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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The Lake House
« Last post by lighter on November 17, 2025, 07:15:51 PM »
Winterizing lake house, then rolling home.

It's strange to think, the lake, will be home soon.

Lighter
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2025
« Last post by lighter on November 17, 2025, 07:13:05 PM »
We're celebrating on the 25th, Hops, so will be looking for something to do on 27th as well.  The idea of snuggling into Netflix, pug wedged at my side, beckons. 
Right now I'm hanging 100" long draperies.... readying the lake house for my friend's family week-long TG celebration/retreat. 

Friend, and I, have been cleaning, shifting, and making beds for the last two days.  It soothes my heart to picture the house filled with babies and people in need of respite, and a safe place to rest.....the mother of an 18mo and non verbal 3yo son, is finishing up chemo (her mother's in jail.)  The other young (mid 20's) parents of a 7yo and 18mo, live with them in a 2 br apartment.  Not gonna lie.....their situations terrifies me.

I didn't mean to ramble on your thread Amber. 

Sorry pup is unwell, Hops.  Maybe we'll build an Amazon bonfire, on Thanksgiving day....for everyone.

Lighter








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I'm working on it.....working on it in several directions. 

Lighter
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Mine, too.
SO much renovation becomes an albatross, even before you fly to the Caribbean to supervise it.

Would love to see you free of it, Lighter.

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2025
« Last post by Hopalong on November 16, 2025, 01:54:04 PM »
Could I cook, I'd make Indian dishes with "soft spices" for a Friendsgiving.
As is, I'll either stay home and Netflix, or head to the UU congregation potluck with something bought, alas.

Just got a Tgiving card from my insurance broker. I'll get one or two more and that's so skimpy I don't put them on the piano any more. (Not that the piano top has an inch of room until I conquer it.)

Pup is better but had a return bout of his chandelier-shaking, roaring cough. Whooo.

Lastly, knowing your noses will be as happy as your eyes for this upcoming celebration, is a happy thing to ponder.

You might enjoy this one: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HKqntuhZGek
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Fingers & toes crossed Lighter!
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Amber:  I hope the cottage sells to recent guests.  They're looking for a survey company.  Will see.
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Lighter, sweetie...
It's beyond me why you continue to try to maintain a property that is so far away, counting on people that (no judgement) you just can't count on. Are there any property management companies on the island or nearby that you could at least turn the maintenance over to?

It's hard enough for us to deal with the acreage we LIVE on and the list is all "work in progress". I tried once to have a totally communications free cabin... and it got way out of control. Life has been a good bit easier since selling it.

Once the lake house is settled (and imagining that you don't have any responsibility for the island anymore) wouldn't you like to travel? Do something brand new and different?

I dunno, this is just my opinion. And maybe reflects a glimmer of what I've been feeling lately. Less stuff to "take care of " has been on my "list' for a long time now.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2025
« Last post by lighter on November 14, 2025, 11:09:23 AM »
Amber, snowball fights, baking and the joy of selecting new holiday menus! 

To play again! 
Undistracted.....
immersed....
fully present. 
Yes.

My sister uses Biotrue eye drops.....a pack of 2 from Amazon, for her dry eye dx.  I just had little leather pouches made, for us all.... sister's in red, with little phone, eyedrop and chapstick pockets.....hoping it solves her trail-of-small-things falling out her bra, esp in the yard.

Yikes.....the exhaust fan in upstairs bathroom, is sucking wind....just started making more normal powered noises, but clacking, still, a bit.  I cleaned it......while off, but it's not normal....might be, for a bit now it's heart started.  Another unfinished contractor job.

A friend shared her roast chicken recipe, years ago.....easy, but SO special.  Chicken, brined would be helpful,  fresh garlic and olive oil roasted over day old torn French bread croutons.....stacked along the pan's side, so each piece is soft, at the bottom. Chewy in the middle, and crunchy at the top.....bread, at the bottom....eats like dressing. Perfection!  Sometimes potatoes and thin long carrots.  More garlic....rough chopped.  More olive oil.....maybe some butter and bone broth, if too dry, at the end.....lots of sweet onions.  I'm making that for our small, early Thanksgiving dinner.  Everyone here enjoys my Grandma's stuffing, yams, squash casserole recip s....so, it's pretty traditional for us this year.

 I thought about Chinese too.  I bought coconut cream, honey pecan and pumpkin pies....more special than I can make.  It's been a while since we made Grandma's caramel recipe....or a toffee with dark chocolate with nuts recipe.  If it's your thing, everyone can wrap their favorite apples in dough, and decorate, for homemade apple dumplings.  I fill mine with a cinnamon sugar mix, and baste with cider.  I think it's a lovely ritual, I might bring back this year.  Happy fellowship...always turns out beautiful and yummy.

To playing, and healing. 

Yes.

Lighter





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There's one day of work left.  One day. 
Deck skirting.
Hanging ceiling fan and 2 HEAVY mirrors.
Bring and install drawer in upstairs vanity.

I think I can install the mirrors....a little worried about plumbing and plumbing vent pipes.

The skirting......I could just remove entirely, and maybe feel better about it, entirely.

The drawer, though......I need that drawer.

If contractor doesn't come back......bc he's been sick and maybe feels unmothered, (all I can think of, plus a small embarrassing mistake installing GFI outlets....wires under, instead of over, at nice neighbor's, requiring an electrician be hired)bc of it.....I can trade back his wet vac, stud finder and mud/grout stuff for the drawer.....and we'd be square.  Also, I could pet the goats and pigs.

The Mexican family, at lake, are happily considering the install of wedding "arch" and what employment opportunities a venue present for them. Same for me. They care for an elderly mother, and the husband isn't working.....his son is special needs......it seems like the universe is lining me up for her....for me....but then, maybe not.  But maybe, lol.

Maybe.

 I'll stick with that.

I'm definitely not going to Island for Thanksgiving.  I'm heading to lake..... that's the priority.

As for any updates, to island guest cottage......I depend on my real handyman, who house is eeper is angry with.  The thing is......she fell down (fig.) with the he water heater problem.  Left me hanging.....and so did her brother "caretaker." IF they were on top of, things they complained about, that's one thing.  They're not.  My brother solved the water heater problem, bc he was headed to island anyway.

My real handyman was late answering my text and wasn't available.  I think word got around..... he's been blamed for water leak and won't be brought back to work at cottage.

Which leads me ......
to this.....
"Caretaker" has to rise, and do repairs with me.  Replace bathroom walls.....paint everything.  Caulk.  I have no idea how the cistern is doing in his house.  He has no hot water heater, which means he comes and goes at the cottage, still. A problem...... maintenance and checks of the seawall wooden bridge.....the roof.  Many problems.

Maybe a new roof, seawall install and guesthouse project in January/February. I can ride with brother.  He can carry in materials?  Maybe?  Some, at least.  I can order roofing from Nassau and avoid the taxes, shipping and whatever dealing with local government requires now.

Seawall ......same, but requires a permit. Permit?  I think, ya....permit.

Maybe build a little house on unclaim d property, to prevent Cecil from claiming my end of it?

There's issues ...as always. 

Lighter







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