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« Reply #30 on: November 02, 2004, 10:13:38 AM »
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In that particular post, you did not embellish.  But all the other embellishing stuff must now be excused? It's justifyable, is it?  You seem to have decided who belongs where?  That's in your head.  Oh well,  whatever.

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I've never embellished, I've only repeated what you have posted in the past.   Your core words, despite the fact that you try to cover them with thousands and thousands of blatherings and ditherings, come back to haunt you on this board.  They will not be forgotten.

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« Reply #31 on: November 02, 2004, 10:29:38 AM »
I don't know who you are or what words you mean--another general accusation, is it?

I do think I know this--it looks like you may have decided that you are the epiphany of knowing who is and who is not equal or worthy, repentant or humble--and that is not a good thing to decide or take responsibility for.  Whether you have dealings with me or not.  That type of thinking will cause more harm than good but you may not ever realize that.  I have no ill will toward you.

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
 
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« Reply #32 on: November 02, 2004, 10:32:46 AM »
"They will not be forgotten."

A threat.

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« Reply #33 on: November 02, 2004, 10:34:09 AM »
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"They will not be forgotten."

A threat.

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A promise.  Made in the name of those who have been sexually abused.

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« Reply #34 on: November 02, 2004, 10:37:50 AM »
Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2004 10:34 am    Post subject:  

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Solace wrote:
"They will not be forgotten."

A threat.

S


A promise. Made in the name of those who have been sexually abused


Even those who go on to purpetrate themselves?

S
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
 
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« Reply #35 on: November 02, 2004, 10:39:06 AM »
Sorry about that.  Don't know how "Solace wrote" got in there.
That is not correct.
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
 
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« Reply #36 on: November 02, 2004, 10:39:06 AM »
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I don't know who you are or what words you mean--another general accusation, is it?

I do think I know this--it looks like you may have decided that you are the epiphany of knowing who is and who is not equal or worthy, repentant or humble--and that is not a good thing to decide or take responsibility for.  Whether you have dealings with me or not.  That type of thinking will cause more harm than good but you may not ever realize that.  I have no ill will toward you.

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Blah, blah blah, signifying nothing.   More blah blah blah.


Just decided to say what so many have been afraid to say, tired of all the pussy footing around.  Period.

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« Reply #37 on: November 02, 2004, 10:40:37 AM »
No problem.  As long as you can sleep at night.  I must be off.

S
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
 
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« Reply #38 on: November 02, 2004, 10:41:26 AM »
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Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2004 10:34 am    Post subject:  

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Solace wrote:
"They will not be forgotten."

A threat.

S


A promise. Made in the name of those who have been sexually abused


Even those who go on to purpetrate themselves?

S




That is not a word.  You make no sense.

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« Reply #39 on: November 02, 2004, 10:42:56 AM »
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No problem.  As long as you can sleep at night.  I must be off.

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I have no problem sleeping at night, I'm not in bed with a man who made a sexual offer to my child.

Yes, I agree, you are off.

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« Reply #40 on: November 02, 2004, 10:48:10 AM »
I like your quick witt.  And I'm not complimenting you, I'm expressing my feeling of what I like.

"I'm not in bed with a man who made a sexual offer to my child. "

You're right, you're not.  And that could never happen to anyone else, just me?  I am off---- my rocker, right?  You're sure, it seems.  Looks like you've made up your mind about that.

Good day to you, anyway.  No hard feelings from me but you, still appear to be out to label.  Why is that?

S
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« Reply #41 on: November 02, 2004, 11:05:33 AM »
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I like your quick witt.  And I'm not complimenting you, I'm expressing my feeling of what I like.

"I'm not in bed with a man who made a sexual offer to my child. "

You're right, you're not.  And that could never happen to anyone else, just me?  I am off---- my rocker, right?  You're sure, it seems.  Looks like you've made up your mind about that.

Good day to you, anyway.  No hard feelings from me but you, still appear to be out to label.  Why is that?

S


I have no ulterior motives.  If it makes you feel better to think that, go ahead.

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« Reply #42 on: November 02, 2004, 11:46:18 AM »
bump

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« Reply #43 on: November 02, 2004, 12:20:50 PM »
Things that don't work:

(1) engaging with "that person" in dialogue.

(2) arguing with her

(3) reasoning with her

(4) attacking her

(5) telling her anything at all.

She always puts "hooks" into her posts so that people will be provoked to reply. It's that simple.


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« Reply #44 on: November 02, 2004, 12:29:21 PM »
Amen!  Ya'll shut the hell up.  Jesus, Mary and Joseph.  Ignore the crap and get to what is really important.