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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8235 on: November 08, 2019, 03:55:47 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear this, Bones.
How scary. How brave you are.

I hope you'll have a positive answer soon,
and that you'll find real support so you don't
face anything hard too alone.

Will be thinking of you. Much light your way.


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« Reply #8236 on: November 09, 2019, 03:00:10 AM »
Feeling scared right now.

I recently had a CT scan to try and locate where various kidney stones have been hiding.

In addition to the kidney stones, the CT scan showed a new mass inside my abdomen and they don't know what it is.  I'm seeing a specialist about it next week.

Oh Bonesie, I'm sorry, that is scary, I find knowing 'something' might be happening but not knowing what really difficult to cope with.  I hope the specialist can give you some info quickly and I hope it isn't anything too much to sort out.  Did they find your kidney stones at the same time? xx

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« Reply #8237 on: November 09, 2019, 04:18:05 AM »
Feeling scared right now.

I recently had a CT scan to try and locate where various kidney stones have been hiding.

In addition to the kidney stones, the CT scan showed a new mass inside my abdomen and they don't know what it is.  I'm seeing a specialist about it next week.

Oh Bonesie, I'm sorry, that is scary, I find knowing 'something' might be happening but not knowing what really difficult to cope with.  I hope the specialist can give you some info quickly and I hope it isn't anything too much to sort out.  Did they find your kidney stones at the same time? xx

Thanks, Tupp.

They did locate the kidney stones at the same time they found this thing.  I'm trying to keep a lid on my anxiety.

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« Reply #8238 on: November 12, 2019, 03:44:25 AM »
Feeling scared right now.

I recently had a CT scan to try and locate where various kidney stones have been hiding.

In addition to the kidney stones, the CT scan showed a new mass inside my abdomen and they don't know what it is.  I'm seeing a specialist about it next week.

Oh Bonesie, I'm sorry, that is scary, I find knowing 'something' might be happening but not knowing what really difficult to cope with.  I hope the specialist can give you some info quickly and I hope it isn't anything too much to sort out.  Did they find your kidney stones at the same time? xx

Thanks, Tupp.

They did locate the kidney stones at the same time they found this thing.  I'm trying to keep a lid on my anxiety.
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Can they treat kidney stones?  It's another thing I know nothing about :)  I hope the appointment with the specialist goes well and that they can give you some useful information when you see them xx

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« Reply #8239 on: November 12, 2019, 01:29:26 PM »
Feeling scared right now.

I recently had a CT scan to try and locate where various kidney stones have been hiding.

In addition to the kidney stones, the CT scan showed a new mass inside my abdomen and they don't know what it is.  I'm seeing a specialist about it next week.

Oh Bonesie, I'm sorry, that is scary, I find knowing 'something' might be happening but not knowing what really difficult to cope with.  I hope the specialist can give you some info quickly and I hope it isn't anything too much to sort out.  Did they find your kidney stones at the same time? xx

Thanks, Tupp.

They did locate the kidney stones at the same time they found this thing.  I'm trying to keep a lid on my anxiety.
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Can they treat kidney stones?  It's another thing I know nothing about :)  I hope the appointment with the specialist goes well and that they can give you some useful information when you see them xx


Thanks, Tupp.

This medical mess is getting complicated.
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« Reply #8240 on: November 12, 2019, 08:56:06 PM »
Sending steadiness.

fwiw,
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #8241 on: November 13, 2019, 10:30:02 AM »
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« Reply #8242 on: November 21, 2019, 10:04:11 AM »
Have you seen the other doctor yet, Bonesie?  I was wondering if they'd given you any more information yet? xx

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« Reply #8243 on: November 21, 2019, 06:05:54 PM »
Have you seen the other doctor yet, Bonesie?  I was wondering if they'd given you any more information yet? xx

I saw the specialist last week where they did some blood work and I go back on December 5th for follow up.
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« Reply #8244 on: November 21, 2019, 09:07:00 PM »
I'm sorry for the wait, Bones.
That is pretty hard.

Are you finding good distractions
to stave off worry as best you can?

For me, it's movies.

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« Reply #8245 on: November 22, 2019, 04:48:15 PM »
I'm sorry for the wait, Bones.
That is pretty hard.

Are you finding good distractions
to stave off worry as best you can?

For me, it's movies.

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I'm browsing through You Tube videos.
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« Reply #8246 on: November 22, 2019, 10:03:59 PM »
YouTube is one of my favorite anesthetics.

I've been waiting for a test report too. Nothing dire
but I know it just causes a background tension.

It's a comfort to plug in to some other story.

Keep us posted...
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« Reply #8247 on: November 23, 2019, 02:14:06 AM »
Have you seen the other doctor yet, Bonesie?  I was wondering if they'd given you any more information yet? xx

I saw the specialist last week where they did some blood work and I go back on December 5th for follow up.

I hope they come back with useful information, Bonesie, I find waiting for things so hard, I think more in the winter because it just seems harder when the weather isn't great?  I don't know why.  I think of you in the mornings when our neighbour's cheeky cats come out :)  I don't have a front garden as such, there's a small paved section next to the doorstep that runs along the pavement but it isn't fence in or anything, but across from that is a lovely tree where I put the bird feeders out.  There's a wall that runs behind that and the cats have taken to hiding behind the wall in the morning until I put the bird food out and then they kind of stroll along as if they think they won't be spotted if they do it slowly.  Lol.  They come over for a stroke and then go and hide back behind the wall until I go back in and then they take up their positions underneath the tree while they hope one of the birds will land nearby (they never do because I put the feeders up high where they can't get to them easily).  One of them's super fast but the other one is quite clumsy and every time he tries to catch a bird he falls over himself lol xx

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« Reply #8248 on: November 23, 2019, 09:44:42 AM »
Have you seen the other doctor yet, Bonesie?  I was wondering if they'd given you any more information yet? xx

I saw the specialist last week where they did some blood work and I go back on December 5th for follow up.

I hope they come back with useful information, Bonesie, I find waiting for things so hard, I think more in the winter because it just seems harder when the weather isn't great?  I don't know why.  I think of you in the mornings when our neighbour's cheeky cats come out :)  I don't have a front garden as such, there's a small paved section next to the doorstep that runs along the pavement but it isn't fence in or anything, but across from that is a lovely tree where I put the bird feeders out.  There's a wall that runs behind that and the cats have taken to hiding behind the wall in the morning until I put the bird food out and then they kind of stroll along as if they think they won't be spotted if they do it slowly.  Lol.  They come over for a stroke and then go and hide back behind the wall until I go back in and then they take up their positions underneath the tree while they hope one of the birds will land nearby (they never do because I put the feeders up high where they can't get to them easily).  One of them's super fast but the other one is quite clumsy and every time he tries to catch a bird he falls over himself lol xx

Cats are so funny!!

I've been searching for cat videos while trying to cope with waiting for the test results.
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« Reply #8249 on: November 25, 2019, 08:05:56 PM »
Hope you hear soon, Bones.

And that you have a place and people for Thanksgiving, or if not, a peaceful day at home.

Happy cat videos! (I'm stuck on dog ones.)

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