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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Friendship Moments: good or bad
« Last post by lighter on April 17, 2026, 06:59:40 PM »
I had enough, to double up.  Wish I'd read your post before gravel and topsoil went down this afternoon, Amber!!

Lighter
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Friendship Moments: good or bad
« Last post by Hopalong on April 17, 2026, 03:42:41 PM »
No, but I'll look it up!
Great title.

Thanks, Meh.

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Friendship Moments: good or bad
« Last post by Meh on April 17, 2026, 12:49:34 PM »

Hops did you ever read the book Cinderella with Dogs? It's a kids little booklet. Linda Bailey.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by sKePTiKal on April 17, 2026, 08:23:30 AM »
Oh, and pollen (and multiple 90 degree days!!) is kinda slowing me down this spring.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by sKePTiKal on April 17, 2026, 08:22:05 AM »
Depending what you're actually dealing with mentally/emotionally and how daunting it appears it helps me a lot to just "do" two or three things that are part of daily maintenance and then balance that with something I kinda WANT to do.

BEING is just as important, IMO as DOING. And I don't think there's any one static "right" balance ALL the time. Life is variable.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Friendship Moments: good or bad
« Last post by sKePTiKal on April 17, 2026, 08:14:17 AM »
I think I'd double up on that weed fabric. It does biodegrade.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Mindfulness and codependence thread
« Last post by lighter on April 16, 2026, 10:15:59 PM »
Update on my brother's shiny happy twinkling eyes, when he thinks about his new love.

New lady shares my brother's outgoing extroversion.....and she loves to dance!  I hope they take lessons together!  What fun!!!

She's lovely,cand is deeply attached to brother.....

It warms my heart, and I pray their happiness lasts.

Lighter

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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by Meh on April 16, 2026, 05:34:13 PM »

Thanks Lighter.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Yard
« Last post by lighter on April 16, 2026, 01:57:02 PM »
Calamine lotion is a magical elixir! 

Don't wait for poison ivy scratching and weeping blisters.....coat yourself proactively, and rejoice!!!!

Lighter
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by lighter on April 16, 2026, 01:38:20 PM »
Setting little goals sounds productive, and reasonable, M. Good plan, imo.

Worrying helps nothing, and robs one of life's logic/reason and creative problem solving abilities.....only ever counterproductive, IME.

I hope the Therapy offers something you value.  Will say this..... sometimes we get things, we don't consider valuable, but turns out to be.

Maybe this T will have something for you. Maybe a perceived negative, turns out to be a positive, or leads to something/a connection/new contact down the road.

Keep breathing, M.

You did good.

Lighter

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