Author Topic: Time to Plumb the Depths Again  (Read 9383 times)

Leah

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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #60 on: May 22, 2008, 07:48:23 PM »

Oh ((( SS )))

How lovely!  Enjoy the company just simply being your light hearted self.

Love,

Leah
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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #61 on: May 23, 2008, 12:20:27 AM »
It was so nice. He was nice, attractive, smart, fun to be with.  Just the boost I needed.  Thanks for your encouragement Leah.  I feel like a new person - able to do anything - even go on a date and have fun and skip the self-conscious stage that I lived in for so long.

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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #62 on: May 23, 2008, 03:03:39 AM »

Dear SS,

I am so happy for you, all sounds absolutely wonderful - and indeed, you are a new person - clearly.  You have become free and are stepping out into a new way of life, for you.

Love, Leah
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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #63 on: May 23, 2008, 08:05:31 AM »
SS, this is lovely news!  :D

I am so glad for you.

I salute your inner lovely 17 year old!

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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #64 on: May 23, 2008, 08:44:05 AM »
Thank you both.  In reading your two posts I'm beginning to feel new.  i receive that sense that you have morrored back to me.  Thanks for that gift.

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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #65 on: May 23, 2008, 10:24:40 AM »
Dear SS
 I bet you would be really fun on a date. I bet he was happy to spend some time with you. It is neat that you had a good time.What a gift that you had some fun!    Love   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #66 on: May 23, 2008, 10:46:26 AM »
hmmmmmm.....

getting the shame out of the way to get the real feelings - feeling them - digesting & excreting them - letting them go....
makes a lot of room for other things...

like dates? fun?

You are healing those original wounds, SS... VERY QUICKLY!
And you are simultaneously healing them AND beginning to venture into more than surviving - real living!

What a lot of energy you have!  :D
I can't wait to hear more good news... I can hear your smile in your words and it does my heart good...
Success is never final, failure is never fatal.

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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #67 on: May 23, 2008, 04:39:08 PM »
I am reading Janov's book, The Primal Scream. It really describes how we lose our real self and get "unreal". It is amazing.Maybe you would be interested SS. Just thought I would mention it.              Hugs    Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #68 on: May 23, 2008, 07:11:20 PM »
Well beware of Ns...................but my hope for you is that you two connect and you have a great guy.  Nothing that a little positive distraction won't cure!!
Kelly

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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #69 on: May 24, 2008, 06:48:22 AM »
Thinking of you, SS. You are doing really well!        Love  Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Time to Plumb the Depths Again
« Reply #70 on: May 26, 2008, 10:19:31 AM »


Thinking of you (((((( Shame Slayer ))))))

Trusting all is well with you.

Love, Leah
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