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They act on it in a very negative way through retaliation, sadism, attempts to destroy the good things. This is how they operate for survival at a deep level.
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I just found this from bunny...This is SO true. I'm usually a pretty hyper, happy person. If I was having a day when I was bouncing around like a "Tigger" happy about something, he just couldn't deal with it. He would squash my "happies" as fast as he could. I think he loves people (family/friends) who are depressed, or going thru crap so he can play savior to them with his grand knowledge and deep insight. (Excuse me...BullSh**...I sneezed)
I remember him once looking at me and said something like, I"m in the mood to destroy something beautiful". I looked at him blankly and was like What? He looks at me and says..."YOU".
He sucks me like a vampire of my happiness, joy of life, innocence of how evil he can be, and uses it almost like a salve to his emotional wounds. But his gash in his heart is so deep, it will never be enough to fill.