Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery

[Leah]

Can we all just get along?


Those words have been my very own words (of similar ilk) and heartfelt sentiment, here on board, on more than one occasion, from whence I joined in January 2007.


Love to (((((( everyone ))))))) Leah


An inclusive person of independent thought with an egalitarian worldview.

[Changes]

Hi Leah-

Thank you.

Love and Peace,

Changing

[Changes]

Hi Bean-

I have never sent a PM to anyone, as I rememeber, just replies to PMs sent to me-I have never posted Ami's PMs on the board- in fact I don't have them at present, and can only remember what she wrote me, and respond to Ami if she wishes me to with our previous correspondence. I would certainly do that.

[Certain Hope]

Changing,

I hope that at some point really soon your return here can be about you and your own needs, concerns, interests...
as it should be.

Welcome back.

Carolyn

[lighter]

::claming hands over mouth::

::going to start brand new thread:: )

Lighter

[Gabben]

Ami, if you wish I  can post some of the items that you PMd me as Changing, as well as some of the items that I replied.

Dear Changes,

Hi Changes, I hope you are well despite all that you are going through. We have never connected much on the board in the past when you were Changing.

Curious about something? Please do not take offense, but I need clarification, how can you access your old PM's under changing if you cannot access the account of changing?

If Ami is wrong, well, then I would just like to say hi to you and I hope that we can get to know each other better because Ami has told me much about you in the past....all good, as a matter of fact Ami shared on several occasions how much she missed you and how worried she was about you.

Much warmth to you.

Lise

[Changes]

Hello-


Gabben-I have not accessed my old PMs- but can remember their content to a great extent, and could recall some items that might make her feel more at ease. ( I believe that I said that in response to Bean but it may have been unclear as I am extremely tired at present)
 
Bean- I would be very happy to do whatever Ami would like. I am exhausted and do not want more "drama" for anyone- that is why I would like to do what Ami would like me to- I don't want to cause any problems or hurt for anyone, and I do not feel especially competent at this moment to initiate anything , but I would do what she indicates would be helpful.

Certain Hope- Thank you so much for welcoming me. I am facing so much uncertainty- I wish that I hadn't married that man, and could just hightail it away. It helps to have you caring support. Hope all is well with you.

Lighter- Thank you for your help and support since I came on the Board. I think that things will be okay, and it will all work itself out.

Love and Peace,

C.

[Certain Hope]

((((((((Changing)))))))) you sound absolutely worn out to me and I'm very familiar with that feeling.

Please take your time to express whatever is most on your heart and then deal with the rest of the questioning at your own pace.

Like Dr. Grossman said, it's up to everyone to re-establish trust and that's only going to happen as individuals see fit... for some, it may be impossible, but that's not your issue.

Just take it easy and make yourself at home here.

Love,
Carolyn

[Leah]

I would stick with signing off as one or the other, as folks tend to start thinking all sorts.

either sign off as Changing - as you did first off a few mins ago.

or sign off as C.    as you are now doing.


I stick to Leah

If I started signing of as L.  

folks may tend to start thinking all sorts, perhaps.


Just a small word of wisdom?


All the best,  Love, Leah

[Certain Hope]

Lighter,

That would not even satisfy some folks.

Suspicious minds work in different ways.

Once seeds like that have been planted, it's really hard to shake off.

It'll pass, in time.

Carolyn

[Leah]

Lighter,

That would not even satisfy some folks.

Suspicious minds work in different ways.

Once seeds like that have been planted, it's really hard to shake off.

It'll pass, in time.

Carolyn

I hope that is a corporate inclusive statement, if so, yippee.

Goodnight folks and may God Bless you, one and all.

Love, Leah

[Certain Hope]

Lighter,

That would not even satisfy some folks.

Suspicious minds work in different ways.

Once seeds like that have been planted, it's really hard to shake off.

It'll pass, in time.

Carolyn

I hope that is a corporate inclusive statement, if so, yippee.

Goodnight folks and may God Bless you, one and all.

Love, Leah

Leah,

I find this post of yours to be an obnoxious snipe, but then that's typical of your treatment of me here.

This sort of childish behavior only speaks to your own lack of character...
just something to keep in mind.

Carolyn

[Leah]

Carolyn,

It was NOT a snipe

we ALL said that fun was permissable.

YIPPEE is a shout for JOY

and its mine.

Stop controlling the board please, it is an all inclusive board.


What Would Jesus Do?


Love, Leah


Edit:   1 rule for everyone else

and 1 rule for Leah

seems apparent, I think.

[Certain Hope]

Carolyn,

It was NOT a snipe

we ALL said that fun was permissable.

YIPPEE is a shout for JOY

and its mine.

Stop controlling the board please, it is an all inclusive board.


What Would Jesus Do?


Love, Leah

Leah,

I am not controlling anything but my own boundaries.

I am free to declare how I feel about your posts to me and that is all I have done here.

I hope that you will show some sound character and stop treating me in this way, but if you choose to continue, I will continue responding with my own feelings.

Carolyn

[Ami]

 Dr G gave the verdict. I wish the best for my dear friend, Changing. If she is here on earth or in Heaven.                      Ami