Author Topic: Changes in Self Image  (Read 6434 times)

Leah

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Re: Changes in Self Image
« Reply #45 on: May 08, 2008, 07:43:05 PM »


Leah......this is certainly a shocking example of the massive power of denial at work. Can you imagine the trauma that drove this man to such a delusional and almost insane state of hopeless belief? I hope you don't waste your precious time anymore under the spell of such people......Love, James


James,

I so resonate with what you have so succinctly expressed regarding "the massive power of denial" at work, for that is how I perceived the situation, and yes, I believe he became delusional, as did many others.

I am happy to report that I broke free from the "charismania" church a few years ago now, however, it took a very long time to heal from the "spiritual abuse" - which I now believe, is a serious, harmful, form of abuse, indeed.

Thank you so much for your understanding and validation, very much appreciated and valued.

Love, Leah
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Re: Changes in Self Image
« Reply #46 on: May 08, 2008, 07:51:49 PM »
You know,Leah, I am feeling angry at some Christian teachers b/c I feel that they are hurting people b/c THEY are unhealed. Scott went up to one prominent Christian teacher to be prayed for. Scott was crying about his F. The guy said,"Get over it'---BLEH!
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Re: Changes in Self Image
« Reply #47 on: May 08, 2008, 08:03:21 PM »
You know,Leah, I am feeling angry at some Christian teachers b/c I feel that they are hurting people b/c THEY are unhealed. Scott went up to one prominent Christian teacher to be prayed for. Scott was crying about his F. The guy said,"Get over it'---BLEH!
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Dear Ami,

I can well believe it, I heard one "Top 10" charismatic preacher/teacher tell everyone to "suck it up" and quit complaining etc etc.  I believe they are hurting people because they are walking "in the flesh" in "power and control" over people.  Sadly, humility and a servant heart is not a "hot topic" -- evidently, not welcome in their "ministry."    I share from personal experience. 

I am saddened to know that young Scott endured such heartbreaking "spiritual abuse" -- I know how that feels as a mother, for my young son was greatly hurt and I have only recently forgiven myself, having deep regret and grief, for my dear son having been subjected to "spiritual abuse." 

Love, Leah
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