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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7875 on: December 28, 2016, 09:10:17 AM »
Earlier in the day, yesterday, I got a phone call from the hospital accusing me of NOT paying my medical bills since August!!!!  WTF?!?!?!?   :?

I already KNEW that these medical bills were being paid EVERY SINGLE MONTH because I have my bank account set up to pay them automatically and I just checked it a few hours before the phone call to make sure everything was fine plus schedule to have another bill paid that just arrived in the snail mail yesterday.  (I tend to be anal about paying bills.)  Hospital staff person attempted to politely call me a liar until I started rattling off the amounts that I had agreed to be paid every month, etc., and that I had just looked at my bank account shortly before she called and the payments she insisted had NOT been paid HAD ALREADY CLEARED!!!  (No, I don't give out any personal details on the off-chance I'm dealing with a scammer.)  I heard her push some computer buttons on her end, heard her awkwardly clear her throat, then tell me:  "You are correct.  I just found the missing payments from August to now.  Sorry for bothering you."  URGH!!!!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7879 on: December 28, 2016, 02:04:13 PM »
Earlier in the day, yesterday, I got a phone call from the hospital accusing me of NOT paying my medical bills since August!!!!  WTF?!?!?!?   :?

I already KNEW that these medical bills were being paid EVERY SINGLE MONTH because I have my bank account set up to pay them automatically and I just checked it a few hours before the phone call to make sure everything was fine plus schedule to have another bill paid that just arrived in the snail mail yesterday.  (I tend to be anal about paying bills.)  Hospital staff person attempted to politely call me a liar until I started rattling off the amounts that I had agreed to be paid every month, etc., and that I had just looked at my bank account shortly before she called and the payments she insisted had NOT been paid HAD ALREADY CLEARED!!!  (No, I don't give out any personal details on the off-chance I'm dealing with a scammer.)  I heard her push some computer buttons on her end, heard her awkwardly clear her throat, then tell me:  "You are correct.  I just found the missing payments from August to now.  Sorry for bothering you."  URGH!!!!   :P

Glad it was sorted out quickly, Bones, it's really annoying when that sort of thing happens! xx

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7880 on: December 28, 2016, 06:02:55 PM »
Earlier in the day, yesterday, I got a phone call from the hospital accusing me of NOT paying my medical bills since August!!!!  WTF?!?!?!?   :?

I already KNEW that these medical bills were being paid EVERY SINGLE MONTH because I have my bank account set up to pay them automatically and I just checked it a few hours before the phone call to make sure everything was fine plus schedule to have another bill paid that just arrived in the snail mail yesterday.  (I tend to be anal about paying bills.)  Hospital staff person attempted to politely call me a liar until I started rattling off the amounts that I had agreed to be paid every month, etc., and that I had just looked at my bank account shortly before she called and the payments she insisted had NOT been paid HAD ALREADY CLEARED!!!  (No, I don't give out any personal details on the off-chance I'm dealing with a scammer.)  I heard her push some computer buttons on her end, heard her awkwardly clear her throat, then tell me:  "You are correct.  I just found the missing payments from August to now.  Sorry for bothering you."  URGH!!!!   :P

Glad it was sorted out quickly, Bones, it's really annoying when that sort of thing happens! xx

Believe it or not, they tried to call again TODAY about the EXACT same thing until I pointed out to them that I had a LONG discussion concerning this YESTERDAY!  They hung up on me!  I'm waiting for them to try to call me again and I'll be armed with my data to shut them down a third time!  I'm in NO mood to be messed with!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7882 on: December 30, 2016, 08:33:47 AM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5l2yr6/mil_in_the_wild_wherein_the_bunny_very_nearly/?sort=new

The comments about putting a muzzle and leash on the N had me cracking up!!!!   :lol:
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7883 on: December 31, 2016, 02:28:07 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5l2yr6/mil_in_the_wild_wherein_the_bunny_very_nearly/?sort=new

The comments about putting a muzzle and leash on the N had me cracking up!!!!   :lol:

I have NO idea WHY the mods deleted the post when it was CLEARLY a Mother-in-Law IN THE WILD!!!!

Someone does NOT know how to read!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7884 on: January 01, 2017, 05:40:53 AM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5l2yr6/mil_in_the_wild_wherein_the_bunny_very_nearly/?sort=new

The comments about putting a muzzle and leash on the N had me cracking up!!!!   :lol:

I have NO idea WHY the mods deleted the post when it was CLEARLY a Mother-in-Law IN THE WILD!!!!

Someone does NOT know how to read!!!!

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/5lejpv/mil_in_the_wild_wherein_the_bunny_meets_the_dil/?st=ixeiuibe&sh=7dcc43e1

The update was worth the wait!!!   WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 :mrgreen:   :o
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7885 on: January 02, 2017, 07:40:46 PM »
When it comes to doing any kind of research, I tend to be quite anal and detail oriented.

One of my cousins posted on Facebook about how our family descended from Royal Blood with various titles such as Dukes and Baronets.  I had to tell her that, unfortunately, those titles are extinct because there was no male heir to inherit and, therefore, their family name could not continue down to our line.  I'm thinking she may have confused our ancestors with unrelated others of the same name, e.g. not all people named "Bones" are related to each other.  I don't think my cousin is very happy with me right now.

My stance is to verify before making such a statement, just like I learned in my Experimental Psychology class where it was required to rule out confounding variables by double-checking, triple-checking, and testing again to see if the results can be repeated.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7889 on: January 10, 2017, 05:40:07 PM »
I've been reading some postings in the JNMIL website where the Jocasta Complex is often mentioned.  Just now, an old memory suddenly started making my skin crawl!!!!

Y'all might remember how NWomb-Donor acted out at NGCBrother's wedding where she was parading around the room declaring that my brother needed to leave his brand-new bride IMMEDIATELY and come home to HER?!?!?!  Well, one of the other things that NWomb-Donor did FREQUENTLY was to bring out one of my NGCBrother's pictures, when he was about six or seven years old, riding the hobby horse nude.  NWomb-Donor seemed to get her rocks off waving this child porn around at anyone who was visiting!  Knowing what I know now about the Jocasta Complex....this memory is making me SHUDDER!!!!   EW!!!  EW!!!!  EW!!!!!  EW!!!!   :P
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