My friends B/F son was murdered this past June at the age of just turning 24. He had two other children a D who is 18 and another S who is 23.
The D was just out of high school and on her way to college when the tragedy took place. She had just flown up here to spend the summer with her father and other brother when they all had to fly back to bury him.
This Xmas the B/F had the entire family come. The D in law, ex wife, all the children so they could all be together. Although they are divorced they are friends with children shared.
The ex wife went back home last week and the D followed yesterday by plane to go back to college. Her father and her brother took her to the airport. They had their family day together and goodbyes, love you, see you soon.
The father and his son had lunch spent time together Alone Time and then later on the S went out with his friends ::: to never return.
He was killed last night. Hit by a Car.
It is only 6 months and the family has buried both their sons.
How does one get through this.
My friend called me at 3 am and all she could do was repeat my name. Debbie, Debbie, Debbie, Debbie.
My friend told me that she called the xwife to see if there is anything she can do:: The ex was very calm and said, No, I'm going to get some sleep and said she was very odd Could it be the Shock, I said Yes.
At 5:30 I woke out of my sleep in a panic and tried to reach my friend. I wanted to tell her to make sure the M was not alone. I am worried and concerned at how Calm she was.
It's the afternoon now and I have not heard anything so I pray that M is with other family.
Such a tragedy.....and how does one get through this....
Love
Deb
