All of you are so wonderful to my plight, I feel so much stronger with all the support from everyone. So much to think about.
You all having your keen insights is so lucky for me. WOW.
Today, I started out with some pressure, I wanted to leave even sooner.
I have not lost my focus, only waiting for the right moment.
1. I talked to my BIL, no doubt he is feeling torn. He is able to see whats going on and admitted he reconizes the N in my H.
My H is calling me all kinds of names and telling me he will block me from taking her. Im not fit to care for her and they get along fine when Im not around. ON and ON. I asked him to stop talking but he won't.
My D wants to go to school, she is feeling better, I get this gut feeling to run now, as it will only get more difficult.
I put him off guard I think.
My Father had called about their trip here in April and would be asking us to spend some time with them. I told my H we were planning on visiting the step-grand kids when they come out. He backed off.
I think he will want it to be all about him no matter what.
He was talking about how he will need money to stay here and for me to plan on helping him if Im staying this month. (no clue) I made it sound like sure what ever.
Patz
Make him work at custody. Make him prove it all.
This makes me want to split now, while I have the chance.
My D is sick and has her Star testing tomorrow, it may not be right until Friday.
I don't know divorce law, but I do know something about civil law. Possession is nine tenths of the law.
Mudpup you are one funny guy. thanks for the humor.
You should have put it around his neck!
Longtire : My H thinks he is in control, but its funny because he is so out of sink, once you feed him what he wants he goes away.
Other people are not always understanding of why I should be in control.
I have documentaion to back me up. But to here him and not knowing him you would wonder about his claims of being the sane one.
I was watching the news about the BTK serial killer.
The people that knew him all had something different to say.
The priest said he was a great guy
the neighbor said he was a Jeckel and Hide.
I know this is what we all want but using the child as a pawn lets you know the law can take this away and it is very scary.
You are the only one who should be in control of your decisions and actions. Definitely not him.
Mum,
If you have involved them before,to report your husband, they now have a paper trail...which will work to your advantage
I still have the card for the officer that took the report when my H talked about the gun and shooting me if I went to dallas, I will call him.
I had explaind about us wanting to move and how my H said we were not to go. I will let him know my plans and his advise.
My thoughts on this today, was a plan to get me gone, have me fly out for an interview. this is how unaware he is. I already flew out in November. He asked his brother to fly me again? I know he doesn't understand the way the job interviews are working and he will only understand what he wants to here.
His indecisions in my life are causing a problem for me right now. I feel like all of our well made plans are thrown out the window. Having the pressure on us all because he is being a Big N. Jerk!
This little comment is another attempt to try to make you think he cares.
If he cared, he'd want you to be happy and your daughter too, and be letting you go calmly, easily
He will be all alone, his Mom is pist, his brother is pist, his daughter, his wife, and now even the dog is going to be felling the mass of destruction he is leaving behind.
Im tired of talking about this fool. Im going to get some rest. I may find my computer will be packed away so will get intouch maybe a few more times before I get to another computer to tell you anymore.
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