DD22 saw functional med doc yesterday. It is didn't include the bouncing and vibrating, but was just as strange and funny. Funny haha, but funny odd, too.
He was happy DD found relief from his pressing on nerves as she held her breath, visceral manipulation, very gentle chiropractor adjustment using handheld vibrating/small bumping machines, instead of big cracks.
This visit, he did give a big crack to her neck, then switched to the bumping machine as DD reacted with choice words and shock.
Truthfully, I think he wanted her reaction. I think he's.....a man......drawn to her dewy youth, humor and magnetism.
Two (overtly)red flags this visit....and there are always red flags, he put his hands on her neck and throat, feeling whatever he's feeling for, and said.....
"I'll just strangle you here....a bit."
::Sigh::.
Then he went on to say....
:The younger people, the millennials, use manual strangulation during sex, sometimes with deadly consequences."
I piped up it's not new and he went in to say it is.😬
That DD is experiencing relief and healing, in his program, keeps us 😬, but going back. It's an odd thing to neeeed things from him. From men, generally, bc it's more difficult to assert ourselves and call them on their bullshit, IME.
There will be punitive reactions, IME. One weighs and considers outcomes and expense of holding them accountable, IME.
Being pushed and pushed, is never good. DD considers clothing choices carefully, and so she should.
DD also thinks this doc is pretty profoundly autistic, in that he's singularly interested in a very narrowly focused way. I agree AND he doesn't seem aware of how did he comes across.
Second big red flag, yesterday, was doc drawing attention to his website featuring middle aged women, which are his treatment demographic. He asked me how I'm doing, and was dismissive when I responded all is well, chipper and upbeat. No Thing to jiggle or strangle here.😬 And there's lots of jiggling for DD.
DD received immediate relief from all sorts of symptoms......and she's a sturdy skeptic of all this doc does. It's been disconcerting, really, how helpful he's been.
Ok ....so he's talking about other stuff he does ...energy work, for certain, but also emotional polarity work, often creating "loud outbursts" from patients, often around trauma including rape. Lots of rape trauma in his middle aged female patient base.
He asked DD what she would say to her father, if he was standing before her. He asked if she was deeply effected by the violence in her young life around losing her father ...he asked how old she was when it happened.
We left, nervously commenting on the strangest things, laughing about the funny things and glad he's not doing the emotional polarity work, for now, as his office isn't "private enough."
DD remarked, she eventually might have to see him alone, and I asked how she intended to handle him. He's shorter than her, but,.......it feels like she's a delicious box of dewy chocolates, when we're in his office.
I don't intend to send her alone.....and that'll be easier since he's shifting her appointments to every 2 weeks soon.
The program runs 6 months, with his middle aged patients seen once monthly.
Oh .....another flag.....doc recently went on a beach trip, requiring attendance at a time share presentation/ambush. Last week he told DD to "spank him" if he signed up. I was stunned when he said "you don't have to whip me" to D D yesterday. She recovered quickly, picked up her jaw, and asked how his trip went. His eyes danced as he related how he resisted, but his wife was taken in, ready to sign, till he had their son, at University, talk her out if it. "They're very clever, with their mind traps.....creating urgency to form family memories around vacations."
He talked about a friend's polarity work curing stage 4 cancer in that friend's wife, over a weekend. I commented Andrew Weil wrote a book on spontaneous healing, and the doc looked at me as though I had 2 heads.....as though I 'd interrupted him.
He asked DD if she'd be interested in the polarity work, which included a wand and many little magnetic cards with pictures on them....no trauma details would be necessary for this to work ....he seemed very focused on her answer. I was interested in her answer, as well.
He told us again, his next week's temporary office is 10' wide x 30' long .....and I anticipated his asking her to arrive on her own. He did not make that ask. Instead, he said he was adding more treatment options....the brain clapping metronome stuff DD did at the brain center, for 1.
Apparently this doc had a brain injury and went to the same brain center we did. That neuro focused doc taught him how to do some if the work and DD said she was very familiar, as she'd done hours of it.
Doc also said he had a condition, he'd treated, in his brain where he would shake and spasm badly......he cured himself 90percent, by his reckoning.
I will end this by repeating a fact, I know, and impacts my ability to sit through these appointments with curiosity, rather than judgement requiring more re than my being present at appointments.
My Moss friend has relaxed around her dh's drinking, admitting she lost sight of his wonderful qualities, asked his forgiveness and noted how the drinking has diminished, based on her changes. She's experiencing sea change level improvements in her emotional and physical (IBS) health she thought was impossible, but there it is.
Some treatments doc mentioned, he uses:
Torus field, metatrons cube and life alignment.....
already mentioned visceral manipulation, applying pressure to (sore)nerves while patient deep breaths, chiropractic and polarity work.
Doc says he's a skeptic too. He had to see these work, with his own two eyes, before considering and training in them. Seems he's been at most of them since the late 80', early 90s.
The journey continues, and ......I already know it's strange, but we chose him based on his nutritional/supplement work. The rest has unfolded over time.
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