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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Predatory grooming
« Last post by lighter on May 24, 2026, 08:17:40 AM »Hops: My cousin is getting through court fine. The kids are grown..at University, and there's nothing to fight over, but drunken...."I don't want my wife to divorce me" drivel . At the last court hearing, the stbx had to leave, bc he "had an accident in the bathroom." This, after attempting to approach cousin, again, with TPO in place, and the attorney calling for the sheriff.
Lordy, if only the DD's empathy wasn't being weaponized by stbx.
Cousins all look and sound great.... we're visiting now. There's an odd letter from the court about the uncontested divorce and dismissal if something doesn't happen soon. Stbx has turned in zero discovery, btw.
The case with the child abuse, of three children, is with my friend's niece....and no one can tell her (the mom) anything, bc she knows everything, and is listening to two other moms, in the same court, who whip each other up in the worst possible way. One mom only has phone contact, with her children, on a special phone recording every word.....supervised everything.
Tough lessons, but they're not learning. I was so anxious, but accept she's choosing her path....... ignoring her attorney's advice, and hanging up on caring relatives paying her legal fees, and being present in every way.
It's self sabotage, and her nose is firmly on the stbx pebble.
Lighter
Lordy, if only the DD's empathy wasn't being weaponized by stbx.
Cousins all look and sound great.... we're visiting now. There's an odd letter from the court about the uncontested divorce and dismissal if something doesn't happen soon. Stbx has turned in zero discovery, btw.
The case with the child abuse, of three children, is with my friend's niece....and no one can tell her (the mom) anything, bc she knows everything, and is listening to two other moms, in the same court, who whip each other up in the worst possible way. One mom only has phone contact, with her children, on a special phone recording every word.....supervised everything.
Tough lessons, but they're not learning. I was so anxious, but accept she's choosing her path....... ignoring her attorney's advice, and hanging up on caring relatives paying her legal fees, and being present in every way.
It's self sabotage, and her nose is firmly on the stbx pebble.
Lighter