Dear (((((CB, Ami, Lighter, Gratitude, Janet)))))-
What a joy to have a bevy of advisors and kind listeners whilst one is disentangling from an N- no one else could understand! Thank you so much- the advice is crucial, the support divine, and the feeling of being understood irreplaceable. One can process all of the seemingly incomprehensible N actions with the help of wise and caring counselors, amke sense of things and be able to discuss them with the non-N intiated, as well as formulate coping and fighting skills!!!!!
CB-Thank you, you sweet and stalwart friend- it is good to know that this will pass! I hope things just keep getting better for you! The house fixing is something I can do to make myself happy and I will be paid back for whatever I spend, out of the divorce (YAY!) I want to stay, because it would be hard as a disabled law student to qualify for something else, and in the long run, I will always make money from a house- tax write off, low housing cost, no landlord, large yard for the pups, etc. Of Course, I will just deal with whatever happens, but my lawyer says that I can keep it if I want to - he wanted to know in order to formulate our battle plan strategy.
Ami- You are such a pillar of strength , faith, and comfort for me. I only hope that you enjoy your happiness and do not sacrifice yourself and your precious time for others (including me) and lose out on the time that you have for yourself! My Sammy is getting bigger and he is very protective- but still an innocent baby. He is a lover boy with bug white teeth and a big low bark and a yen to sit on one's lap!!!
Lighter- You are right, as always. If there were children here, I would have to maintain the basics of domesticity. Instead, I can clear out all of the N vibes and accoutrements, and fashion a new place to my liking. I find pleasure in having something creative, practical and productive to do amidst the chaos- I can see a little progress every day!
My Lawyer and I worked for a long time last night, on getting different documents ready to be filed at a moment's notice, as different contingencies against the Bagworm and Moron. That way there will be no lapses in action and reaction times, unless it would be to our benefit to slow things down. We have a battle plan- if they fool with us during the implementation of plan A, we will go to plan B, etc- each step is progressively more contentious, etc. They would be smart to be civil and cooperative and honest, as the court has already admonished them for their bogus hearing filing, and this certainly taints future views of their actions in the eyes of the court. But who knows with an N (or 2 Ns)!!!! Letters detailing Bagworm and Moron's bad acts (except for possible fraud in Work Comp and Moron jumping my fence, which were broady hinted at) were created as well. So we will see what happens!
Gratitude-How you have stuck by me and understood my ups, downs and mistakes is truly miraculous, and I have much GRATITUDE for you. Thank you for the hug!!! I am glad things are clearing up for you ( and hope I can follow that path as well)!
Janet- My Darling and Wicked Artist Daughter! I hope you are happily doing your symbolic heart and soul messages- art bypasses the artificial boundaries (Art v artifice) and illuminates our species. I have at least until March until I am free. I hope Bagworm stops his relentless violations- at least he hasn't profited from them lately- maybe that will teach him?
Thanks to all!!!I got to sleep late again last night, but did notget up early today!! Delicious!
Love,
Changing
