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mum

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« Reply #225 on: March 08, 2005, 02:28:29 PM »
ONLYRENTING!!   keeping and eye out for you....thought I'd just get you back to the top of the board. Still sending you positive energy!!!  I'm sure you'll let us know how you're doing when you can!!!

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« Reply #226 on: March 08, 2005, 06:09:17 PM »
Only,

Just wanted to send positive thoughts, energy and prayers your way!

God Bless!!

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« Reply #227 on: March 08, 2005, 09:21:46 PM »
Hi, Im in the Big D.

I sent a message yesterday, but it didn't post.

This is a test

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« Reply #228 on: March 08, 2005, 09:40:12 PM »
Hi everyone, I made it to the big D.

The Drive took from friday to Sunday late.

I came home Thursday to find the receptionist asked the office help not to tell my daughter about the move yet, but the woman told her anyway.

My D was not doubt upset, so when her Dad picked her up at school, she let him know. They were both waiting for me to get home to let me know what they had discovered.

Friday my H ran down to the court house to try and stop me with court papers. I found the Divorce papers and took them just to cause him a delay.

I went to work, said my good-byes, went to the school to get my D before my H would be there to pick her up.
I had the U-haul packed with what ever I had done the day before, when  he left for the Doctors, then took off.

The Police came by Sunday evening to find out if I was here and to have me call my H. My BIL said he would give me the message.

We returned the Uhaul and looked at the nearby schools today.

When I got back my BIL said my H is upset with him now, and accusing him and I of having an affair. We agreed no contact with my D unless its suppervised on a speaker phone

I just logged on and found a message from my H, not to contact him
it would be 30days for the Divorce, and expect contact from child services.

I expect no less from him.

I have been busy and will try and read thru other post when I get time on my own computer.  Love you all for all your support.
I know without your support I would not have been able to pull this off.


Thanks again onlyrenting---Lease is up

mum

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« Reply #229 on: March 08, 2005, 09:46:45 PM »
Onlyrenting> soooo glad to hear from you!!  Please know that we have all been your angel wings through this, I am so relieved for you.  I feel you still will have some work, so hang tough with the child custody thing.  Stay centered and strong.  Your daughter will thank you one day for saving her (and what an example....saving yourself!).  SMILING for you!

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« Reply #230 on: March 08, 2005, 09:51:28 PM »
onlyrenting,
God bless you soooo much. You are one brave gal.


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I found the Divorce papers and took them just to cause him a delay.


And one smart cookie.

We are all with you. We look forward to hearing more, and pray things will work out smoothly.

Yes, your lease is up!

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« Reply #231 on: March 08, 2005, 10:12:47 PM »
Onlyrenting, I'm so proud of you.  I hope that one day I can act as strong and bold as you do!
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- The only thing that was ever really wrong with me was that I used to think there was something wrong with *me*.  :)

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« Reply #232 on: March 09, 2005, 12:44:51 AM »
Dear Onlyrenting:

 :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D

I think I have a perma-smile!!!  I'm so glad that you made it there safe and sound and all!!!

You are my heroine!!!

It is late here and I am just reading and not posting but I just had to post here because

I am soooo proud of you Onlyrenting!!!

You have truly shown what courage and initiative and planning is all about!!

You caught the boat!!!   :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D  :D

Do be swift about getting that custody order!!!  It is essential!!

I will keep praying for you and your daughter.

GFN

onlyrenting1

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« Reply #233 on: March 09, 2005, 09:42:29 AM »
Im having a problem posting

this is a test

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« Reply #234 on: March 09, 2005, 10:06:33 AM »
Only!  :D

I read your posts with tears in my eyes.  I am so very proud of you.  We have been waiting on you to get to D.  Hope the trip was uneventful and that you get your daugther into her routine.

Typical N response accusing you and your BIL of having an affair.  We are here no matter what to support you!  Much love, Patz

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« Reply #235 on: March 09, 2005, 01:06:47 PM »
HI Im having a problem posting

Got an e-mail agian, He is telling me about the lies he will be telling in court. then he remindes about how he tells the truth.

one for the records.
the nice thing about the police and judges they know when people are lying. He is a breath of fresh air, His honesty honors them, which they do deserve.

I have not responded back to him.
I don't know how much I can do on the child custody from here.
will need some advise on how to proceed, making some phone calls to find out what I need to do.

Working on getting a place so we can move on the school for my D.

Im so glad to be here, and thank you all so much again and again.
I know the angels were with me when we moved here, I feel confident
it was the right thing.

onlyrenting

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« Reply #236 on: March 09, 2005, 01:19:10 PM »
Hi onlyrenting,

Congrats on making it to Dallas!

Your H has NO HOPE WHATSOEVER of gaining custody of your daughter. None. But I wouldn't tell him that. Let him waste his time and energy on it.


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« Reply #237 on: March 09, 2005, 05:19:09 PM »
Hi Only:

Keep copies of all emails.
Document all phone calls, communications and get any witnesses to initial them.
Built a stack of paper, Only.  You may not need it....and it may come in very handy.

Sometimes, seeking a temporary custody order can be very quick.  It gives you a safe legal position.....and time to prepare, gather info, etc. to seek permanent and full custody.

Again....the woman's shelter there might be able to help or refer you in the right direction.

I agree with Bunny but I am certain that you need to get that order asap as insurance.

GFN

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« Reply #238 on: March 10, 2005, 08:07:44 AM »
Only:

Thinking of you and your daughter this morning.  Hope all is going well.  
Love, Patz

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« Reply #239 on: March 10, 2005, 09:30:12 AM »
Hello to all,

We are doing fine, busy with an Interview and looking into a resident to get my D into school by Monday. I only need a contract, I don't have to be moved in to get her going to school.

Im working on getting custody papers filed in the Ca courts. My Niece in Ca said she would be a mediator to hand the courts documents on my behalf. Im feeling better she may be able to help me with this.

Keeping my Hs e-mails and my BIL is keep his too.
My BIL, read over the WC evaluation regarding the self-absorbed Narrssitic Disorder. It was late and we will disscuss what the medical jargon is later today.

Wish me a good Interview today, I have two.

Onlyrenting-Lease is up :lol: