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HeartofPilgrimage

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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #15 on: September 05, 2009, 01:06:08 PM »
Thanks for asking that, Ami ... I am incredibly blessed because yes, my husband really sees me. He thinks I can do anything (leap tall buildings in a single bound). He has been my salvation (OK, mentally --- you and I have already discussed that my Christian faith has been my spiritual salvation! But I also believe that God sent my husband to me ...). It makes me feel incredibly sad that you have not had that experience.

Also, I have three girlfriends (now) that really see me. It has taken me til this age (46) to trust women enough to not freeze when they are kind to me. And all three of my girlfriends have Ns in their family --- two have N mothers and one has a N father.

I'm beginning to see that when I was younger, I either froze kind women out of my life, or I gravitated to the N women because they felt familiar. I was my own worst enemy. In fact, I'll bet I am still my own worst enemy!!! But I'm getting better.

It does make a huge difference just to be seen, doesn't it? To feel that your feelings matter to somebody.
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #16 on: September 05, 2009, 01:41:12 PM »
Dear Heart
 You are blessed, for sure--a H who sees you. That is a gift from God. I am happy you have him and the girlfriends. God is really good !!             xxxxooo   Ami
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #17 on: September 05, 2009, 01:41:53 PM »
Hi, Blackie

Hi, Whitie,

Just wanted to let you know I'm reading both of you  :wink:


For some reason I keep thinking about fringe. Does Blackie's leather Jacket have fringe? Spikes?

What is the "worst" thing Blackie has ever done?   Ami, What do you think will happen if Blackie gets her way?





Ami,

You wrote above that your mother masturbated in front of you as a young child. I just want to say that is Fucked.
She is a Nar-person, but I don't think Narcissism is enough to classify that sort of stuff.

You poor thing, that must be so confusing for a kid to witness.
I'm sorry that you have been carrying around that memory your whole life. Yuck.
« Last Edit: September 05, 2009, 02:08:00 PM by Helen »
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #18 on: September 05, 2009, 02:12:41 PM »
Quote from: Helen on September 05, 2009, 01:41:53 PM
Hi, Blackie

Hi, Whitie,

Just wanted to let you know I'm reading both of you  :wink:


For some reason I keep thinking about fringe. Does Blackie's leather Jacket have fringe? Spikes?

What is the "worst" thing Blackie has ever done?   Ami, What do you think will happen if Blackie gets her way?





Ami,

You wrote above that your mother masturbated in front of you as a young child. I just want to say that is Fucked.
She is a Nar-person, but I don't think Narcissism is enough to classify that sort of stuff.

You poor thing, that must be so confusing for a kid to witness.
I'm sorry that you have been carrying around that memory your whole life. Yuck.


Thanks Helen. It put a hurting on me, for sure.
On a better subject, I love how you see Blackie  dressed!                                  Ami
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #19 on: September 05, 2009, 02:19:46 PM »
Ami, are you afraid to talk about Blackie?

I wonder if I would like to be friends with Blackie, I can't tell because I can barely see her. Maybe Blackie doesn't want any friends.
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #20 on: September 05, 2009, 02:23:22 PM »
??????????????????????????????????

Blackie, Do you want to throw a vase at my head? Or out the window?

OR Drive around in a monster truck!!

Want to drive over your mother with a monster truck nick-named Black-mobile?
« Last Edit: September 05, 2009, 02:27:20 PM by Helen »
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #21 on: September 05, 2009, 02:24:16 PM »
Quote from: Helen on September 05, 2009, 02:19:46 PM
Ami, are you afraid to talk about Blackie?



No,(((Helen)))) it just seems like the evolution is taking a Whitie first ,way. I am surprised at this ,too,but Whitie  has had to be perfect for so long that she can't stop talking.         Ami
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #22 on: September 05, 2009, 02:29:43 PM »
Quote from: Helen on September 05, 2009, 02:23:22 PM
??????????????????????????????????

Blackie, Do you want to throw a vase at my head? Or out the window?

OR Drive around in a monster truck!!

Want to drive over your mother with a monster truck nick-named Black-mobile?


LOL  :lol:
Blackie just can't come out yet but she is always open to such suggestions as these!
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #23 on: September 05, 2009, 02:30:00 PM »
Do Blackie and Whitie talk with each other?

Could they sit down at a tea party together and chat? What would happen?

Is Blackie mad at Whitie or is Whitie mad at Blackie or are they BFF?
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #24 on: September 05, 2009, 02:31:16 PM »
Want me to stop asking questions?
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« Reply #25 on: September 05, 2009, 02:32:12 PM »
Quote from: Helen on September 05, 2009, 02:30:00 PM
Do Blackie and Whitie talk with each other?

Could they sit down at a tea party together and chat? What would happen?

Is Blackie mad at Whitie or is Whitie mad at Blackie or are they BFF?



Blackie just can't come out yet. I don't know why? Whitie is first in line.Blackies time will come. Maybe when Blackie comes out, I will have to leave my marriage.      
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #26 on: September 05, 2009, 02:35:05 PM »
Quote from: Helen on September 05, 2009, 02:31:16 PM
Want me to stop asking questions?



No, the questions hurt but  I value your insights. Whitie and Blackie have their own intelligence, wisdom. It is not mine.                Ami
« Last Edit: September 08, 2009, 10:46:13 AM by Ami »
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #27 on: September 05, 2009, 02:35:42 PM »
Oh, Yes, I can understand why you would be worried if Blackie came out, it might disrupt your life, impact your marriage.
It might be unsafe if Blackie came out.

Ok, I won't encourage Blackie to come out. She can come out whenever she is ready.

We can have a coming out Party for Blackie when she decides it's ok. Black cake, Black crepe paper banners. Oh that would be fun!
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #28 on: September 05, 2009, 02:36:53 PM »
Whitie cannot do things in her own interest? If there was a tack on her ass, she would be sitting there wondering what she should do?
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Re: Blackie/Whitie
« Reply #29 on: September 05, 2009, 02:38:02 PM »
Quote from: Ami on September 05, 2009, 02:35:05 PM
Quote from: Helen on September 05, 2009, 02:31:16 PM
Want me to stop asking questions?



No, the questions hurt but  I value your insights. Whitie and Blackie have their own intelligence, wisdom. It is not mine.Isn't that strange?                   Ami

Ami, I'm sorry that the questions hurt, I did not intend for them to be painful, but I guess we are in the area of picking wounds.

Do you want to talk more about why and how the questions hurt. Or shall we let it be?
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