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« Reply #3780 on: September 13, 2012, 06:16:02 AM »
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« Reply #3781 on: September 13, 2012, 07:42:02 PM »
So frustrated!!!!

For the past several years, I had been able to use my degree by assisting with mental health screenings and got paid for it!

This year, I received information that I am expected to VOLUNTEER to do the EXACT SAME WORK....with ZERO PAY!!!!

WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?  I've got medical bills that have got to be paid!  The medical people are NOT going to "volunteer" to cancel my bills!!!!

DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3782 on: September 14, 2012, 02:59:35 AM »
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« Reply #3783 on: September 14, 2012, 03:18:46 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence.html

This sounds like everyone's worst nightmare!

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« Reply #3784 on: September 14, 2012, 05:28:04 AM »
So frustrated!!!!

For the past several years, I had been able to use my degree by assisting with mental health screenings and got paid for it!

This year, I received information that I am expected to VOLUNTEER to do the EXACT SAME WORK....with ZERO PAY!!!!

WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?  I've got medical bills that have got to be paid!  The medical people are NOT going to "volunteer" to cancel my bills!!!!

DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Being FORCED to volunteer is NOT volunteering!!!!  From my point of view, that is SLAVE LABOR!  This Homey Don't Play That!
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« Reply #3785 on: September 14, 2012, 07:49:25 PM »
I'm not sure if everyone was able to see one of the cases on Judge Judy today where a plaintiff was suing a repo man because she didn't like the way he attempted to repossess her car that SHE NEVER PAID FOR!  Judge Judy had ZERO sympathy for her and invoked the Doctrine of Unclean Hands!  The judge also encouraged the defendant to press criminal charges against the plaintiff for the physical assault that she committed.  The repo man stated that all he wanted to do was complete the job he was hired to do and repossess the vehicle.  Judge Judy told the plaintiff that her case was being completely dismissed and ordered the car to be turned over to the defendant Repo Man!

What made me laugh out loud was when the litigants were being interviewed at the end of the case.  Turns out that while the litigants were in Judge Judy's courtroom, the plaintiff's car got towed away by the Repo Man's company!!!!!   :lol:  I would have LOVED to have been a fly on the wall when the plaintiff walked out to where she left her unpaid-for-car and found it GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gotta LOVE Judge Judy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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« Reply #3786 on: September 15, 2012, 01:38:14 AM »
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« Reply #3788 on: September 15, 2012, 01:52:34 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/a-wooden-friendship.html

The first letter in "Dear Margo" reminds me of the kind of comments I have received when people, that I barely know or total strangers, see me crocheting or knitting....(ex:  "I want that!  GIMME!).  The demands are annoying at best and inappropriate at worse.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3789 on: September 15, 2012, 02:00:58 AM »
So frustrated!!!!

For the past several years, I had been able to use my degree by assisting with mental health screenings and got paid for it!

This year, I received information that I am expected to VOLUNTEER to do the EXACT SAME WORK....with ZERO PAY!!!!

WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?  I've got medical bills that have got to be paid!  The medical people are NOT going to "volunteer" to cancel my bills!!!!

DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is happening all over the Uk at the minute, Bones, they're just forcing people to work for free.  It is absolutely disgusting.  I am so sorry to read that they are doing this to you.  ((((((((((((((((((((((((Bonesie))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3790 on: September 15, 2012, 02:06:27 AM »
So frustrated!!!!

For the past several years, I had been able to use my degree by assisting with mental health screenings and got paid for it!

This year, I received information that I am expected to VOLUNTEER to do the EXACT SAME WORK....with ZERO PAY!!!!

WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?  I've got medical bills that have got to be paid!  The medical people are NOT going to "volunteer" to cancel my bills!!!!

DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is happening all over the Uk at the minute, Bones, they're just forcing people to work for free.  It is absolutely disgusting.  I am so sorry to read that they are doing this to you.  ((((((((((((((((((((((((Bonesie))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

What is even more frustrating is that the person who is attempting to force this is a suspected N.  I've observed his behaviors where he has consistently demonstrated that if he can't USE you, he has no use for you, (if you are physically unable to work 80-hour work weeks as opposed to 40-hour work weeks).  He has also been known to LIE, then deny he ever said any such thing when confronted with his lie.  On top of that, I've watched and listened as he made disparaging comments about people with disabilities, (he doesn't like anyone who has health challenges, which is why I don't have a regular job there anymore when my disabilities began manifesting themselves).  I guess, in one sense, I should count my blessings that I don't have to deal with him on a regular basis anymore.  I just DESPISE slave labor, especially at the hands of an N.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3792 on: September 16, 2012, 11:40:16 AM »
When I checked Facebook last night before heading for bed, I found a PM from an NCousin DEMANDING that I tell one of my friends to FRIEND him!  (I had no idea they knew each other.)  I asked my friend if she was aware of his "request" and she commented that she must have overlooked it due to being busy with her husband, kids, and grandkids.  (I have no problem with that.  Life DOES happen outside of Facebook!)  Informed NCousin that she will get back to him when she is able, and left it at that.  He sends another DEMAND that she FRIEND him NOW!  He also DEMANDED when I was going to come down and visit him!  (This annoyed me as I was already exhausted and my patience was gone!  I have NO desire to see him!   :P)

Told him that I'm tired and I'm signing off for the night!  Then I logged off.  If he got pissed off because I refused to do as he DEMANDED.......TOO BAD!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3793 on: September 17, 2012, 03:17:22 AM »
trouble sleeping.................................
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3794 on: September 17, 2012, 08:00:35 AM »
Hope you got some good rest finally, ((((Bones))))

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