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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8085 on: January 31, 2018, 08:21:46 AM »
It's good to watch and wait, Bonesie, and see how things develop.  How are things going for you healthwise now?  A little better, I hope xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've been taking things slow.

Slow and steady wins the race and all that :)  I find I get bored and then speed up a bit and overdo it so I'm working on staying slow for longer lol xx


LOL!

I've done that too and paid the price.
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« Reply #8086 on: February 02, 2018, 03:51:53 AM »
It's good to watch and wait, Bonesie, and see how things develop.  How are things going for you healthwise now?  A little better, I hope xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've been taking things slow.

Slow and steady wins the race and all that :)  I find I get bored and then speed up a bit and overdo it so I'm working on staying slow for longer lol xx


LOL!

I've done that too and paid the price.

Lol, it's difficult, isn't it, because you feel a bit better (because you rested) and you think, yay, I can do stuff and then I find I just go and go until I'm worn out again!  So I'm really trying to make myself take breaks and not go too mad but it's difficult because it feels nice to have some energy and you want to sort of do something with it lol xx

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8087 on: February 02, 2018, 06:06:33 AM »
It's good to watch and wait, Bonesie, and see how things develop.  How are things going for you healthwise now?  A little better, I hope xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've been taking things slow.

Slow and steady wins the race and all that :)  I find I get bored and then speed up a bit and overdo it so I'm working on staying slow for longer lol xx


LOL!

I've done that too and paid the price.

Lol, it's difficult, isn't it, because you feel a bit better (because you rested) and you think, yay, I can do stuff and then I find I just go and go until I'm worn out again!  So I'm really trying to make myself take breaks and not go too mad but it's difficult because it feels nice to have some energy and you want to sort of do something with it lol xx

Yeah!

Right now I need to take the trash to the dumpster.  When I was younger and healthier, it was no big deal walking to the far end of the parking lot hauling the bag of trash.  Now, it's exhausting when I take it in small batches since I can't haul a large bag anymore.  It's frustrating.
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« Reply #8088 on: February 03, 2018, 12:57:35 AM »
Aw Bones, that's the kind of thing that's really tough, just those normal, every day activities that need to be done but that become such big jobs if your health goes.  I get your frustration with that, it's a real pain to deal with :( xx

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« Reply #8089 on: February 03, 2018, 07:57:43 AM »
Aw Bones, that's the kind of thing that's really tough, just those normal, every day activities that need to be done but that become such big jobs if your health goes.  I get your frustration with that, it's a real pain to deal with :( xx

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« Reply #8090 on: February 15, 2018, 11:49:54 AM »
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing?  The weather is kind of weird here; very sunny but so cold; the days are getting longer and the crocuses are coming up but they've forecast snow and we've still at least a couple of months of winter to get through yet :)  How is it in your part of the world? xx

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« Reply #8091 on: February 15, 2018, 12:13:00 PM »
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing?  The weather is kind of weird here; very sunny but so cold; the days are getting longer and the crocuses are coming up but they've forecast snow and we've still at least a couple of months of winter to get through yet :)  How is it in your part of the world? xx

Hi, Tupp.

It's been cold here too and sometimes it has rained like crazy.

I can't wait for Spring!

I'm tired of the cold and how it's affecting my health.
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« Reply #8092 on: February 17, 2018, 02:15:57 AM »
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing?  The weather is kind of weird here; very sunny but so cold; the days are getting longer and the crocuses are coming up but they've forecast snow and we've still at least a couple of months of winter to get through yet :)  How is it in your part of the world? xx

Hi, Tupp.

It's been cold here too and sometimes it has rained like crazy.

I can't wait for Spring!

I'm tired of the cold and how it's affecting my health.

Bluergh, I know what you mean!  I love spring :)  The birds are waking up here, there's a lot of singing in hedgerows and I've seen magpies gathering sticks for their nests.  The crocuses are coming up and there are catkins appearing on the trees.  Yesterday was beautiful and sunny here, today it's freezing!  Yes, come on spring, we want it to hurry up!! xx

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« Reply #8093 on: February 17, 2018, 06:25:34 AM »
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing?  The weather is kind of weird here; very sunny but so cold; the days are getting longer and the crocuses are coming up but they've forecast snow and we've still at least a couple of months of winter to get through yet :)  How is it in your part of the world? xx

Hi, Tupp.

