What Do You Do WHen Your Heart is Going to Break?

[Overcomer]

Hey thanks.  And it was a good story too.

[Overcomer]

He cried.  The last conversation they had she yelled at him and hung up the phone on him.

[Ami]

what happened --if you care to say? How did she die? How old was she?

[Overcomer]

A three year thing ended for me and a guy from church asked me out.  I was not attracted to him physically but he said ALL the right things to me and I fell for him.  Three weeks later he bought me an engagement ring.  Next day I could tell something was wrong-he said his ex called him and wanted him back.  He went straight back to her.  I was destroyed!  A week later I net my I and was married six months later!  Do not do that!  Emotions on a roller coaster=disaster!

[Overcomer]

I mean I met my husband.  She had been weak for the part month or so.  She went to the E R a couple of times and  they were worried about drug interactions.  She was fine this morning-went in for some tests and came out and her blood pressure dropped and she died.  They revived her once and them she died again.  Totally unexpected!  72 Years old.

[Ami]

A three year thing ended for me and a guy from church asked me out.  I was not attracted to him physically but he said ALL the right things to me and I fell for him.  Three weeks later he bought me an engagement ring.  Next day I could tell something was wrong-he said his ex called him and wanted him back.  He went straight back to her.  I was destroyed!  A week later I net my I and was married six months later!  Do not do that!  Emotions on a roller coaster=disaster!

WE are having two separate conversations here--- the death and  the craziness of love (LOL)
Well, I think that I am safe b/c the guy doesn't want me anymore. That does  tend to make it  safe(lol)
 Yes, Kelly, a man's way to your heart  is all in the words--- more than anything. Isn't it?                  Ami

[Ami]

For me ,if s/one dies suddenly,I see it as a blessing. It is horrible to have lingering deaths. However, death is very,very hard ,in any case.
  I am so sorry,Kelly.                 Ami

[Overcomer]

Yes two conversations but it is YOUR thread!  When I look back at my three week whirlwind relationship now I have to laugh.  I look at him and am relieved that I did not jump into marriage with a man who was much shorter than I with three children and an ex wife to deal with!  One thing was interesting-we were "saving"  ourselves for marriage until his wife called and wanted him back.  He went back to his wife but not until we did it once for posterity-and I got a compliment from him-he said

[Ami]

Once for posterity--it is--huh?                         Ami

[Overcomer]

IT WAS THE BEST SEX HE HAD EVER HAD IN HIS LIFE!

[Overcomer]

But enough about me-what does this person have to offer you that someone else cannot and wha does he not have that you wish he did?

[Ami]

I had totally given up on ever 'falling in love" or having a connection with a man. I was at "peace" with it(as much as you could be). Then,I just connected in a very deep way and REALIZED that I really would like to have that connection with a man
 

[Overcomer]

But what is he lacking?  THAT is the Q.  Look past that first giddy feeling to what really IS.

[Ami]

You are so smart,Kelly. Thank you for caring so, very much. It means the world to me.  Love You   Ami

[changing]

Hi-

The two themes are actually extremely connected- death and sex, Eros and Thanatos-look at the opera Carmen for instance.

Love,

Changing