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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by sKePTiKal on May 07, 2026, 08:42:08 AM »
Well - back in the younger days - I wore heels a LOT. Work and play. After an early intro (pre-80s) to Earth Shoes. Tai chi got me out of heels pretty much permanently. But I did notice, that ankle injuries felt better with some heels. Which seemed backwards to me. I did NOT wear stilletos then; I would tower over a lot of guys if I did. And if I put them on now, it's only for a short time - for effect. <big grin> At home. With the "do not disturb" sign on the door.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 07, 2026, 01:00:19 AM »

I've never owned or worn high heel shoes my entire life.

Feet are too wimpy for it.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: The Lake House
« Last post by lighter on May 06, 2026, 08:56:23 PM »
Haven't seen the Puerto Rican neighbors since the wife picked up the bedrail yesterday? And left us a basket of eggs.  The dh had a kidney stone, flat on the floor.  It's been pretty peaceful here, till I saw the clover was rotting at the roots from the straw contact....wet. Too wet, and by now matted under the clover and throughout.

We spent the entire day pulling up straw.....sewing bald patches with more seed.

A storm just came up fast, purple lightening flashing.....we ran to the back porch and watched the rain start.

Our backs will be wrecked tonight.  And our hands....elbows, from leaning on them.

Here's a pointer ..... don't plant in a draught. There are I'll be back breaking regret involved, IME.

Lighter

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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Hopalong on May 06, 2026, 08:50:06 PM »
Maybe she's looking for an adult-daughter aged friend?
Could be so nice if it works out.

Would she be able to come pick you up, if bus routes won't work?

I'll think of you when the day comes.

hugs
Hops
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I think he might be interested, Meh, but I'm not looking for anything intense. Just some company and conversation over a brew now and then is fine for me. Or not.

We're both volunteers for a local nonprofit (part of vtvnetwork.org), so we have that in common. Also, he reminded me of the kindly, scientific-nerdy types who worked with my father. I read a feature on his life in our newsletter (which I write, except for the "bio" features) and thought we'd enjoy a chat, so I reached out by email. He was pleased, and we've met up several times and have enjoyed it. Good organizations tend to attract good people, imo.

Lately I have been socially busier, you're right! But my overall introversion is way more powerful than I'd realized before. And that's okay too, just an adjustment.

I'm too overwhelmed by the home stuff to be more ambitious right now.

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 06, 2026, 08:00:39 PM »
So I went to a church group thing today again and one of the older ladies invited me to visit her house on mother's day. She says she doesn't have plans. It seems like the nicest thing ever. She does have adult grown kids but they live far away from her. I'm not sure if I can get there. Still considering it in the back of my mind.

She eventually told me today "most of us here have dysfunctional families" ... I didn't exactly tell her my relatives are dysfunctional I said it more like "fragmented."

These people can't be fooled they seem to read between the lines. Anywho.

I'm already tired for my day. Got some exercise didn't do any on Monday or Tuesday so today was the day.

Maybe I will take a nap and then get up and be productive idk.

I'm going to try to remember and change my password. If I never come back on it's because I've locked myself out.

There are 1743 total members on this board and there are only 3-4 regulars at this point?

🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋  I'm sleepy.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 06, 2026, 11:32:42 AM »



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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 06, 2026, 11:31:12 AM »

I have to ask AI

The Neurochemistry of Physical Play
When you engage in activities like skimboarding or wrestling with a dog, your brain isn't just "having fun"; it is performing a complex biological maintenance routine:

BDNF (Brain-Derived Neurotrophic Factor): Physical play acts like "Miracle-Gro" for the brain. It stimulates the growth of new neurons and strengthens connections in the prefrontal cortex, which is the area responsible for decision-making and emotional regulation.

The "Endocannabinoid" Rush: While people often credit endorphins, the "runner's high" or the joy of a trampoline park is often driven by endocannabinoids. These are naturally occurring chemicals that reduce pain and promote a sense of calm and well-being.

Dopamine and Novelty: Play requires reacting to unpredictable movements (a wave, a dog’s lunge, the bounce of a mat). This constant novelty keeps dopamine firing, which keeps you present and "in the zone."

Why Physical Play Relieves Stress Better
Stress usually triggers the Sympathetic Nervous System (the "fight or flight" response). In modern life, we often get stuck in this state without a physical outlet.

Completing the Stress Cycle: Physical play allows the body to "use up" the adrenaline and cortisol that build up during daily stress. It signals to the brain that the "threat" has been dealt with physically, allowing you to return to a Parasympathetic (rest and digest) state.

The Cerebellum Connection: The cerebellum, located at the base of the brain, is primarily responsible for motor control and balance. However, recent research shows it also plays a role in processing emotions. By engaging the cerebellum through balance-heavy activities like skimboarding, you may be inadvertently "quieting" the emotional centers of the brain that hold onto anxiety.

Vagal Tone: Wrestling or jumping can stimulate the vagus nerve, which is the main component of the parasympathetic nervous system. High vagal tone is associated with lower inflammation and better recovery from stress—especially helpful when your body is already physically taxed or sore.
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1. BDNF and the "Miracle-Gro" Effect
The term "Miracle-Gro for the brain" was popularized by Dr. John Ratey, a clinical associate professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.

Source: Ratey, J. J. (2008). Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain.

Play Specifics: Research by Sergio Pellis (The Playful Brain) demonstrates that "rough and tumble" play specifically reshapes the prefrontal cortex, enhancing executive function and emotional regulation.

2. The Endocannabinoid Rush (Runner's High)
Recent neuroscience has shifted the credit for the "exercise high" from endorphins to endocannabinoids (specifically anandamide), because endorphins are too large to easily cross the blood-brain barrier.

Source: Fuss, J., et al. (2015). "A runner's high depends on cannabinoid receptors in mice." Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS).

Source: Siebers, M., et al. (2021). "Exercise-induced euphoria and anxiolysis do not depend on endogenous opioids in humans." Psychoneuroendocrinology.

3. Completing the Stress Cycle
The concept that physical activity "completes" the biological stress response was developed by researchers looking at how animals shed stress after a threat.

Source: Nagoski, E., & Nagoski, A. (2019). Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle.

4. The Cerebellum and Emotion
While once thought to only handle balance, the cerebellum's role in emotion is a major focus in modern research.

Source: Schmahmann, J. D. (2004). "The cerebellum and cognition: Evidence from functional imaging studies." The Cerebellum.

5. Vagal Tone and Physical Play
The Vagus Nerve is the "brake pedal" for your heart and stress levels.

Source: Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 06, 2026, 11:26:44 AM »

I rarely play as I'm not very athletic or social but when I think about it the main forms of play that I recall are:

- trampoline park
- dog wrestling
- skimboarding

If I think of anything else I will put it down. I don't play that much. But frankly it seems to me playing is a physical practice at least it is for me.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on May 06, 2026, 11:21:43 AM »



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