Author Topic: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery  (Read 18299 times)

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #45 on: June 08, 2008, 02:48:11 PM »





Hi Iz,

Well, to tell you the truth, your #44 post is kind of preachy...I'm not chastising you, just making an observation.

Preach on sister!

tt


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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #46 on: June 08, 2008, 03:44:19 PM »
Well I for one do not have a clue what is going on.  I was shocked to see Changes is Dead  :shock:   

Anyway, I do believe Light is light and changes is changing.  I am not going back to read where things started or have people raising an eyebrow.

As far as you leaving light for peace on the board if needed.  I don't think the word is peace because if that is what it takes there will never be peace here.  It will just be some other thing or some other person.  The word is *life* such is life.  Life is made up of all different people/opinions/Please don't leave you or changing/changes.  I will not feel peace and peace is not the word (for me).  I would feel sad if that was to happen.  To deny *living and imperfections and right or wrongs and have to have Proof.  That is crazy to me.  I take you at your word, your reads, your stories and I enjoy them all with exception of the bad things. 
I even think alright so people raise and eyebrow to things, well, ok this is human too.  Nothing wrong with that but I don't need proof, I don't care.  I don't feel harmed or betrayed or anything else. 
 


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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #47 on: June 08, 2008, 03:52:09 PM »
Sorry hit something and it sent off without finishing.

I guess what I am asking is why does it get so hell bent on finding out the Truth and nothing But the Truth that it takes a life on here of it's own.  Almost seems like an investigaton.  Do you really care?  What would it do to you?  How would it change your life/your feelings.  Is it betrayal feelings?  And what if you are wrong?  How does the other person feel being on trial? 

I really don't think any other then changes/changing and light/lighter is who they are and hope I keep hearing from them.

Love
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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #48 on: June 08, 2008, 04:28:21 PM »


As far as you leaving light for peace on the board if needed.
 


Hey deb....

I wasn't talking about my leaving the board....

I was referring to whoever's creating the chaos.

As for changing's demise.....

I think she was surprised to hear about it too: /


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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #49 on: June 08, 2008, 07:14:34 PM »
Light,

Shew,  I'm glad to hear that.  I was concerned about you or Change leaving .. Thanks for clearing it up..  Good to know your gonna still be here and she's alive. 

Love
Deb

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #50 on: June 09, 2008, 01:28:30 AM »



Hi Iz,

For one thing, I am not interested in studies. They are of no help whatsoever to the people on this board![/b]

I got a kick out of your statement.  I just have to ask, what study was this conclusion  based on? :lol:

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #51 on: June 09, 2008, 11:19:18 AM »
Hi tt

just mine!
I pass them by because no one have ever included me in one, so the %-ages must be off!  :lol:
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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #52 on: June 09, 2008, 04:21:40 PM »
Hi everybody,

Once someone forgets their password and re-registers, there is no way to know whether that is the same person or someone different--unfortunately, the burden falls upon the new registrant to re-establish trust.  I have no substantial evidence that Changes isn't Changing, but no way to verify that he or she is.  Everyone will have to make their own decision.

Best,

Richard

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #53 on: June 09, 2008, 07:32:51 PM »


Hi Iz,

just mine!
I pass them by because no one have ever included me in one, so the %-ages must be off! 



"There's your sign!" :lol:

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #54 on: June 09, 2008, 08:13:10 PM »
Hi everybody,

Once someone forgets their password and re-registers, there is no way to know whether that is the same person or someone different--unfortunately, the burden falls upon the new registrant to re-establish trust.  I have no substantial evidence that Changes isn't Changing, but no way to verify that he or she is.  Everyone will have to make their own decision.

Best,

Richard


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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #55 on: June 09, 2008, 08:57:22 PM »


Hi Iz,

just mine!
I pass them by because no one have ever included me in one, so the %-ages must be off! 



"There's your sign!" :lol:

tt

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #56 on: June 09, 2008, 09:08:45 PM »
Just an observation.

Changes and Lighter are both online at this very moment.

Thought those with notions of subterfuge might be interested.


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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #57 on: June 09, 2008, 09:11:55 PM »
Dear Carolyn,
 I have 4 computers in my house, I could be  4 identities. Just wanted to say that.  Ami
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Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #58 on: June 09, 2008, 09:13:04 PM »
Dear Carolyn,
 I have 4 computers in my house, I could be  4 identities. Just wanted to say that.  Ami

Duly noted.

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Re: Passwords, PMs, Presumption, Pathos, Pity, Motives & Mystery
« Reply #59 on: June 09, 2008, 09:21:25 PM »
Hi-

I understand how people can be wary on Boards, etc- in fact, at one point I had reason to think that Ami had some sort of personal or professional relationship with Dr. Grossman and requested his clarification on that point. So far I have not gotten my Changing name back. I am really in the thick of things, do not have 4 computers like Ami, and come to the board for the help, support and fun. I have very limited resources and am in the thick of things at present, truly exhausted- I would like to post , but not about this subject any more at present- I am tired and hurting and have a lot of troubling items to get imput on.

Ami, if you wish I  can post some of the items that you PMd me as Changing, as well as some of the items that I replied.

Can we all just get along?