Author Topic: getting stuck  (Read 8232 times)

Anonymous

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getting stuck
« Reply #30 on: March 04, 2005, 10:36:34 AM »
My advice is take up another hobby.

Go work on you.

I collect and challenge my own assumptions all the time. Are you saying that it is wrong to speak up when I see assumptions being made, even when they're about me? How do you know that by doing this, right now, I'm not working on me?

mum

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« Reply #31 on: March 04, 2005, 10:39:08 AM »
Ok, this is spiraling downward.  See you all on another thread.

Anonymous

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« Reply #32 on: March 04, 2005, 10:51:12 AM »
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I am new here and would like to thank Guest for annoying me enough to work up the courage to post!


Hi Sleepyhead!  So Guest is helping you to mobilize a little?  That's a positive thing, isn't it? :D

Getting up that courage to post is an accomplishment.   Why does it seem so scarey?  It is though, isn't it?  :shock:

Hopefully, you will soon be posting due to other incentives, rather than annoyance.  I find many threads generate all kinds of feelings for me.  There are lot's to choose from, so that's a good thing too.

Welcome Sleepyhead.  :D

GFN

Anonymous

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« Reply #33 on: March 04, 2005, 11:04:50 AM »
Mudpuppy:

 :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:

Projection department indeed! :lol: Patz

Anonymous

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« Reply #34 on: March 04, 2005, 11:06:43 AM »
Sorry everyone I am so slow in reading posts but I could not let this little ditty of Mud's pass by!  :) Patz

Anonymous

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« Reply #35 on: March 04, 2005, 11:56:00 AM »
I don't know if the writer of that link has been 'outed' by others. And I don't want to say more about how I know about him. So you can disregard anything I've said if you want.

bunny

Anonymous

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« Reply #36 on: March 04, 2005, 12:06:13 PM »
Thanks bunny. I'll take it that you do know about him and will read that site with a more critical eye, thanks for the info.

Anonymous

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« Reply #37 on: March 04, 2005, 12:29:36 PM »
Which site, please?

The one Write posted or the one Guest posted?

Thanks

Anonymous

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« Reply #38 on: March 04, 2005, 12:49:48 PM »
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How do you know that by doing this, right now, I'm not working on me?


Don't know a thing but my guess is that if you are concentrating on scanning for other people's assumptions about you, then you might not be doing a great job of dealing with your own, an eg. of which is that Write had some negative intention for posting a link.

mudpup

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« Reply #39 on: March 04, 2005, 01:02:15 PM »
OK, I gotta reply to this silliness.
B and guest, or perhaps more accurately B is guest,
What was all that him-her, man-woman stuff in that one post. Gender identity issues? Pretty common with Ns I here.
I am sorry :cry: that Write took the superior position by boasting what a fine therapist she has. We all recognize that you quite rightly occupy that position yourself. Your assumption that she was boasting about herself seems to display N thinking. Perhaps you should add it to your assumption collection.
Your other logic displays a great deal of N thinking. When I called you a pole cat it was because you had unfairly criticized GFN. Perhaps you were busy collecting assumptions during English class, but if you remove the central clause which declares why I appreciate GFN, you find the intent of the sentence; "...anyone who picks on GFN... is a real pole cat." If GFN had never responded to any of my posts your catty remarks would still have a certain stench to them. If the aroma fits, wear it.
You also said "Is it possible there are other viewpoints? If not, then I agree, you are both paranoid" Huh? If there aren't other viewpoints then we are correct and are by definition not paranoid.
There are others, but times a wastin'.
Lets get serious.
These exchanges demonstrate one of the worst traits of Ns; Their utter and complete humorlessness about themselves. If you poke fun at somebody else, they slap you on the back and double over laughing. If while they're still down there you direct the same joke at them, they're instantly bolt upright and the iceman cometh.
Incidentally, when I posed the dilemma they have of whether to respond; they almost always respond, don't they? One of their other worst traits is always having the last word.
And lastly to mum, I thought of another meaning for Sam I Am. I AM is the phrase God used to describe himself in the bible. Sam (substitute N of your choice)=God. Now we're talkin' their language.
Write had the good sense to vacate this thread and so did mum. I propose we leave B and Guest to debate with themselves, or himself or herself or him/herself.
Good day
mudpuppy

Anonymous

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« Reply #40 on: March 04, 2005, 01:04:05 PM »
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Which site, please?

The one Write posted or the one Guest posted?

Thanks


I was referring to the link posted by the Guest.

bunny

Anonymous

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« Reply #41 on: March 04, 2005, 01:13:45 PM »
Thanks again Bunny.

Mudpuppy!    8)  8)  8)

 :D  :lol:  :D  :lol:

Yes :!: