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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The island
« Last post by Hopalong on Today at 06:36:36 PM »
Grrrrrrrr!

Sending Universe a suggestion to send Lighter a BUYER, toot sweet!

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Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by Meh on Today at 04:37:12 PM »

Complaining and ruminating.


??? The Coping Mechanism: You develop a "Perpetual Courtroom" in your mind. You ruminate and complain to "prove" your case to an imaginary judge because, as a child, nobody ever stood up for you and said, "This is wrong." * You aren't "just complaining"; you are testifying to your own sanity. ???

Complaining why do it. It's based on stress and anger?

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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on Today at 04:00:24 PM »
Reading books exercises parts of our brains that reading online doesn't. I feel sure of that. What I'm NOT so sure of, is if reading Kindle books work on the same neural paths as a bound paper book does. There aren't any distraction in either books or Kindle... so MAYBE. And maybe not since it has an on/off switch.

Was the story good? Keep you engaged? That's one thing I'm seeing degraded by AI - stories are more simple & formulaic than even nursery rhymes - and have even less intellectual "nutrition". Books take up a lot of space - but there are still probably a couple hundred I won't part with.

I read Steinbeck because I was feeling lonely and maybe I'm a bit starved for stimulation. I've read other books by that author. The writing style makes it seem like there is a familiar person telling a story. It was engaging enough to me that I wanted to keep reading it. I read the summary of it first online and the plot didn't sound interesting to me with the biblical references and whatnot but actually I did like the book. I would recommend it yes. I had originally picked up for Whom the Bell Tolls read about 100 pages in and decided I didn't want to waste my time going further on that one as it felt bland to me. Just random books from free book shelves.

I don't own a kindle never tried one. This book had that rough paper edge so it was kind of uneven and yeah there is some kind of tactile thing about it which is nice. I don't remember what the book smells like I don't think I sniffed it. A book I guess is more like an artifact.. and this one had a sticker of someone's name and address in it. It's possible the person is deceased who originally owned it.

I wanted to mark the book up but I didn't it's too nice and I don't have a highlighter. There are strange points in the book that even remind me a bit of aspects of narcissism. There are two male characters that insist on projecting an image of how they want to see a person onto someone which isn't true and it ends kinda badly for them.

Anyhow yes it's a good book if someone reads the layers and reflects on it.

Yeah the AI and the arts is freaky, AI visual art, AI music, AI literature.

Was watching a video of an art lecture and a person in the video was pointing to a book they had. It has it's use for demonstration reasons. I was thinking also how I am seeing an image of an image of an image of someone's mind from a bygone time. People also complain about music digital files being compressed. There are people who analyze popular music and they say the compositions are less complex and people are using fewer chords.

It could be partially that people are not taking the time to make things well. And people are not taking the time to notice things are not made well. It's the fast food version of art I guess.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on Today at 03:44:30 PM »
BRAVO, Meh! I admire this accomplishment. Cruising online has drop-kicked the magic of getting completely absorbed in a great book...

Is War and Peace next?

Hope that cuppa feels like a party in your heart. I'll hoist my next one to you.

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Hops

Hahaha War and Peace. Not sure. I think I might go into a no-read mode for a while and get into a medical appointment making mode because setting appointments is like reading War and Peace.

I do think if one can only read a book every once in a while might as well make it worth it. Can a person get some kind of personal meaning from War and Peace do you think?

There was a thrift store I went to a while ago and there was a book on garlic and a book on being too controlling that jumped out at me. Of course they are not there anymore. I have faith that thrift stores have lots of random books for future reading.

I was reading Gulag Archipelago but I lost the book or rather maybe it's stuck in my storage unit same as being lost. And now I've probably paid over 1,000 to keep that stupid book in a stupid box.

Anyhow. I have no rigid list for reading I figure my intuition will figure it out that is what seems right to me.

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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by Meh on Today at 03:39:29 PM »

I complain a lot internally some externally.

Was frustrated today with how difficult it is for me to set up a therapy appointment. I have junk insurance. Being that I have junk insurance and probably doesn't pay well there are limited locations I can use it so I don't feel I am making a choice really it's more like an institutional conveyor belt but maybe I am fixating on dumb stuff. Some of my frustration is legit and some of it seems stupid petty insane.

Came across Dr. Jeffrey Young Angry Child Mode concept. I don't do a lot of tantrum type things but my brain does ruminate and it also gives up on stuff sometimes when I get too frustrated.

Anyhow I might come back to this Angry Child Mode thing again and reflect on it.

Sadly I could reflect on my life forever and I don't think my quality of life is going to improve much.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The island
« Last post by lighter on Today at 02:06:52 PM »
Brand new water heater is shot.....after 2 hours working.  Hard to say why.

:: flapping arms helplessly at sides::.

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Well, I woke up to a blanket of snow....roads were ok.

That'll teach me, to wax poetic, about perfect days.

I suppose the hydrangeas shoots will be fine?

Hops.....the light IS different in Scandinavia...not sure why.  I love the idea of you bicycling,through Denmark, in a happy group. 

Lighter
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Reading books exercises parts of our brains that reading online doesn't. I feel sure of that. What I'm NOT so sure of, is if reading Kindle books work on the same neural paths as a bound paper book does. There aren't any distraction in either books or Kindle... so MAYBE. And maybe not since it has an on/off switch.

Was the story good? Keep you engaged? That's one thing I'm seeing degraded by AI - stories are more simple & formulaic than even nursery rhymes - and have even less intellectual "nutrition". Books take up a lot of space - but there are still probably a couple hundred I won't part with.
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I remember all that too, Hops. But I wasn't old enough to participate; I'm '56. Hol was '78... so definitely GenX... but with overlaps because of paying attention to things in the world, asking questions, thinking about things... looking for answers at a younger age. She started thinking for herself around 8 or 9. Some of that isn't so much generational, as personality type I guess.

I'm fully aware that the 60s weren't all Woodstock, peace love & rock & roll. It was a scary dark time to be a kid with a functional brain and big eyes and ears, reading all the time. Heck, I even remember the grade school PA announcement about Kennedy being shot. But not all the "Jonesers" were paying attention that early.

So you and I have memories & experiences that overlap - yes, the War hit home for me too and I saw it on the news every night. I read the front section of the newspaper before the "funnies". I read Time, Life, the New Yorker... any magazine I could get my hands on. Library books too... I kept sneaking into the Adult section coz the kids books were boring.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Hopalong on March 16, 2026, 07:01:14 PM »
BRAVO, Meh! I admire this accomplishment. Cruising online has drop-kicked the magic of getting completely absorbed in a great book...

Is War and Peace next?

Hope that cuppa feels like a party in your heart. I'll hoist my next one to you.

hugs
Hops
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