It's been cold here too and sometimes it has rained like crazy.

I can't wait for Spring!

I'm tired of the cold and how it's affecting my health.

Bluergh, I know what you mean!  I love spring :)  The birds are waking up here, there's a lot of singing in hedgerows and I've seen magpies gathering sticks for their nests.  The crocuses are coming up and there are catkins appearing on the trees.  Yesterday was beautiful and sunny here, today it's freezing!  Yes, come on spring, we want it to hurry up!! xx

Yeah!  I'm tired of being cooped up!

Also, I might be giving away my identity....I thought I would share the following snark from Valentine's Day.  Normally, Valentine's Day depresses me but this opportunity got me GIGGLING!:

"Darn! I just missed an opportunity to have some Snarky Fun! A few days ago, I got a Friend Request from an individual who was mutual friends with another Trekkie. I thought, "Okay, cool!" Then, this morning, I see that this "New Friend" had sent me a private message suggesting sex! (WTF?!?!?) I was all set to reply with the following: "I know it's Valentine's Day, however, I am an Asexual Alien from the Planet Whatever who's over 200 years old and needs frequent feedings and diaper changes. I would suggest you check with other Federation Worlds to see if you can find a better looking dude with chiseled washboard abs. I ain't it!" Unfortunately, the Facebook Folks had already jettisoned the idiot out the nearest airlock before I could send off my snark! I think I've been hanging out with David Gerrold so much that his influence is taking over the world! LOL!!!!"

Yeah THAT was FUN and gave me a much-needed laugh!  Even David Gerrold got in on the FUN which also helped to cheer me up!

Bring on the CHOCOLATE!!!!!!

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« Reply #8094 on: February 18, 2018, 02:42:24 PM »
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing?  The weather is kind of weird here; very sunny but so cold; the days are getting longer and the crocuses are coming up but they've forecast snow and we've still at least a couple of months of winter to get through yet :)  How is it in your part of the world? xx

Hi, Tupp.

It's been cold here too and sometimes it has rained like crazy.

I can't wait for Spring!

I'm tired of the cold and how it's affecting my health.

Bluergh, I know what you mean!  I love spring :)  The birds are waking up here, there's a lot of singing in hedgerows and I've seen magpies gathering sticks for their nests.  The crocuses are coming up and there are catkins appearing on the trees.  Yesterday was beautiful and sunny here, today it's freezing!  Yes, come on spring, we want it to hurry up!! xx

Yeah!  I'm tired of being cooped up!

Also, I might be giving away my identity....I thought I would share the following snark from Valentine's Day.  Normally, Valentine's Day depresses me but this opportunity got me GIGGLING!:

"Darn! I just missed an opportunity to have some Snarky Fun! A few days ago, I got a Friend Request from an individual who was mutual friends with another Trekkie. I thought, "Okay, cool!" Then, this morning, I see that this "New Friend" had sent me a private message suggesting sex! (WTF?!?!?) I was all set to reply with the following: "I know it's Valentine's Day, however, I am an Asexual Alien from the Planet Whatever who's over 200 years old and needs frequent feedings and diaper changes. I would suggest you check with other Federation Worlds to see if you can find a better looking dude with chiseled washboard abs. I ain't it!" Unfortunately, the Facebook Folks had already jettisoned the idiot out the nearest airlock before I could send off my snark! I think I've been hanging out with David Gerrold so much that his influence is taking over the world! LOL!!!!"

Yeah THAT was FUN and gave me a much-needed laugh!  Even David Gerrold got in on the FUN which also helped to cheer me up!

Bring on the CHOCOLATE!!!!!!

