Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Ales2]

Hi Bones,

Ive read your posts heres and never really commented on your initial post and question.

Yes, in my experience, Ns ALWAYS violate boundaries and even seem more intent on violating them once they know what they are, which to me, is the true sign that they are Ns/personality disordered folks. Most normal people will back off or at least respectfully question your boundaries, but Ns will not back off, inquire or attempt at compromise, they just VIOLATE and assume you are WRONG, they are RIGHT whatever the context. Normal people have empathy and an ability to trust and work toward compromise, but not Ns.

Thanks for this post. All the best to you Bones.

[BonesMS]

Hi Bones,

Ive read your posts heres and never really commented on your initial post and question.

Yes, in my experience, Ns ALWAYS violate boundaries and even seem more intent on violating them once they know what they are, which to me, is the true sign that they are Ns/personality disordered folks. Most normal people will back off or at least respectfully question your boundaries, but Ns will not back off, inquire or attempt at compromise, they just VIOLATE and assume you are WRONG, they are RIGHT whatever the context. Normal people have empathy and an ability to trust and work toward compromise, but not Ns.

Thanks for this post. All the best to you Bones.

Thanks, Ales!

N's are BAT-SH*T CRAZY!!!!

[Twoapenny]

Hi Bones,

Ive read your posts heres and never really commented on your initial post and question.

Yes, in my experience, Ns ALWAYS violate boundaries and even seem more intent on violating them once they know what they are, which to me, is the true sign that they are Ns/personality disordered folks. Most normal people will back off or at least respectfully question your boundaries, but Ns will not back off, inquire or attempt at compromise, they just VIOLATE and assume you are WRONG, they are RIGHT whatever the context. Normal people have empathy and an ability to trust and work toward compromise, but not Ns.

Thanks for this post. All the best to you Bones.

Thanks, Ales!

N's are BAT-SH*T CRAZY!!!!

Bones I always love the way you tell it like it is, always makes me smile xx

[BonesMS]

Hi Bones,

Ive read your posts heres and never really commented on your initial post and question.

Yes, in my experience, Ns ALWAYS violate boundaries and even seem more intent on violating them once they know what they are, which to me, is the true sign that they are Ns/personality disordered folks. Most normal people will back off or at least respectfully question your boundaries, but Ns will not back off, inquire or attempt at compromise, they just VIOLATE and assume you are WRONG, they are RIGHT whatever the context. Normal people have empathy and an ability to trust and work toward compromise, but not Ns.

Thanks for this post. All the best to you Bones.

Thanks, Ales!

N's are BAT-SH*T CRAZY!!!!

Bones I always love the way you tell it like it is, always makes me smile xx

Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((((Tupp))))))))))))))))))))! 

BTW, here is today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/12-hour-project-people.html

Regarding the hostess who deliberately spiked everyone's drinks without telling them.....I feel that only an N would do something so STUPID!!!!  Clearly, the N is NOT thinking about the legal liabilities should one of the guests die from a medical crisis or an accident!

[BonesMS]

Spotted this article this morning:

http://news.yahoo.com/judge-supervise-ohio-woman-holding-idiot-sign-104941372.html;_ylt=AmTDi7uQSOQ4r3CAD4snF9gJVux_;_ylu=X3oDMTIxNTFwdjhlBG1pdANBVFQgSG9tZSBXaWRnZXRyb24gVGVzdCAxBHBvcwM0BHNlYwNNZWRpYUF0dFdpZGdldHJvbkFzc2VtYmx5;_ylg=X3oDMTFpNzk0NjhtBGludGwDdXMEbGFuZwNlbi11cwRwc3RhaWQDBHBzdGNhdANob21lBHB0A3NlY3Rpb25z;_ylv=3

I think the driver must be an N!  I would LOVE to see how she reacts to the judge showing up with her TODAY!!!!!   

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20121115

With the first letter, I can see both sides.  I've known one N-Idiot who persisted in parading her mother into situations that were CLEARLY HAZARDOUS to the Alzheimer's patient's health, safety, and well-being while the N-Idiot crowed:  "Look at what a GREAT daughter I am!!!!"  One of those times resulted in the patient falling and breaking her hip!!!!  The N-Idiot REFUSED to accept responsibility for her negligence claiming that it was the patient's fault NOT hers!!!  N-BITCH!   

[BonesMS]

With today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/suicide-survivor-not-at-fault.html

Either the editors who format the letters screwed up without proofreading or the letter-writer is still so distraught that it is difficult for her to put two words together to make a comprehensible sentence.  I'm not blaming the letter writer.  I understand, all too well, where she is coming from as I have lost family members and friends to suicide.  In one situation, a close friend of mine was murdered before her killer took his own life.  Under those circumstances, it's very difficult for survivors to be able to think straight so I get it!

[BonesMS]

Gotta VENT cuz I am SO ANGRY that I'm fighting the overwhelming urge to B*TCH-SLAP a certain Narcissistic politician for a STUPID comment that he recently came out with!  He's claiming he lost because his opponent gave "gifts" to minorities!  EXCUSE ME?!?!?!?   

When the Homestead Act was passed YEARS and YEARS ago, during the 1800's, and FREE LAND was being given away, my ancestors were EXCLUDED because they were persons of COLOR! When slavery ended and Reconstruction began after the Civil War, my ancestors were promised 40 acres and a mule as reparation for BEING ENSLAVED. THAT NEVER MATERIALIZED!  I'm still waiting for my 40 acres and my mule! During the Jim Crow Era, people of COLOR were MURDERED because they wanted EQUALITY, CIVIL RIGHTS like any other human being!  My Dad risked being lynched because of the life he chose to lead, which should have been his CIVIL RIGHT and his HUMAN RIGHT! Now this RICH, GREEDY, SELF-CENTERED, RACIST NARCISSISTIC TWIT spews IDIOCY LIKE THIS?!?!?!? DAMN!!!!!!!!!!

Can you tell I'm PISSED OFF MAD!?!?!?   

[BonesMS]

Just spotted a comment that made me laugh!  I'm going to paraphrase it here:


"I'm not an astronomer but I'm pretty sure the planets revolve around the sun, NOT you!"

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20121116

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/sulking-for-sex.html

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Margo":

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/not-quite-cyrano.html

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20121117

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox" talks about Asperger's in the first letter....

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/asperger-s-explains-it.html

[BonesMS]

In today's "Dear Margo", the letter may trigger some flashbacks:

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/when-molestation-is-a-memory.html

The letter writer's father is in complete DENIAL about what occurred when she was a child!  This CRIMINAL was attempting to groom the child so that he could go further in his abuse.  (Look at what Sandusky did!)  If that had been my child and I learned that one of my relatives was doing THAT, the relative would have lost some body parts!!!!