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I have a BOOK of PAPER that I WRITE my passwords in, Hops. So far tech can't snoop/steal that info. Which is about what things are coming to, across the board: pay in cash (no records of what you bought where or phone/address needed for delivery), drive/walk into bank for transactions, don't order anything online or over the phone. IE, pre-Sears-Roebuck days.

I made 1 decision about getting my "data profile" removed yesterday. There are a couple more I'm contemplating; one is "invisible" to me as far as hoops to jump through - the other will need writing down, as well. Compromise between being invisible/safe and still having some conveniences will need to be made.

"Air gapping" is a technique that I've relied on for decades. Doing different things on different machines - so the bits and pieces of info that make up one's "identity" can't be so easily combined, to steal identity. No banking on phone - EVER. Poor old phone isn't compatible with ATT's app that skims out spam/phishing calls & texts but I'm still researching how far I want to go on the phone side of things. NO syncing between machines! It's sold as convenience but that convenience benefits those selling/buying your data the most.

I'll stop before your eyes glaze over... and my brain starts to smoke & fizzle.

Of course, I've known for ages that there is no such thing as privacy onine. I just accepted it, and in the beginning, places that required one's info in order to make purchases, establish accounts, did try to protect that data. Then the large data breaches began; even the gov't has been hacked. But gradually - behind the scenes - that data became "monetized". Ads can gather online behavioral patterns even if you don't see or click on them - and that data is SOLD to be people who bedevil our lives; it's harassment at it's most benign and theft at the other extreme.

I was totally DONE with all this stuff when I retired almost 20 years ago. But apparently it's not done with me. So I'm fighting back, a bit. Most of what I think of as "privacy" hasn't been an issue, knowing who I shop from or what I buy. I don't care about anything except business/financial stuff. And as my life is designed, that can be life threatening to me.

Looks like it's going to cool off this week! I hope so, I'm over the fruit fly invasion and want all the bugs to start heading into their winter cessation. My inceniary curmudgeonly self will also begin to hibernate, gradually.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Hopalong on August 18, 2026, 09:06:20 PM »
Oh, man. I'm so sorry you're going through this crap, Amber.
Makes my blood boil.

I think the right to privacy is one that most ordinary people don't ponder often, as long as life appears to work normally. Until it doesn't.

Mentally, I'm unprepared for anything but the simplest online logins (bank, health records, etc). And even keeping track of these is a whopping challenge for an aging and very ADD brain. Just today I had to change passwords for three key things I use online: two banks and my health record. It stressed me to the max and I worry how I'd manage in five or 10 years, when it's so hard right now (at 76).

I suppose we could just pave paradise and put up a data center. These behemoth polluters and waste foundtains are getting foisted on community after community...usually poor and/or rural ones. It's disgusting. Capitalism run absolutely amok. "Free" market my shiny behind; we and our planet are going to pay a huge price.

Cheerily,
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by sKePTiKal on August 17, 2026, 09:31:16 AM »
The datacenters are just huge monoliths, securely guarded, sometimes a "farm" with multiple buildings. They'll just sit there, making noise, using water, demanding power and all the actions that might come of analyzing all that "data" will happen elsewhere in stuffy offices and boardrooms. It's the AI part of why datacenters are needed, that should concern people. AI hallucinates, lies and makes up facts; rewrites history, science AND math - to suit itself.

Don't get me started. It's a bad, Post-Apocalyptic fever dream. Fortunately, it's also a financial circle pyramid scheme - and it's based on debt - and the cracks are beginning to become chasms. A lot of people are going to lose money because they bought the marketing narrative and invested in it, driving share prices astronomically high.

My personal terrors started around the beginning of July. Spam phone call; phishing. Impersonating my bank's fraud dept. Caller did get one piece of info to add to his profile of me - but when I realized he was asking about my checking account and NOT my card; and he already knew my online username... I went full tactical, and immediately changed my username WHILE still on the phone, then hung up and changed my password. I'm now rotating an impossible to type comfortably combination of username/password on a regular basis. Yes, this lives on a post it in my password book and I have to look it up each time. Eventually, since this had happened to me at another bank, I realized that the only common piece of info/data was my phone number.

Changed the phone number from the one I'd used for over 20 years. It's helped - but that number is getting at least 4 spam calls a day. I just delete them and move on.

Every time I order something online, they REQUIRE a phone number to complete the order. I am finding that there are ways to protect one's number - still giving the vendor a number they can verify works - so how many places have sold my data to someone who sold my data and it got to the dark web or where ever else, these no-goodniks buy this info to persecute & rob us? LOL, it's funny/ironic, that I learned that bit of info from a hacker community.

Modern life increasingly REQUIRES us to perform functions online. So, a lot of my research involves how to stay safe/secure while doing so. Nothing is 100% guaranteed. Our personal contact info - addresses, phone numbers, etc are all publicly available online; remember the webpage "WhoIS?" from a couple decades ago? There are companies that will do their best to get that info removed. I haven't picked one or priced it yet. Yeah - it's a service.

I already practice (diligently) a lot of good security habits. But all this crap is changing VERY fast; as in every couple weeks. And I am facing the decision of weighing the risk of "task A" with the number of options I have outside tech/online and it's inconvenience, and choosing which way I want to do.

And the whole PITA that I feel I HAVE to do this at all... versus living my life with a reasonable assumption of data security. Remember when you weren't supposed to tell ANYONE your SS number? Now, the last 4 digits are all part of the security questions places use to verify your identity.

Might just be safer to NOT HAVE an identity, you know?  LOL, in the techie, data sense.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Hopalong on August 16, 2026, 08:10:50 PM »
Tech overlords live in my brain, my laptop and my phone.

