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Bella_French

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Re: Enforcing my boundaries
« Reply #60 on: September 27, 2007, 10:22:41 PM »
lol Lighter. You probably exploded that person's head, lol.

That was a good move.

X Bella

Ami

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Re: Enforcing my boundaries
« Reply #61 on: September 27, 2007, 10:25:30 PM »
I was saying this on another thread. The Bible says that if you are kind to your enemy you shall heap  burning coals of shame on his head( VERY loose translation)
   It works---but it is hard to give up the natural ego reaction which is to kill them                     Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Lupita

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Re: Enforcing my boundaries
« Reply #62 on: September 28, 2007, 06:30:25 AM »
There I go. I will put make up. I will dress nicely. I will sing and teach my students to dance salsa. We will enjoy. After that we have conference night. I will tell the parents how much I appreciate your children and ask them for help to memorize the voacbulary. After that I am going to salsa dancing, from school.
On Sunday in church I will talk to Mr. V my ex boss. He is powerful in the church and he is Latin. The president of the school board is my Sunday school class and is a good friend of Mr. V. I will talk to him too. Also I will talk to a lady who is Latin. She is very influencial in the church too. After that, there is nothing but wait in the Lord. Look for another job and pray. I will definitely look for next year. Now all positions are closed. Everebody has their personal at the beginning of the year. Now nothing. ON April they start advertising openngs again. I will inervew on summer ofr a different job. I will do that for sure if I survive this. God will not abandone me. Also I have my odcumentation here. I just have to go and print this thread.

Also, yesterday, nobody talked to me ar school. That man has isolated me. The custodios talked to me. They said they are my friends.

My hallway, nobody talks to me. They turn their head other way when I walk by. I say good morning and they do not answer back. It is OK.

I will sing with my students and they will hear me singing.

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Re: Enforcing my boundaries
« Reply #63 on: September 28, 2007, 06:38:30 AM »
Lupita,

You are going to be okay.  I am so sorry this is happening to you.  But you are worth a million of those snotty teachers. 

I'll be thinking of you today.  Wish I could practice my Spanish with you.

Love
CB
When they are older and telling their own children about their grandmother, they will be able to say that she stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way -- and it surely has not -- she adjusted her sails.  Elizabeth Edwards 2010

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Re: Enforcing my boundaries
« Reply #64 on: September 28, 2007, 07:33:48 AM »
((((((((Lupita))))))))  Just a note to say I am thinking of you and I hope you have many smiles today!

With love,
Carolyn