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Does the N ever receive HER just deserts?

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Anonymous:
Guest above, uhha, that would be Jaded :lol:

shixie:
Thank you for your response.  Since learning about NPD I look at things differently.  I often wonder if substance abuse gets the blame for bad behavior when it in reality is NPD.  Curing the addiction doesn't always change the person.  Thanks again for responding.  :)

mighty mouse:
Shixie and Jaded,

My closest friend used to point out to me that my family (non drinkers) resembled that of a "dry drunk". So yes...I would say that NPD is probably the culprit because it so mirrors that of an alcoholic's (or substance abusing) family.

And I am always asking people on the board if I offended because as we all seem to know, it is extremely easy to offend an individual with NPD. I always think everything out of my mouth will offend someone! I hope I didn't offend anyone here LOL.

MM

shixie:
Thank you for your response.  Since learning about NPD I look at things differently.  I often wonder if substance abuse gets the blame for bad behavior when it in reality is NPD.  Curing the addiction doesn't always change the person.  Thanks again for responding.  :)

Jaded911:
MM,
 Your statement is so so true.  Dealing with a N makes you stop, think, cross your fingers, and hope they take what you say right with your breath held.  It does carry over to other people that cross your path.  I used to think about every word so not to offend him.  Funny how they don't practice what they preach.  Their words come out faster and crueler then a damn fightin alley cat.

Then they expect you to just get over it.  If you dont, they start slinging the next round of horse chit at ya.  I often wondered how N can lay their head down at night.

Boy, what a whicked way to have to live your life.

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