Recent Posts

Pages: 1 2 [3] 4 5 ... 10
21
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The island
« Last post by sKePTiKal on March 18, 2026, 07:46:36 AM »
I'll second that motion!

Potential marketing idea: there are a LOT of idealistic young people (with cash) looking for "off grid, primitive lifestyle" development projects. Personally, I'd never own anything near the ocean again but it IS a pleasant life for awhile.
22
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on March 17, 2026, 10:31:13 PM »

Large-scale population studies (like the NESARC survey) show a significant positive relationship between Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and Nicotine Dependence.  ???
23
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on March 17, 2026, 10:09:04 PM »

A friend of mine who I think is an oddball told me she has bags of stuffed animals. I think it's immature.

She told me though that hugging a stuffed animal releases dopamine & serotonin or something along those lines.

So when I went to the grocery store I hugged a stuffed chicken, a stuffed bunny, a stuffed pig.

I told the lady at the checkout that I hugged one of their stuffed animals and felt somewhat dumb as an adult and then she told me she has stuffed animals at home.

Maybe there is something to it.
24
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on March 17, 2026, 10:04:59 PM »

Yes, there are little free libraries around here.
25
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by Hopalong on March 17, 2026, 10:00:32 PM »
I'd say, go for it in spite of junk insurance, because I believe a smart, compassionate counselor can pop up anywhere. I remember being amazed at how much a MSW counselor in a big public hospital helped me once. I attended a group that was inspiring and then saw her individually for a while.

I think negative rumination is slow poison. It's like you are speaking to yourself in the righteous-justice voice you needed to hear, for validation long ago. Slowly, it can turn to positive, self-respecting thinking. And then you start to understand that you can in fact steer your own thoughts in a different direction.

My first effort was when I started asking myself to talk to myself with the kindness and love I'd give to any child. To actually become my own friend. It has helped a lot. I sometimes catch myself criticizing myself with sharpness the moment the day begins and I face my home's dishevelment. Lately, I've just been reminding myself how I love this sweet place and when I'm ready, even in small steps, I can make it beautiful again. Small steps are fine and perfection ain't the point.

What I'm saying to myself about myself is the most important thing.

hugs
Hops
26
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Hopalong on March 17, 2026, 09:52:39 PM »
Yeh, I have the same question about Kindle versus page. I know that writing in cursive strengthens a mind-hand connection, neurologically. With all the typing I do and my passive consumption of things like YouTube, I think it's time I head back to my original sources of inspiration: paper and pen, and BOOKS.

With ADHD I hesitated to take up the War and Peace challenge, but I did know people who felt they'd been to and absorbed another world in a time that sounded to me like a mind-altering experience. They'd kind of glow when they talked about it.

Read on, enjoy whatever you choose! Do you have Little Free Libraries in your area? There might be maps of these online.
27
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The island
« Last post by Hopalong on March 17, 2026, 06:36:36 PM »
Grrrrrrrr!

Sending Universe a suggestion to send Lighter a BUYER, toot sweet!

hugs
Hops
28
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: N.
« Last post by Meh on March 17, 2026, 04:37:12 PM »

Complaining and ruminating.


??? The Coping Mechanism: You develop a "Perpetual Courtroom" in your mind. You ruminate and complain to "prove" your case to an imaginary judge because, as a child, nobody ever stood up for you and said, "This is wrong." * You aren't "just complaining"; you are testifying to your own sanity. ???

Complaining why do it. It's based on stress and anger?

29
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on March 17, 2026, 04:00:24 PM »
Reading books exercises parts of our brains that reading online doesn't. I feel sure of that. What I'm NOT so sure of, is if reading Kindle books work on the same neural paths as a bound paper book does. There aren't any distraction in either books or Kindle... so MAYBE. And maybe not since it has an on/off switch.

Was the story good? Keep you engaged? That's one thing I'm seeing degraded by AI - stories are more simple & formulaic than even nursery rhymes - and have even less intellectual "nutrition". Books take up a lot of space - but there are still probably a couple hundred I won't part with.

I read Steinbeck because I was feeling lonely and maybe I'm a bit starved for stimulation. I've read other books by that author. The writing style makes it seem like there is a familiar person telling a story. It was engaging enough to me that I wanted to keep reading it. I read the summary of it first online and the plot didn't sound interesting to me with the biblical references and whatnot but actually I did like the book. I would recommend it yes. I had originally picked up for Whom the Bell Tolls read about 100 pages in and decided I didn't want to waste my time going further on that one as it felt bland to me. Just random books from free book shelves.

I don't own a kindle never tried one. This book had that rough paper edge so it was kind of uneven and yeah there is some kind of tactile thing about it which is nice. I don't remember what the book smells like I don't think I sniffed it. A book I guess is more like an artifact.. and this one had a sticker of someone's name and address in it. It's possible the person is deceased who originally owned it.

I wanted to mark the book up but I didn't it's too nice and I don't have a highlighter. There are strange points in the book that even remind me a bit of aspects of narcissism. There are two male characters that insist on projecting an image of how they want to see a person onto someone which isn't true and it ends kinda badly for them.

Anyhow yes it's a good book if someone reads the layers and reflects on it.

Yeah the AI and the arts is freaky, AI visual art, AI music, AI literature.

Was watching a video of an art lecture and a person in the video was pointing to a book they had. It has it's use for demonstration reasons. I was thinking also how I am seeing an image of an image of an image of someone's mind from a bygone time. People also complain about music digital files being compressed. There are people who analyze popular music and they say the compositions are less complex and people are using fewer chords.

It could be partially that people are not taking the time to make things well. And people are not taking the time to notice things are not made well. It's the fast food version of art I guess.
30
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Meh on March 17, 2026, 03:44:30 PM »
BRAVO, Meh! I admire this accomplishment. Cruising online has drop-kicked the magic of getting completely absorbed in a great book...

Is War and Peace next?

Hope that cuppa feels like a party in your heart. I'll hoist my next one to you.

hugs
Hops

Hahaha War and Peace. Not sure. I think I might go into a no-read mode for a while and get into a medical appointment making mode because setting appointments is like reading War and Peace.

I do think if one can only read a book every once in a while might as well make it worth it. Can a person get some kind of personal meaning from War and Peace do you think?

There was a thrift store I went to a while ago and there was a book on garlic and a book on being too controlling that jumped out at me. Of course they are not there anymore. I have faith that thrift stores have lots of random books for future reading.

I was reading Gulag Archipelago but I lost the book or rather maybe it's stuck in my storage unit same as being lost. And now I've probably paid over 1,000 to keep that stupid book in a stupid box.

Anyhow. I have no rigid list for reading I figure my intuition will figure it out that is what seems right to me.

Pages: 1 2 [3] 4 5 ... 10