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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by lighter on May 01, 2026, 01:59:02 PM »Listen, Meh.
Really pay attention to what new friends tells you
Notice if they're interested in your stories.....dies it feel reciprocal?
If they're attracted to you, it's ok. You can put boundaries in place, and see what happens hey do with them. Your NO is a serious boundary, and trying to change it tells a story....this person doesn't and likely never will honor you and your needs.
Just information, Meh. Not a huge problem, or something you created.
Just people being people, but this time.....
this time you're sitting in nonjudgmental awareness. Seeing what's there.....
and, most importantly, you're discerning.
Let this be an excerise in what you're feeling, and prioritizing THAT.
::nod::.
In the meantime......enjoy the outdoors, the coffee, and what fellowship is there. Accept what's real.
Lighter
Really pay attention to what new friends tells you
Notice if they're interested in your stories.....dies it feel reciprocal?
If they're attracted to you, it's ok. You can put boundaries in place, and see what happens hey do with them. Your NO is a serious boundary, and trying to change it tells a story....this person doesn't and likely never will honor you and your needs.
Just information, Meh. Not a huge problem, or something you created.
Just people being people, but this time.....
this time you're sitting in nonjudgmental awareness. Seeing what's there.....
and, most importantly, you're discerning.
Let this be an excerise in what you're feeling, and prioritizing THAT.
::nod::.
In the meantime......enjoy the outdoors, the coffee, and what fellowship is there. Accept what's real.
Lighter
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