots of Vit C and the warm liquid will help soothe your nasal passages and throat, at least. I know it doesn't help with the lung congestion, but it is soothing.

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« Reply #2458 on: June 19, 2011, 05:57:36 AM »
Looks like the Voc. Rehab. is going to be in limbo indefinitely until they decide to reassign me to a new counselor.  The counselor I was originally assigned to is still doing NOTHING except sitting on her butt!   :P
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« Reply #2459 on: June 20, 2011, 06:03:41 AM »
The congestion in my bronchial tubes is continuing to break up and I'm feeling really bitchy this morning.   :P
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