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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4337 on: March 26, 2013, 05:23:12 AM »
For Dr. G:

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4344 on: March 30, 2013, 05:17:07 AM »
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Today's "Dear Abby".


Feeling a bit out of sorts today......if the NQueen was still alive, she would be 100 years old today.

Logic tells me I shouldn't care and, at the same time, my Inner Child is still hurting for the mommy she never had.  I've been trying to cope by hugging one of my Teddy Bears when things start feeling really bad.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4345 on: March 31, 2013, 06:27:45 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4346 on: March 31, 2013, 10:52:42 AM »
Ginormous kindly woman-sized Teddy Bear --biggest and nicest in the world-- sends you a great big comforting safe smooshy hug, Bones. She takes up no closet space at all, she only materializes when she's needed. (She would prefer daily, however.)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4347 on: March 31, 2013, 11:43:20 AM »
Ginormous kindly woman-sized Teddy Bear --biggest and nicest in the world-- sends you a great big comforting safe smooshy hug, Bones. She takes up no closet space at all, she only materializes when she's needed. (She would prefer daily, however.)

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Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((((Hops)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4349 on: March 31, 2013, 10:26:54 PM »
Had a bit of a lesson in contrasts today....if I can call it that.

I was sending hugs to a friend of mine who was mourning the 20th anniversary of his younger son's death at the age of 24.  I can only imagine how he must have felt when he got that awful phone call.  He still misses his child with all his heart and soul and the only thing I can offer him are hugs because words are inadequate.

Then, when I had a quiet moment alone, I realized the contrast between him and the NQueen regarding the death of my sister at birth.  While my friend was making today a remembrance about his son, the NQueen made my sister's death about herself and only herself....with put-downs about my sister, (who was only an infant).  The difference between my friend acting as a grieving parent and the NQueen was like night and day.....literally!

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