Hi to everyone, I have been working on my legal papers for the OSC
They got sent back for some minor details but it worked out for the best.
As time is passing my H has sent enough e-mails to prove my fears about sending my D to him in CA.
The last sheet of paper attached shows how all the other e-mails make sense. He has lied about his money the SSI money for our D even makes a threat of "do what he says or else."
He admits to having over 5,000 of our D's SSI money he has now spent on an attorney and plans on getting it back. His papers say he has no money and Im to pay for all the fees. This e-mail confirms lie after lie.
He is so mad at me for having the prior 10 yr old custody papers, telling me to stop showing it around. How is is old and not valid.
He will be upset when he gets the copies of all the emails of his rude comments, how the few times I have responded he writes back how he can't read my emails because he can't afford to be upset or his eye sight is bad. I asked him to send me a copy of his MS brain scan but I only get his response Don't worry it's not my problem. I told him our D is not going anywhere unless I feel it's safe.
I asked the Judge to please review my concerns why I can not trust my H to return our D to TX. His many health problems and mental issues with MS and his many comments about his lack of money.
He makes several comments about how I left him in the cold to die, but I have an email from his brother how he was going to leave both my D and
I, around the time he tells me he would shoot me if I move to TX.
I was going to hold back on the emails but felt unsure about the judge not getting the whole picture of the possible danger our D could be in.
Today she tells me she does not want to go to CA that my H is still saying things to make her feel he may not let her come back to TX. She wants to go to KS to see her Grandpa, my Father.
She never wants to call him and the last time he called here she was on the phone with her friend and told him she was too busy to talk.
When he does talk to her she doesn't say much it's all about him.
This is a condensed of the last e-mail.
i
have a good attorney
you have 2 strikes against you
i still even though you left me at deaths door hoping i would die
play fair or else ( & it;s out of my hands) be under the judgement in court
I paid $5,800 for Desirae beneits to an attorney
I expect to recoup that money
especially for back benefits that have not been sent
This note below was the next day after the above note, unbelivable.
i
don't force myself on anyone
you wanted out of the marrage
i gave it to you
d dosen't want to visit
she dosen't have to
i'm not gonna ask again
if your job dosen't work out & you wanna come here you can
i miss having you & d around
but it's not in my nature to be pushy
I can't believe he would spend any money after he pleads how poor he is, I have asked for an audit of the spending and a copy of the 5,000 check.
This memorial weekend was the time 28yrs ago we met.
I have met some nice people here and started selling Arabonne products. I think its a way to make new friends and a little money on the side.
The Minister of the chruch we go to is on the radio here, Ed Young JR. I
have met a lot of friends and going to dinner with a few after chruch this sunday. I have a nice car to drive to work and my job is going great.
Keep us all in your prayers. I will not ever want my old life back but would want somehow for my H to have healing in his mind, before he does something more crazy than he already has.
Take Care to all here and I will do the same. OR