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Lol!!  Oh wow, Bonesie, that is unbelievable, so did the guy who sent the friend request get chucked out before the reply was sent?  Perfect response, how funny, some people need to be told!  Lol :)  I think you deserve extra chocolate for that :) xx

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8095 on: February 18, 2018, 03:13:31 PM »
Hi Bonesie, how are you doing?  The weather is kind of weird here; very sunny but so cold; the days are getting longer and the crocuses are coming up but they've forecast snow and we've still at least a couple of months of winter to get through yet :)  How is it in your part of the world? xx

Hi, Tupp.

It's been cold here too and sometimes it has rained like crazy.

I can't wait for Spring!

I'm tired of the cold and how it's affecting my health.

Bluergh, I know what you mean!  I love spring :)  The birds are waking up here, there's a lot of singing in hedgerows and I've seen magpies gathering sticks for their nests.  The crocuses are coming up and there are catkins appearing on the trees.  Yesterday was beautiful and sunny here, today it's freezing!  Yes, come on spring, we want it to hurry up!! xx

Yeah!  I'm tired of being cooped up!

Also, I might be giving away my identity....I thought I would share the following snark from Valentine's Day.  Normally, Valentine's Day depresses me but this opportunity got me GIGGLING!:

"Darn! I just missed an opportunity to have some Snarky Fun! A few days ago, I got a Friend Request from an individual who was mutual friends with another Trekkie. I thought, "Okay, cool!" Then, this morning, I see that this "New Friend" had sent me a private message suggesting sex! (WTF?!?!?) I was all set to reply with the following: "I know it's Valentine's Day, however, I am an Asexual Alien from the Planet Whatever who's over 200 years old and needs frequent feedings and diaper changes. I would suggest you check with other Federation Worlds to see if you can find a better looking dude with chiseled washboard abs. I ain't it!" Unfortunately, the Facebook Folks had already jettisoned the idiot out the nearest airlock before I could send off my snark! I think I've been hanging out with David Gerrold so much that his influence is taking over the world! LOL!!!!"

Yeah THAT was FUN and gave me a much-needed laugh!  Even David Gerrold got in on the FUN which also helped to cheer me up!

Bring on the CHOCOLATE!!!!!!

 :lol:

Lol!!  Oh wow, Bonesie, that is unbelievable, so did the guy who sent the friend request get chucked out before the reply was sent?  Perfect response, how funny, some people need to be told!  Lol :)  I think you deserve extra chocolate for that :) xx

It was actually a FEMALE who knew I am NOT a male!  I don't swing that way!

When I saw that private message, I laughed my A$$ off because the FIRST thing I thought of was David Gerrold's experience with the exact same thing!  That's where I got my inspiration from and decided to go all out with the FUN SNARK!  The Facebook Techies were faster than I was!

Yeah, I need MORE CHOCOLATE!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8096 on: February 18, 2018, 03:58:36 PM »
Oh wow, that's even funnier!  Those Facebook techies are too fast!  Lol xx

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« Reply #8097 on: February 18, 2018, 04:40:53 PM »
Oh wow, that's even funnier!  Those Facebook techies are too fast!  Lol xx

Oh yeah!  LOL!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8098 on: March 04, 2018, 02:52:48 AM »
How's the weather now, Bonesie, any better?  We've had a lot of snow and veeeery cold weather, minus 11 a couple of nights this week and our heating broke down earlier in the week.  Got it fixed and I've kept it on since, I was scared it wouldn't start again if I switched it down too low :)  Starting to warm up again now, though.  Hope the weather is getting better for you :) xx

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« Reply #8099 on: March 04, 2018, 04:45:59 AM »
How's the weather now, Bonesie, any better?  We've had a lot of snow and veeeery cold weather, minus 11 a couple of nights this week and our heating broke down earlier in the week.  Got it fixed and I've kept it on since, I was scared it wouldn't start again if I switched it down too low :)  Starting to warm up again now, though.  Hope the weather is getting better for you :) xx

A bad wind storm hit my area on Friday and there's been quite a bit of damage around.  My home is okay, just a few shingles flew off the rooftops of my condo development.  I feel sorry for anyone who is dealing with the aftermath.
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