Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Meh]

Cool, around 11:30 PM, there were some young people having a house party broadcasting yodeling over a loud sound system could hear it from blocks away

[BonesMS]

Cool, around 11:30 PM, there were some young people having a house party broadcasting yodeling over a loud sound system could hear it from blocks away

A house party?  A HOUSE PARTY??  Broadcasting yodeling over a loud sound system that could be heard blocks away at 11:30 PM?!?!?!?!?  That must have drove the neighbors NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2012/05/dear_prudie_my_mom_let_me_play_with_her_breasts_for_years_now_she_s_doing_it_to_my_sister_.html

One word......EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

Sounds familiar.....

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/when-you-live-on-a-one-way-street.html

[BonesMS]

WHOA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/the-sinister-side-of-wardrobe-control.html

[BonesMS]

With the HOA stuff, I'm still on a learning curve.  One of the things I've picked up on is that I'm going to have to force my voice to be heard as property management tends to talk over people while trying to force what THEY want!

[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

Excuse me but shouldn't this guy KNOW how to use a raincoat?!?!?!?!?

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/sideshow/man-fathered-30-kids-needs-break-child-support-140439765.html

I mean....REALLY?!?!?!?!?!?!?

[BonesMS]

As some of you may be aware, I've been dealing with a bit of a roller-coaster ride since I got elected to the HOA Board.  I had to assert myself when the newly-appointed HOA president attempted to force me into a private meeting with him and property management....a meeting that I never asked for.  When I declined the "offer", he sent me a nasty e-mail demanding whether or not I was questioning his abilities.  I told him that I choose to decline the "offer" of this private meeting.

This evening, when I got home from having an evening out with friends, I discover an e-mail from this newly-appointed HOA president resigning from everything effective immediately.  (This is not the first time he has quit.)  It appears that if anyone dares disagree with him, he picks up his marbles and goes home to sulk.  I couldn't help but notice, over the years, that his attitude seems to be:  "His way or no way."

[Ales2]

About the guy with the 30 some kids... I think the women are also to blame - alot!  If they dont know that he already has other children and baby mamas, they should and choose more carefully. That said, there are also plenty of women out there who know most marriages dont last. alimony is only a given after a certain number of years, but child support, if you can get it, is at least 18 years and for some that can be enough.  Takes two - and I dont know why any self respecting woman would want a deadbeat, unless he lied to them about his daddy-status. 

But in general, Bones, I do agree with you -  get a vasectomy or wear a raincoat!

[BonesMS]

About the guy with the 30 some kids... I think the women are also to blame - alot!  If they dont know that he already has other children and baby mamas, they should and choose more carefully. That said, there are also plenty of women out there who know most marriages dont last. alimony is only a given after a certain number of years, but child support, if you can get it, is at least 18 years and for some that can be enough.  Takes two - and I dont know why any self respecting woman would want a deadbeat, unless he lied to them about his daddy-status. 

But in general, Bones, I do agree with you -  get a vasectomy or wear a raincoat!

Granted, the Baby-Mamas  have done stupid stuff with this deadbeat.  I can't throw stones as I know how easily it can happen....especially if he targets women who have grown up in situations similar to mine and the women are looking for Parmach in all the wrong places.  It's knowing that what this deadbeat is doing is DELIBERATE that frosts me!

[BonesMS]

As some of you may be aware, I've been dealing with a bit of a roller-coaster ride since I got elected to the HOA Board.  I had to assert myself when the newly-appointed HOA president attempted to force me into a private meeting with him and property management....a meeting that I never asked for.  When I declined the "offer", he sent me a nasty e-mail demanding whether or not I was questioning his abilities.  I told him that I choose to decline the "offer" of this private meeting.

This evening, when I got home from having an evening out with friends, I discover an e-mail from this newly-appointed HOA president resigning from everything effective immediately.  (This is not the first time he has quit.)  It appears that if anyone dares disagree with him, he picks up his marbles and goes home to sulk.  I couldn't help but notice, over the years, that his attitude seems to be:  "His way or no way."

To clarify what I meant by newly-appointed....he was appointed to the Board, by the Board members, not elected by the home owners, in order to fill a vacancy left by a former member who moved out of state.  These same Board members who appointed him to the Board also appointed him as the new Board president.

[BonesMS]

The first letter in today's "Dear Abby" seems to be describing the "Mother-in-law from Hell" even though she has not become the "Mother-in-law" yet!  We've heard of "Bride-zillas before.  What would be the adjective for this future "Mother-in-law" who seems to be attempting to take over the bridal shower?

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120521

[BonesMS]

Just checking in.....

I watched the final episode of "House" last night and just when I thought he was a Total N, the plot twist turned EVERYTHING on its head!