So the Cowboy neighbor has become delusional...... we used to chat about life, yard tools and mowers, but now he's acting like a little boss man in charge of ordering women around and that looks really crazy to read, I realize.
The thing is....he's actually ordered me not to speak..... ordered me to take off my sunglasses, bc "he feels he's being interrogated" and wants to just talk AT us, me and my sister and likely everyone he's in contact with, and his entire life is falling apart around him, bc he hasn't adjusted to being handicapped, having his wife become the primary breadwinner and him not getting the attention and admiration he had before be became deathly ill and lost an eye and muscles, etc. It's very sad.
2 nights ago Cowboy called me at 11pm and I didn't answer. He couldn't get an Uber from his office and wanted to go home, bc it was too cold to sleep on his office sofa. He finally found a ride and found himself locked out of his home, almost fell, got caught in the rain trying to follow the house around to the backdoor, then had to go back around and bang on the front door till his wife answered.
The scary thing was.... he was very calm, eyes down, under his cowboy hat, saying things like.....
"whatever they say, I'll do.... I'm lucky to have a wife as good as mine...... they say I'm the problem, so I'll stop talking and just listen.... they want me to go to a therapist, but I think we can handle it in the family....."
It was a seachange from the delusional behavior of pretending to be a big business man (again) which is too pitiful to recount, so I won't, but apparently EVEryONE stepped back from him, bc he's hit rock bottom quickly. Suffice it to say, he's blaming his friends, family and hourly employees for his position...... which makes him meaner and bossier, which pushes people farther away. The sweet twenty something gal he hired for $20 "didn't work out" either.
He took a $250.00 uber the other day and wanted me to leave the forest and bring him a check, which wasn't happening, then hung up on me.
I'm afraid he'll kill himself OR himself, wife, son and pregnant DIL who live 2 doors away. The son and DIL didn't show up when the police arrived. I guess it's difficult to know what to do in those situations. People want to mind their own business and hope for the best, I guess.
I do know this..... he can't see well or move well at all. He's fallen recently and hurt his hip. His balance is getting worse by the day, so
folks have a chance if they bob and weave in that sort of crisis, IMO. Oh... and he lacks dexterity with his hands.
Yikes... he'scalling again. I jumped so high at the ringer.
Lighter