The best story I have of an NMother/babies - a friend who was in the hospital on a fetal heart monitor. I was there with her waiting for her husband to get to the hospital from his job across town (and awful traffic). As we waited, her Mother arrived and one of the nurses noticed that whenever the NMotehr was in the room, my friends heart rate and the babies jumped considerably. Nurse cleared all visitors out of the room into the hallway. As N Mother went to get coffee, Nurse asked me about the Mother. I told her - they dont get along and she causes anxiety. Nurse went back to my friend and had a conversation, I dont know what was said. Anyway, NMother returned and insisted on seeing her daughter. Nurse told her, Mom needs rest time and she would have to wait outside. Nurse, then the Doctor told Mom she had to wait outside a second and third time. Eventually N Mother protested again, barged in and was asked to leave. When she did not listen to Dr and Nurse repeated orders, Dr called security and had her tossed out of the maternity ward. Results on a baby monitor don't lie and posed a risk to mom and baby. Proof of the internal harm they do, even when we try to be calm with them.
