Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Gaining Strength]

This has turned into the week from HELL!!!!  I just learned that a dear friend of mine, Dick Wagner, died earlier today.  He was the one who persuaded me to come onto Facebook and assured me that his invitation was the REAL DEAL and not some machine-generated spam.  I was even working on his family tree for him to help him find out whether or not he was related to the famous German composer, Richard Wagner.  He sent me a copy of his book that he autographed for me.  When we first met, in 1992, at a John Bradshaw workshop, he held a small private concert for us and I had the chance to sit close as if we were in his living room.  He was a great guy with a big heart of gold, full of music, loved life and lived it to the fullest.

When he played his private concert for us, this was one of the songs he did:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCTWq3ICB7I[quote/]

I'm sorry to read about your loss Bones but I am also touched by this lovely friendship you had.  I is certainly a relationship to rejoice in. Thinking of you.

[BonesMS]

I sent an e-mail to one of the police officers who I've dealt with on other occasions and told him what has been happening since this past Friday.  Turns out, he is the SUPERVISOR of the officer who blew me off.  (I didn't know that.)  This morning, I got a phone call from the officer, who blew me off, asking me to come to the station and write a Witness Statement of everything I observed yesterday.  I wrote about five pages of everything that I saw and heard and it has been given to a detective.  It appears that the police are finally taking this case seriously.

Now I wonder what will happen next?

Good for you Bones.  Your persistence paid off. That is such a remarkable thing for you to do.

Thanks, G.S.

[BonesMS]

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Many triggers!

do you want to share anything about these triggers Bones?

Not at the moment.  I'm dealing with too many emotional upheavals right now.

[BonesMS]

This has turned into the week from HELL!!!!  I just learned that a dear friend of mine, Dick Wagner, died earlier today.  He was the one who persuaded me to come onto Facebook and assured me that his invitation was the REAL DEAL and not some machine-generated spam.  I was even working on his family tree for him to help him find out whether or not he was related to the famous German composer, Richard Wagner.  He sent me a copy of his book that he autographed for me.  When we first met, in 1992, at a John Bradshaw workshop, he held a small private concert for us and I had the chance to sit close as if we were in his living room.  He was a great guy with a big heart of gold, full of music, loved life and lived it to the fullest.

When he played his private concert for us, this was one of the songs he did:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCTWq3ICB7I[quote/]

I'm sorry to read about your loss Bones but I am also touched by this lovely friendship you had.  I is certainly a relationship to rejoice in. Thinking of you.

Thanks, G.S.

I've reached out to his children asking if there is anything I can do.  To me, Dick was the brother from another mother. 

[BonesMS]

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I've always loved Dick's sense of humor.

[Hopalong]

I'm so sorry for your loss of this important friend (((((((((Bones))))))))).

He seems like such a lovely wonderful person.

I'm glad you had him in your life, it seems as though he really comforted you.

Hope you'll hold on to that comfort even though he's no longer physically here.

love
Hops

[BonesMS]

I'm so sorry for your loss of this important friend (((((((((Bones))))))))).

He seems like such a lovely wonderful person.

I'm glad you had him in your life, it seems as though he really comforted you.

Hope you'll hold on to that comfort even though he's no longer physically here.

love
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

He was a lovely, wonderful person with a huge heart.  I'm glad he let me adopt him as my brother.  Words are failing me right now.

[BonesMS]

http://www.usatoday.com/story/life/music/2014/07/31/alice-cooper-guitarist-dick-wagner-dies/13444829/

Dick accomplished so much and was so humble.  He was never a narcissist.  I think that's why I came to love him as a brother from another mother.

[Gaining Strength]

I'm so glad for you that you knew him and loved him And he you.

[BonesMS]

I'm so glad for you that you knew him and loved him And he you.

Thanks, G.S.

This world is a diminished place without him in it.

[Twoapenny]

Bones, I'm so sorry that so much has been going on for you just lately - the loss of a friend and now this situation with your neighbour.  I hope you're finding that you can look after yourself as well, such a lot for you to cope with.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[BonesMS]

Bones, I'm so sorry that so much has been going on for you just lately - the loss of a friend and now this situation with your neighbour.  I hope you're finding that you can look after yourself as well, such a lot for you to cope with.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks, (((((((((Tupp))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2014/8/3/0/daughter-is-hurt-by-drunken-moms#disqus_thread

[BonesMS]

I think I may be finally finding my voice ....

As some of your may be aware, I have been having HELL WEEK ... dealing with a case of Elder Abuse with my next door neighbor and getting help for him, dealing with an attack of Spastic Colitis in the middle of that emergency ... then in the middle of all THAT, my brother from another mother dies.  As you can guess, my nerves are RAW!!!!!

Then, on Facebook, this IDIOTIC TROLL decides to start dumping Tea Bigot Racist CRAP into my Private Message and I CAME OUT SWINGING!!!  After firing my trebuchet, flinging the troll off my Friend List, I posted a WARNING to anyone else who wants to act like that.  Yeah, I WAS SHOUTING!

Several Friends HEARD MY VOICE and ACKNOWLEDGED how I felt!  David Gerrold, the author of "The Trouble With Tribbles" added:  "Atta Girl!  You're a Force of Nature and I Love You for That!" 

GOD, I needed to hear some affirmations after Hell Week!