Only reaction I have is to continue to received mailed hardcopy statements and to take my tax stuff, on paper, to the local H&R Block.

You are way ahead of me in comprehending the landscape, but the idea of a close by data center would make my bones shake. There are a few coming close enough....

hugs
Hops
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What Amber said.

You can't really disappear on us overnight without a word?

HOPE YOU'RE OKAY!!!

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by sKePTiKal on August 16, 2026, 07:35:40 AM »
New keyboard is here! Knocking things back into shape, one at a time.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by sKePTiKal on August 14, 2026, 09:48:44 AM »
This has been a "special" month for technology-related problems - some large, some small

The first one you'll notice, is I'm not using a period at the end of my sentence, because that key died on my keyboard  So, back to the old typing rules, of double-spaces between sentences  This is the littlest of things that has frustrated me (and B) to the point of wanting to fling said devices, processes, and mindset all the way across the pond, while yelling "pull!"

Even my attempts to rectify the problems - have hit the tech brick wall - with no way to meet vendor's requirements to complete purchase, and no other available means except the one offered - to do so  <insert eyes rolling so far back, I'm looking out my posterior orifice (well, since period key doesn't work I lost the closed arrow, too)

Vendor tried to get me to open my email on my phone - and try to complete purchase THAT way - and didn't understand that I don't read email on the phone because a) it's too damned small and b) it's a security issue  Didn't bother trying to tell the patient rep that my phone is over 15 years old; apparently that would've opened me up to insult on top of injury as the derisive laughter wouldn't have needed an electronic connection to reach me

I am 2 days removed from that experience, and I am STILL freakin' smokin' over the whole thing  I had attempted to purchase ipad (old one's charging port is damaged and I'm 3 hrs from an apple store) and keyboard from ATT; they wanted me to upload a pic of my ID to complete the purchase (which is new; I got B a phone just a couple years ago and they didn't require this) Was told they had to make sure it was me making the purchase  I asked - just send a code to my phone number like the banks do; can't you do that?? Answer was: no they can't

I have NEVER been required to show ID for a purchase except tobacco/alcohol as one look at me, and I'm clearly past 18 yrs old  Grocery store doesn't ID for smokes, but HAS TO, for alcohol regardless of common sense  So, found what I wanted at Amazon of all places and it'll be here Sat

Add to this, I'm reading a lot of news about datacenters (coz they want to put more high transmission lines across WV, including my place) and what kinds of data is going into them --- and the escape of AI agents (of which there were more than initially reported and some STILL haven't been found) which can and DID breach companies out on the 'net outside of their testing "sandbox", so WHO KNOWS how much havoc they've decided - on their own - to create???     OK, breathing break; yeah, this freaks me out knowing what all I know (which is now ancient knowledge) of technology  It appears that no one is responsible for these "mistakes", escapes, etc for any consequences that effect a whole lot of unsuspecting people

----------------- cooling rant down -----------------

So I'm having a VERY SERIOUS discussion with myself about options to avoid leaving myself vulnerable to the tech kraken  It's one thing, to talk to other "real people" online; sometimes it's not possible to know if they're real or not these days  But still - that kind of "data" about me can float around in public or be analyzed by AI and STILL not be anything that can be a threat to me  All my financial info, however, CAN  And that includes uploading files to CPA firm directly from my computer to their server at tax time -- because they then outsource the return to an offshore firm 

The very serious process includes a ton of research, some of which will be face to face conversations with people who know more about the current "landscape" than I do

I decided a long time ago, that if tech got as nutz as I could see it happening (even way back when in the 00's) I was opting out, IF possible  I'm currently trying to find out what is just "convenience", what is "possible", and get out before I CAN'T  That involves a lot of big decisions, which involves more people than just me too

So, I'm in the research phase and trying to stay grounded, practical, and sane about all this - but I am just DONE with tech/software/whatever telling me I have to do things IT'S way - or I can't do it at all  Watch me  Hold my beer

Meanwhile, it's raining a lot - which we NEEDED  Trees are still full and green but the temps are starting to come back into comfortable zones again  Had a HUGE LOUD DANGEROUS thunderstorm last week that woke both of us up; lots of lightning right around us  B's knocking the to-do's off his list, I'm doing mine and all seems to be in a comfy spot around here lately except the tech PITA
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Hey Lighter! What's the latest?

(you'll forgive me, my typing, because the period key died on my keyboard and now I'm substituting forward slashes///)

You've been a ghost, since May 26, so I hope it's for good stuff/reasons///  we worry, ya know!
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by sKePTiKal on August 11, 2026, 12:43:31 PM »
I wouldn't worry overmuch what they think of you. Could be positive; or a lot of other things. But that's mostly THEIR responsibility and NOT any kind of accurate assessment of you. I think they are probably just curious and want to get to know you a little better. If that sounds like something that supports your self-care, maybe go the NEXT time. If there isn't a next time - again, it's not anything YOU are responsible for.

Unless you LIKE these people, want to spend time with them, and it works into your schedule and budget... don't let this pressure you feel to "socialize" make you do anything you don't WANT to do. When I don't want to put on my "socialize" hat, I've been letting opportunities pass me by - even with people I do like. Because it feels to me like one more thing on my "have to do" list... and I need some slow me time.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Hopalong on August 11, 2026, 12:26:02 PM »
Don't blame you for hating the bus ride, but is it impossible to ask if any of these good women could pick you up? You might ride one way with one, and home with another?

It's always okay to ask for what you need, and see what happens. NO shame in it. There's definitely a carpool or "give a ride" culture in a lot of church communities.

Hope you enjoyed whatever you decided to do.

hugs
Hops
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