Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Ami]

i think that we could coin a   phrase to describe N's---- Emotional Bull in China Shop..   Do you agree?                                   Ami

[BonesMS]

i think that we could coin a   phrase to describe N's---- Emotional Bull in China Shop..   Do you agree?                                   Ami

I agree!  And today, when I received my copy of the TV Guide, I find ANOTHER article about this NPD individual.  Part of me knows she's a sick chick and, at the same time, her manipulative ploys are now making me MAD!     I wish she could just grow up and shut up!  Unfortunately, she is capable of neither!  Her soon-to-be ex-husband could probably benefit from our experience in dealing with Nspouses and Nex-spouses.

Bones

[BonesMS]

I'm still encountering more media about this ongoing situation.  I'm sure it's painful for the soon-to-be ex-husband.  My other concern is that when their daughter is 12 years old, she's going to be encountering some of the backlash, especially when her Nmom continues her tirade, which we all know from experience, Nmoms will do!

Bones

[BonesMS]

I think everyone will be relieved once the divorce part is settled but....knowing Ns the way we do, her terrorist tactics will NEVER stop!!!!

Bones

[BonesMS]

I just received a polite e-mail from NDoofus.  Given that I still need to get my DVD back from her, I'm still mulling it over.

Bones

[changing]

Hi Bonesy-

Can you buy another CD? You know how NDoofus is when she worms her way back in your good graces...It may be worth the price of the CD to keep clear!
In any case, I hope you have a lovely Saturday!

Love, Changing

[BonesMS]

Hi Bonesy-

Can you but another CD? You know how NDoofus is when she worms her way back in your good graces...It may be worth the price of the CD to keep clear!
In any case, I hope you have a lovely Saturday!

Love, Changing

Thanks, Changing!
Given my finances, that would not be feasible.  She also loaned me a videotape before all the !@# hit the fan and I want to give that back to her.

Bones

[changing]

Bonesy-

I guess you and I are doing the same thing then, out of neccessity- dealing with material exchamges with Ns- BLEEH!!!!

Love,

Changing

[BonesMS]

Bonesy-

I guess you and I are doing the same thing then, out of neccessity- dealing with material exchamges with Ns- BLEEH!!!!

Love,

Changing

Exactly!!!!!!!!

Bones

[BonesMS]

Yesterday, I sent an e-mail asking her to return my DVD as I was available that particular day.  I purposely did NOT tell her my schedule as I feel she does NOT need to know what I do every second of my day/week/month/year.  Got no response.  Not surprised.

Bones

[changing]

Same stuff happening here-
NH Bagworm has also not responded with a list or confirmation of appointment for the item pick up stipulated at the hearing.  Showed up one night after the designated date last week, and I sent him away- hope he stays home this time , and makes the excruciating effort to conform with legal strictures this time!!!

Love,

Changing

[BonesMS]

Same stuff happening here-
NH Bagworm has also not responded with a list or confirmation of appointment for the item pick up stipulated at the hearing.  Showed up one night after the designated date last week, and I sent him away- hope he stays home this time , and makes the excruciating effort to conform with legal strictures this time!!!

Love,

Changing

NH Bagworm sounds like a piece of work!  If he's dumb enough to ignore the legal strictures, I hope his gluteus maximus lands in jail! 

NDoofus finally sent an e-mail tonight stating:  "Sorry I missed you.  Let me know your schedule."  Ugh!  I'm going to wait until the next time I have a day off and then respond.

Bones

[changing]

HMMM- maybe we could introduce them , they could become a couple, they would leave us alone to our own individual pursuits, and drive each other crazy instead????

Love,

Changing

[BonesMS]

Not sure if I want to hurt the husband of NDoofus.  He's suffering enough as it is without adding Bagworm to the mix!  UGH!

Bones

[changing]

Ohhh- I'm sorry, didn't realize she was married

Well if she weren't I couldn't think of anyone who deserves him more! I'll just have to hatch another hare-brained scheme, that's all Bonesy!

Best of Luck Tonight and Getting Your CD Back!

Love,

Changing